Tevera tsika dzakanaka uye usadzivisa makuhwa anonyadzisa.
Makuhwa haakanganisi, zvisinei kuti unoiona sei. Kuparadzira runyerekupe runyerekupe hakungorikuvadza chete nyaya yenyaya, inokuita kuti utarise zvakaipa nenzira isina kunaka uye isina kufanana. Vanhu vazhinji vanoseka kuti vawane kutarisa uye kuzviita kuti vanzwe vari nani, asi pakufamba kwenguva, inowanzopora.
Pasinei nokuti iwe unozviita neshamwari dzako mune zvekugara kwevanhu kana kutaura nezvomumwe munhu nehofisi yekhofi yepahofisi, iwe uchasangana semunhu akaduku asina kumbodzidza tsika dzakanaka uye asingazivi maitiro ake.
Kana iwe uri tsika yokunyomba, vamwe vachazopedzisira varasikirwa netariro kwauri sewe shamwari. Haisi kungoratidza kuratidzira kwakaipa kunoshungurudza ushamwari uye kunokuvadza ukama hwehutano. Kana iwe uchitaura chimwe chinhu, hazvibviri kuzvitora, saka funga iwe usati wataura.
Mhemberero Yega
Kana mumwe weshamwari dzako akaita chimwe chinhu chausingadi, pane nzira mbiri dzakakodzera dzokuita nadzo: Taura naye uye utaure nyaya yako, kana kuti uisiye woga uye rega nyaya yacho irege kupera. Kana pane nyaya inoramba iripo, iwe unogona kunge uri nani pakurukurukura nemunhu, asi zvose zvaunoita, usazvitora kune mumwe munhu. Yeuka kuti hapana munhu akakwana, kusanganisira iwe, uye unoda kurapa shamwari dzako dzose noruremekedzo nekukudza Itaurwa.
Kuita makuhwa inzira yakadaro yakajeka kuwira mukati, isu kazhinji hatizivi kuti tiri kuzviita. Tinotanga kutaura kuti chimwe chinhu chinotyisa, uye zvino mumwe munhu angapa mhinduro inotanga hurukuro yakazara.
Mhinduro shomanana inogona kukurudzira kutora hupenyu hwayo uye inoshanduka kuva chimwe chinhu chisati chiri zana muzana.
Apo runyereku runodzokera kumusoro wekunyomba, iye anogona kunge akatsamwa. Kana iwe ukaudzwa chinhu chimwe nechivimbo, shamwari yako haizombokwanisi kukuvimba zvakare.
Zvinoda kushanda nesimba kuti urege tsika ipi zvayo yakaipa.
Kana iwe uchinge uchinge uchinge uchingotaura zvakaipa kune mumwe munhu, mira uye funga usati washamisa muromo wako. Ita tsika yekutaura nenzira yakajeka.
Office Gossip
Mubati wako akakudana kubva pane kukanganisa, uye iwe wakatsamwira, saka iwe unofuratira kumashure rako uye unosvina chinhu chakaipa chine chokuita nemutariri wako anouya mupfungwa. Zvichida kana kwete ichokwadi, iyi ndeimwe nzira nzira makuhwa inotanga.
Sezvo kambani inokura kana inopera, vanhu vanofarira chitchat pamusoro pezvinoitika. Vanogona kutanga nejoko rechokwadi uye vachirirova kunze. Iwe usati wazviziva, runyerekupe kuti kambani iri kubuda mubhizinesi inotuma munhu wose muTazzzy, uye inogona kutomesa kukuvadza bhizinesi iyo iyo inopa mubhadharo wako, zvichiita kuti makuhwa ako aipupure kuporofita.
Chimwe chinhu chaunogona kuwana ndechekuti mahofisi mazhinji ane ma-clique. Rimwe boka rinoda kuita mutambo musi weChishanu manheru mushure mebasa, uye vanopa matani ezvinyorwa zvevhiki inouya mvura inononoka mishumo yekunyengera. Rimwe boka rakanyarara, uye chakavanzika chinenge chakakomberedza chinotungamirira vamwe kuti vataure ne "chii kana" ndokufungidzira zvavanofunga kuti zvinenge zvichiitika. Kana mumwe munhu ari kutambudzika kumba, uye vanhu vanouya nemhando dzose dzezvinhu zvingave zvichiitika.
Usati wazviziva, nhaurirano yacho haibviri kudzora, uye gorosi rinokurudzira rinenge rakazara throttle.
School Gossip
Pasinei nokuti uri kuchikoro kana iwe wakapedza makumi emakore apfuura, unogona kuyeuka kuti nokukurumidza makuhwa anogona kupararira sei nechikoro . Apo mumwe munhu angave anozivikanwa nekubiridzira pachirwere nokuti aigara ari mudzidzi weC asi akaita A kana mumwe munhu akasarudza zvishoma zvishoma kwevhiki. Pasinei nokuti runyerekupe ichokwadi kana kuti nhema, kana ikatanga kupararira, yakafanana nechitima chekutakura chinonetsa kumira. Inogona kutanga ne jeers uye kuseka, asi makuhwa kuchikoro anogona kuparadza mukurumbira.
Etiquette yekubata neGossip
Kana iwe uchiedzwa kuti uve makuhwa, mira uye funga kwemasekondi mashomanana. Chimbofunga kuti zvaizoita sei kana iwe uri wekutaura chero chipi zvacho chauri kuda kutaura. Yeuka kuti hazvina kukodzera kutaura chimwe chinhu chisiri chechokwadi, uye kunyange kana chiri icho, chii chinobatsira?
Mikana ndeyekuti, hapana zvikomborero, kunze kwekunge iwe uchida kunyevera mumwe munhu nezvekuuya kwechinetso. Kana zvirizvo, tora maonero kune vane masimba vane simba vanogona chaizvo kuita chimwe chinhu pamusoro pazvo.
Mazano ekudzivirira makuhwa:
- Mira uye shandura nyaya yacho. Kana munhu achangotanga makuhwa, funga nezvechimwe chikonzero. Kana munhu wepakutanga achiedza kudzokera shure kune makuhwa, kumupa iye kutarisa kwakasimba uye shandura zvakare.
- Usanyunyutira pamberi pevamwe. Kunyange kana iwe usingatauri nezvomumwe munhu, zvinoratidzika iwe uye unogona kukuvadza manzwiro evanhu vari pedo newe.
- Tsigira nyaya yacho. Kunyange kana izvo zviri kutaurwa ndezvokwadi, dzivirira munhu wacho nenzira yakanyatsonaka. Kana iwe uchiziva kuti makuhwa acho ndeye nhema, taura izvozvo. Kana pane chiyo chechokwadi kana iwe usina chokwadi, taura kuti iwe hauzive mamiriro ezvinhu shure kwezviri kutaurwa, uye iwe hausi kuda kuramba uchikurukura nehurukuro iyi.
- Siya. Kana makuhwa achienderera mberi, ingoenda. Vanhu vanoita zvose zvinotyisa kutaura vachawana mharidzo. Ingochenyirwa, zvakadaro, kuti iwe unogona kunge uri wehurukuro inotevera yechirume.