Zvokutaura kuNosy People

Tose takabvunzwa mibvunzo isina musoro iyo isiri yebhizimisi romumwe munhu. Kunyange zvazvo munhu wose achikwira iye zvino, vamwe vanhu vanoratidzika seve vane knack nguva dzose vanonamatira tsoka dzavo mumuromo wavo kana kuita zvimwe zvekugarisana nevamwe. Unogona kupindura mubvunzo uye enda kune imwe nyaya, asi haufaniri.

Tora Nzira Yakakwirira

Vanhu ava kazhinji havazivi kuti vari kuratidza tsika dzakashata , asi kunyange kana vachiziva zvavari kuita, haufaniri kumbomira kuti udzoke kwavari nemitemo yakaipa. Zviri kwauri kana iwe uchida kuvapa mhinduro, usazviteerera, kana kubvunza kuti nei vachida kuziva chero zvazviri. Kudzoka kwako kunofanira kutaurwa nekumwemwerera uye kunyange inzwi. Kana zvichibvira, shandisa kuseka kuti unyorove mhinduro yako, uye shandura nyaya yacho.

Iva Wakagadzirira

Nokuda kwezviitiko zvaunozviwana uri munzvimbo isina kunaka yekubvunzurudzwa nemunhu ane utsinye, unofanirwa kuzvigadzirisa nemamwe mhinduro dzinomuita kuti azive kuti iwe unofunga kuti mibvunzo haina kunaka. Kune nzira dzakawanda dzokubata nadzo vanhu ava: nemhinduro ivo vari kutsvaga, neveppy returnback, kana nenzira yekuita kuti vazive kuti iwe unozviona zvakashata nekuda kwekubvunza mubvunzo wakadaro.

Ita Zvikwereti

Mimwe mibvunzo isina kunaka inowanzouya kakawanda kupfuura vamwe. Usati wabuda kunze kwemukova, ita chisarudzo chekuramba uine tsika dzakanaka uye usati uri munhu unoziva. Kana iwe uri pamagumo ekugashira, gadzirira nemhinduro dzinoita kuti mumwe munhu azive zvaunofunga pamusoro pokushushikana kwake nehuwandu hwakawanda sezvaunokwanisa kutarisira.

Kana iwe uine vana , tanga mangwanani uye uvadzidzise mibvunzo isingafaniri kubvunza. Vana vakawanda vane ruzivo rwekutsvaga, saka rondedzerai kune kukurukurirana kwakakodzera.

• 01 of 07

  Unoita mari yakawanda sei?

  Uyu mubvunzo pamusoro pemari wakawanda, kunyange zvazvo unonzi usina musoro uye usingadi kubvunza. Iwe une dzimwe nzira dzakasiyana-siyana pamusoro pekugadzirisa nayo. Mhinduro yako ichave yakasiyana kana munhu anokumbira ndeye waanoshanda naye kana mubvunzo wacho uchibva kune mumwe munhu agere pedyo newe padiza .

  Mhinduro yakajeka ndeyekuti iwe hauzotauri nezvemari kune mumwe munhu asi iwe wako. Vanhu vazhinji vanobvuma izvozvo, asi vamwe vanonyanyisa kukunyengetedza kana kukutuka kuti uwane mhinduro yavo. Usawa nekuda kwayo. Ramba uchishandura nyaya kusvikira munhu atora mharidzo.

  Chimwe chinhu chaunogona kuita ndechekuti, "Zvakakwana kubhadhara mari yangu uye kufara zvishoma," kana "Hazvikwanisi kuita zvose zvandinoda kuita. Ko iwe?"

• 02 of 07

  Wakabhadhara zvakadini imba iyoyo?

  Heano mumwe mubvunzo wemari usingakodzeri mhinduro. Zvisinei, kuva munhu anokudzwa iwe iwe, unogona kupindura nechinhu chakadai, "Ndakabhadhara kukosha kwemahombekombe kune dzimba munharaunda. Imba inofadza chaizvo iyo yainzwa seimba pandakangopinda mumusuo. "Kurumidza kuchinja nyaya yacho kuitira kuti munhu azive kuti wapedza kukurukura nezvekutengesa imba. Kana iye achiri kuda kuziva, kutengeswa kweimba kunonyorwa, uye inogona kuwanika paIndaneti nemunhu anoziva kuita webhu.

