Dinner Conversation Etiquette

Paunogara pasi pakudya nevomumhuri kana shamwari, zvichida unotarisira kuva nehurukuro inofadza inowedzera ruzivo. Kukurukurirana pamusoro pezvinhu zvakadai sekuzvivaraidza, zvinodiwa, uye kunyange mamiriro ekunze anonyaradza.

Kune dzimwe nyaya dzinoda kusara pamusuwo. Chinhu chekupedzisira chamunoda kuita ndechekudzivisa chishuvo cheumwe munhu nokutaura mazwi asina kukodzera kana akawandisa.

Kana iwe uine hanya kuti iwe unogona kutaura chimwe chinhu chausingafaniri, gadzira rongedzo rwevatambi vekutaura usati watanga kudya.

Izvi zvinogona kukubatsira kuti uchengetedze uye udzivirire kuputika kworurimi runogona kuisa nguva isina kufadza yekudya nguva.

Nyaya dzinofadza

Edza kuchengetedza hurukuro yako yekudya nguva inofadza. Chimwe chinhu chisinganzwisisiki chisina kukakavara chakanakisisa, kunze kwekuti munhu wese ari patafura awedzere kubudirira pamakakavhiringidza. Kana usina chokwadi nezvevamwe kushivirira kwevanhu, usarera chero chinhu chingaita kuti mudumbu reumwe munhu usimbise.

Shandisa nguva yakawanda kuteerera pane kutaura. Vanhu vazhinji vanonakidzwa nekugovana zvavanosangana nazvo uye kunzwa pamusoro pevako, asi kana vasingakwanisi kuwana izwi mukati-kati nekuti haugone kuchengeta muromo wako wakavhara, iwe uchatorwa semuviri. Iva nehurukuro yakawanda-shure-uye-iyo sezvaunokwanisa.

Heino urongwa hwezvakachengeteka, nyaya dzinofadza dzaungada kuzokurukura:

• Zvokudya - Iko nguva dzose pfungwa yakanaka yekukurukura zvaunoda nezvekudya iwe uri kudya. Muchengeti kana mutevedzeri achafarira, uye kana munhu wose achidya kudya kumwe chete, vanogona kuwedzera pfungwa dzavo. Iwe unogona kunge uchida kuwedzera anecdote nezvezvokudya zvakafanana kana kukumbira kamukira.

• Matizhonga - Rumbidzo yakanaka ichakuda iwe kune vamwe kuti uwane chimwe chinhu chakanakidza kutaura pamusoro pekufuka kweumwe munhu, zvishongo, kana bvudzi. Iwe unogona kudzidza mamwe mazano emafashoni kana ukapa mumwe munhu mukana wekupindura.
• Mimhanzi - Vanhu vazhinji vanonakidzwa nemhando yemimhanzi, saka inowanzova nyaya yakachengeteka patafura. Iwe unogona kugoverana pfungwa pamusoro pevanyori vako vanofarira kana vanyori uye utaure pamusoro pekambani kana symphony yaunofarira zvikuru.
  

Misoro Inofadza Yokudzivisa Patafura

Hapana gakava rakabvumirwa. Kunyangwe iwe unogona kufara kutanga kana kukonzera kukakavara, tafura yekudya kwekudya haisi nzvimbo yakanakisisa yekuita. Mirira kusvikira mushure mekudya kwapera uye uwane munhu anogona kukufananidza iwe mumakakatanwa. Mukuru wako haazokoshesa nharo mushure mekupedza zuva rose mukicheni kugadzirira kudya.

Kune nzira imwe chete yekuita fry hove. Edza kusanzwikawo mafungiro asina kupa vamwe mukana wekutaura pfungwa dzavo nemanzwiro avo. Iwe hausi kuda kuuya semuzivi-iyo-zvose.

Nharo dzinokakavara hazvisi kunyadzisa. Unhu huri hwakanaka chero bedzi husiri hunyengeri kana huri kukwidzwa kune mumwe munhu, kunyange kana iye asipo. Iwe hauzombozivi kuti ndiani anoziva munhu wacho, kana kuti akaipa, angave akabatanidzwa.

Edza kusazvidzivirira. Kana mumwe munhu aita mhinduro iyo inoratidzika isinganzwisisiki, shandura nyaya yacho kuti isadzivisa kukakavara patafura. Mikana ndeyekuti, mumwe munhu achabata mazano uye anotevedzera mutungamiri wako.

