Mumakore mashoma akapfuura, hurukuro yezvematongerwo enyika yakave yakanyanya kupisa. Paiva nenguva apo vanhu vakanaka vakanga vasingafanirwi kukurukura mumagariro evanhu (zvematongerwo enyika nechitendero), asi nhasi, iyo inoratidzika seyiyo yakasimba zvikuru.
Kutaura zvazviri, kukurukura nezvematongerwo enyika kunogona kujekesa uye kuve nehukama muhukama chero bedzi zvichiitwa nekuremekedza. Zvinosuruvarisa, ruremekedzo chinhu chinowanzowedzera pfungwa.
Kana kambani kukurukurirana kwezvematongerwe enyika kunotanga, vanhu vanotanga nevanakisisa vavariro vanowanzodzivirira uye vanobva vanyangadza
Ngwarira paunotaurirana nezvematongerwo enyika. Kana iwe usingachenjeri, kukurukurirana kwezvematongerwe enyika muhofisi kunogona kukuvadza mukurumbira wako pahofisi uye kunokuvadza hutariro yako yekusimudzira hurumende . Paunopinda mukukakavadzana neshamwari , unogona kukuvadza kunyange hukama hurefu kwenguva refu. Uye kana iwe uchida kuti iwe utaure iwe patafura yekudya kwemanheru panguva yekudya kwemhuri , unogona kukonzera kusununguka kune avo vanokuda zvikuru.
Chinhu chimwe chete chatinofanira kuyeuka ndechekuti tirades, rants, uye zita-kudana hazvingazombokunda mumwe munhu asingabvumirani. Zvinogona kuita kuti unzwe zviri nani kwenguva pfupi, asi mushure mechinguva, unogona kuzvidemba zvimwe zvezvinhu zvawakataura panguva yekupisa kwechinguvana. Kunyange kana iwe usingaiti, shamwari dzave dzichiiswa pasi pekutsamwa kwako dzinogona kufamba rwendo rwakapoteredza iwe munguva yemberi.
Iwe haungatarisi, uye kana zvakadaro, izvi hazvisi kwauri. Zvisinei, kana iwe uine hanya kunyange zvishoma, hezvino mamwe mazano ekuti iwe ungaratidza sei ruremekedzo kune vamwe sezvaunotaura nezvekutenda kwako kwezvematongerwo enyika:
- Ziva zvaunogona kuita iwe nevamwe. Kana iwe uri mumwe munhu anoda sangano rinorema-rezvematongerwe enyika, enda mberi uye ugove nazvo. Kune rumwe rutivi, kana iwe ukangotsamwiswa nyore uye uchinge uchinge wakagumburwa kana mumwe munhu achirwisa maonero ako ezvematongerwo enyika, usarega hurukuro ichienda munharaunda iyoyo. Hapana chikonzero mukukuvadza ukama hwakanaka huri nani nekuda kwehurukuro yezvematongerwo enyika iyo ichakusiya iwe uchinetseka kana kutsamwa.
- Teerera. Ipa munhu wese mukana wekutaura usati waputsa muhurukuro yakareba. Kutaura kubva pane zvakaitika, ndinoziva zvakaoma kusavhiringidza kana iwe uchibvumirana kana usingawirirani zvikuru nechimwe chinhu chinotaurwa.
- Dzivisa inzwi rinopomera. Kana kukakavadzana kuchisvika, edza kuchengeta inzwi rako kunyange uye pasina chikonzero chokupomera mumwe munhu kuva chinhu chisina kunaka (benzi, usingazivi, unzenza, kana chero chinhu chinogona kutanga kukakavadzana).
- Dzivisa zita-kudana. Chechipiri mumwe munhu akadana mumwe munhu muboka iro zita rinoshora, hurukuro iri pangozi. Usave munhu uyo.
- Bvunza mibvunzo. Kana iwe usingafungi pane imwe pfungwa iyo mumwe munhu arikuita-mungave muchibvumirana kana musingabvumirani-bvunza mibvunzo chaiyo kuti ijekese. Uye zvino ipe munhu wacho mukana wekupindura asinganetseki. Iwe unogona kushamisika uye kudzidza chimwe chinhu paanopindura.
- Usatora chero chinhu chako pachako. Mumwe munhu angapesana zvachose nekutenda kwezvematongerwe enyika, asi kana ari shamwari yako, zviri pachena kuti anokuda iwe somunhu. Usazvifunga iwe pachako uchitarisana chete nokuti mumwe munhu haabvumirani nemaonero ako ezvematongerwo enyika.
- Usanamatira miseve kana kushandisa mutauro wakaipa. Kana iwe uchiziva kuti iwe uripo kune mumwe munhu ane maonero anopikisa, usatora jabs kune vanhu vanotenda zvaanoita uye vasingashandisi mazwi akapika. Izvo zvinongotadzisa kukanganisa pakati pako, uye iwe unogona kusambogone kugadzirisa ukama munguva yemberi. Mutauro wemapolisi uchaita kuti vamwe vateerere uye vabatanidze muhurukuro.
- Tsvakurudza. Usati wataura chimwe chinhu sezvokwadi, tsvaga tsanangudzo. Nharo yako haingasimuki kana iwe usingafungi kana kusareva zvisizvo. Chenjerera uyo kana zvaunotora. Chinhu chimwe chandakawana chinonakidza ndechekuti, "Ndinoiverenga pane imwe nzvimbo." Ndinoda kuziva kuti munoiverenga uye ndiani akanyora.
- Tsvaga nzvimbo yakafanana. Usafungidzira kuti nekuda kwekuti iwe unotevera sangano rezvematongerwo enyika rinopesana rausingawirirani pazvinhu zvose. Panofanira kunge pane chimwe chinhu chaunogona kubvumirana nacho, kana iwe hausi shamwari.
- Rumbidzai. Kana mumwe munhu achiita pfungwa yakanaka, kunyange kana iwe usingabvumirani nemafungiro akazara, kumupa chikwereti nokutaura chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Ndinogona kuona pfungwa yako," kana kuti "Zvino zvaunoisa nenzira iyo, zvinonzwisisika . " Kutaura izvi zvinoratidza kuti iwe unoteerera, uye iwe unoremekedza mafungiro emumwe munhu, kunyange iwe usingabvumi.