• 03 of 07

  Iwe uchiri wakaroora here?

  Vakawanda varume nevasikana vasina kuroorwa vari mumakore makumi maviri ekupedzisira uye kutanga kwemashumi matatu vakanzwa izvi. Mubvunzo wakabvunzwa neshamwari yakanaka kana shamwari yepedyo inoda kuti iwe ufare. Zvisinei, kuzvinzwa nekudzoka kuchaita kuti iwe ufare asi.

  Kana iwe uchiri wakaroora, taurira munhu kuti hauna kuwana munhu waunoda kupedza hupenyu hwako naye, asi kana ukaita, uchawana shoko kune vose vanoda kuziva. Sezvimwe nemimwe mimwe mibvunzo, shandura nyaya yacho.

• 04 of 07

  Wakawana (kana kurasikirwa) kuyerwa here?

  Kana munhu wacho achibuda uye achikumbira nezvekurema kwako kuchinja, zvinogona kunge zviri pachena, uye mikana iwe wakaisa (kana kurasikirwa) mashoma mapaundi kana kupfuura. Apo mumwe munhu anouya pakarepo uye anotaura mazwi aya asingatauri, kunyemwerera uye oti, "Ndiri kunakidzwa. Zvakadini newe? "Izvozvo zvinofanira kuwana pfungwa iyo iwe usingadi kukudza mubvunzo usina musoro nemhinduro.

• 05 of 07

  Mwana wako aripi?

  Kana iwe uri nepamuviri , mukana iwe wakazvizivisa kune wese waunoda kuziva. Kune nguva apo vakadzi vanorema kana kupfeka zvipfeko izvo zvinoita kuti vaone sevari pamuviri kana vasina kuwana imwechete.

  Iwe une nzira dzakawanda dzekupindura kumubvunzo uyu usina musoro. Iwe unogona kuti iwe hausi pamuviri uye rega munhu wacho awedzere kunetseka uye kunyadziswa (kana munhu wacho ari rudzi rwekunyara), kana iwe unogona kupa zuva makore mashomanana kure. Kana munhu asina hanya achioneka akavhiringidzika, ati, "Bill neni taifunga kuti tingamirira makore mashomanana tisati tatanga mhuri." Uye usasapfeka chipfeko icho zvakare kana kuwedzera bhanhire kana iwe usingadi kubvunzwa Mubvunzo iwoyo zvakare.

• 06 of 07

  Unoronga rini kutanga mhuri?

  Vakawanda vakaroorana vanobvunzwa mubvunzo uyu. Kana shamwari yepedyo kana hama yako yakubvunza, iwe ungada kupa mhinduro yakatendeseka. Zvisinei, kana mubvunzi ari kungova busyy, taura kuti paminiti iwe wataura mhiko dzako dzomuchato, iwe wakazviti iwe mhuri. Smile uye shandura nyaya yacho.

• 07 of 07

  Mimwe mibvunzo isina kunaka

  Kune huwandu hwemibvunzo yakashata-uye vanhu vanovabvunza-kuti iwe unogona kushandisa zuva rose uchifunga mhinduro uye zvipi. Panzvimbo pokuderedza nguva yako inokosha, ivai nemhinduro shoma dzakawanda dzinoshanda mumamiriro akasiyana-siyana.

  Heano mimwe mienzaniso yekuti ungapindura sei:

  • "Sei iwe ungabvunza mubvunzo wakaipa kudaro?"
  • "Ndine chirongwa chekuti tisazokurukurirana nyaya iyi nemunhu wese asina hanya."
  • Simira, kunyemwerera, uye uti, "Wakanyatsondibvunza here?"
  • "Handisi kunyanya kubata chirevo ichocho. Ngatitaure pamusoro pechinhu chimwe.
  • "Unoziva here kuti kusagadzirisa mubvunzo iwoyo ndechipi?"
  • Tora danho shure kuti uwane imwe nzvimbo yako uye uti, "Handizopinduri mubvunzo iwoyo."