Usava makuhwa pamusoro pese. Iyi ingano isina kunaka inogona kuparadza kudya kwevanhu vakawanda. Kutaura zvinhu zvinokuvadza pamusoro pevanhu zvinokonzera vamwe kuti vasakuvimba newe nokuti vanofunga kuti iwe uchaita zvakafanana kana vasipo.

Ngwarira pamusoro pokuzvikudza. Kana iwe uchida kutaura chimwe chinhu chinoshamisa mwana wako akaita, zvakanaka kana iwe uchipa vamwe mukana wekuita zvakafanana. Iva nechokwadi chokuti iwe unopa vamwe chikwereti nokuda kwezvavanofunga. Usambopinda mumutambo we-one-upsmanship. Hapana anohwina, uye kudya kwekudya kuchaparara.

Zvakaipa, gorofu kufema. Usambogadzirisa mumwe munhu. Kana mumwe munhu akataura chimwe chinhu chisina kukwana, unogona kumbomira, kunyorera, uye kupa maonero akasiyana. Kana munhu wacho atanga kukakavara, kunyemwerera uye kuchinja nyaya yacho.

Mimwe misoro yekudzivisa:

• Mishonga - Matambudziko ehutano, zvikurukuru kana akanganisa mvura yemvura, achaparadza vanhu vakawanda kuda kwekungozvitaura chete. Kunze kwekuti iwe uri kufara kudya nachiremba, vanachiremba, uye vamwe vasingatauri pakuona kwechirwere ropa, zvakanakisisa kusiya mutauro iwoyo pane imwe nguva.

• Zera revanhu - Kunyange zvazvo iwe ungave uine chido chekugara uchiri kukwegura, iwe munhu agere mhiri kwetafura angave akaora mwoyo nekukwegura. Usabvunza zera remumwe munhu kana kukurukura chiito chekukura.
• Zvematongerwe enyika - Kunze kwekunge kudya kwekudya kuchiitwa mukukudza mutungamiri wezvematongerwo enyika kana kuti chiri kuitika pakati pegungano rezvematongerwe enyika, siya zvose kutaura zvematongerwo enyika kwenguva pfupi.
• Chitendero - Usambogumbusa munhu wechitendero chakasiyana. Kana munhu wacho anopa minyengetero kana chikomborero vasati vadya, ivairemekedze uye mutevere mutungamiri wake. Iwe unogona kutaura iwe pachako munyengetero wega woga kana uri wechitendero chakasiyana, asi usambozviti iwe pachako paunenge uchidaro.

Misoro Iyo dzimwe nguva Yakanaka asi Kwete Nguva dzose

Pane zvimwe zvaunogona kutaura mune mamwe mapoka asi kwete mune vamwe. Kunyange zvazvo mamwe mhuri uye mapoka evamwe vanogona kubudirira pane zviitiko zvezvino, pane vamwe vanovhiringidzwa nyore uye vanogona kuwana mhando dzekukurukurirana kusagadzirisa. Vimba nehutano hwemagariro evanhu pavanenge vari patafura. Shandisa kutonga kwako uye teerera kune zviratidzo.

Zvinyorwa zvekudya zvemasikati:

• Nhasi zviitiko - Kukurukurirana kwezviitiko zvegory kana chipi zvacho chinonzi racially zvinoratidzira kuratidza kutadza kunakidza munguva yekudya.
• Chikoro kana basa - Makirasi, zviitiko zvisingafadzi zvekuchikoro, uye nharaunda yebasa inogona kunge inofadza, asi inogonawo kugumbura vamwe.
• Mitambo - Zvinonakidza kuva neboka raunoda uye kuratidza mweya wemauto, asi kuisa vaviri vevadzidzi vekoroji patafura imwe chete, uye iwe ungada kukoka mureza asati adya.
• Mitengo - Vazhinji vanhu vanogona kuita zvekutengesa pamusoro pemutengo wechinenge chero chinhu, asi hazvina kumbodzana kubvunza mumwe munhu zvaakabhadhara pamotokari, imba, chipfeko, kana chero chero munhu zvake. Ngwarira paunenge uchitaura nezvemari yakabatana, kunyanya patafura yezvokudya. Iwe unogona kukonzera kusununguka.

Dhafura yekudya ndiyo nzvimbo yekuuya pamwe chete, ita hurukuro, kuseka, uye kunakidzwa neshamwari nemhuri. Ramba uchikurukurirana chiedza uye uchiratidza kuratidza ruremekedzo kune muenzi uye kune vamwe vaenzi .