Nzira Yokutanga Nhaurirano

Vamwe vanhu vanoita sevanonyanya kukurukurirana uye vanogona kukurukura chero munhu ari mukati mokuteerera vamwe apo vamwe vanogara vachitya kuti vanofanira kutaura kune mumwe munhu wavasingazivi. Kudzidza kutanga kukurukurirana kunoda kunzwisiswa humwe hutsika hutsika hutsika uye zvishoma zvedzidzo.

Nheyo dzeMagariro Evanhu Kuyeuka

• Iwe unoda kunzwisisa kuti hausi wega. Vanhu vazhinji vanotambura nekunyara kana kushamwaridzana nevasingazivi kana vanhu vavasingazivi. Kana uchinge waona kuti vamwe vari kunyanya kunetseka pamusoro pezvaunofunga pamusoro pavo kupfuura zvaunotaura, iwe unofanirwa kuenda kune imwe nzvimbo yevanhu uye mune chivimbo.

• Iwe haufaniri kuva neupenzi hwakanyanya kana wakachenjera kuti utange kukurukura. Kungotanga kuburikidza nekukwazisa mumwe munhu nekuzvizivisa iwe nenzira yakarurama yekuratidza ushamwari uye kuda kuputsa mazaya. Vanhu vakawanda vachabvuma zviri nani kumunhu ane tsika dzakanaka kune mumwe munhu anoedza zvakaoma kuti afadze.
• Inzwisise kuti havasi vose vanozopindura kumeso enyu ane ushamwari. Kunyangwe iwe unotarisana nemukana wekunzwa sekunge uri kutaura nerusvingo, izvozvo hazvifaniri kuva dambudziko rako. Usafunganya nezvazvo nokuti dambudziko hausi iwe; ndiye mumwe munhu.

Iva Wakagadzirira

Hapana chakakanganisika nekugadzirira usati wafamba mune zvemagariro kana bhizimisi apo iwe unoda kukurukurirana. Kuita zvishoma zvekuchikoro kunogona kuita musiyano mukuru pakati pekuve nechivimbo chekutaura kune mumwe munhu wausingazivi kana kuzviwana iwe umire pakona ikatya iwe uchaita benzi iwe kana ukazarura muromo wako.

Kugadzirira sei:

• Edza kutsvaga kuti ndiani achavapo uye adzidze chinhu chimwechete pamusoro pemunhu mumwe nomumwe.
• Iva nemashoma mashoma ekuzarura mitsara kuitira kudzivisa kuva mutauro-akasungwa. Mimwe mienzaniso ndeyekuti, "Wave wakashanda kwenguva yakareba sei kwekambani?" "Wasvika kwenguva yakareba sei muenzi?" Uye "Wakambova nemukana wekunakidzwa nezvose izvi zvakanaka mamiriro ekunze isu tagara?"

• Dzidzira kugunun'una maoko nemumwe wako, chimwe chinokosha, kana shamwari yakanakisisa.

Iva Shamwari

Svetera ushamwari kuti uratidze ushamwari huri. Kunyemwerera kushamwari ndeimwe yemhando dzakanakisisa dzechikepe dzinogona kupa. Kuva neshamwari kunonyanya kunakidza pane kutanga kukurukura pamusoro pako pachako kana kuratidza kuti iwe urikurumidza. Kuvhura nemashoko mashomanana emutsa kunogona kuva yakachengeteka zvakanyanya kudarika kuedza kuita kuti mumwe munhu aseke nokuti kuseka kunopfurikidza.

Kushamwaridzana neshamwari:

• Wedzera ruoko rwako uye taura zita rako.
• Ita uye ubatisane nemeso apo iwe unonyemwerera ushamwari
• Zivisai uye mubvunze mubvunzo wakajeka. Somuenzaniso, unogona kuti, "Hi, ini ndiri Susan. Iwe unofarira sei mamiriro ekunze aya ave isu? "

Tarisa kunze Kwako

Imwe yenzira dzakanakisisa dzekurega kunetseka pamusoro pekukurukurirana ndeyekutora iwe pachako. Ita izvi pamusoro pomumwe munhu. Kana iwe ukaona mumwe munhu waunoda kutaurirana navo, swedera kwaari uye utaure pamusoro pechinhu chaunofunga kuti chingava chakanaka. Iva akatendeseka uye ugare kure nemitsetse yakashata.

Heano mimwe mimwe mienzaniso yekuzarura mashoko:

• "Ndakaona kuti wakasarudza sushi . Ndagara ndichifarira zvokudya zveJapan, asi handizivi zvekudya zvekuAsia dzakanaka munzvimbo iyi. Unogona kukurudzira mumwe here? "
• "Ndakanzwa iwe uri mumhanyi. Wakamboita gore re 5K yeguta here? "

• "Wave uchiziva kwenguva yakareba sei (isa zita remukuru wacho)?"
• "Wakaenda kuchikoro kupi?"

Dzidza kutora zvisiri izvo kubva kune mumwe munhu. Paanenge achibvunza mibvunzo pamusoro pake kana kuti iye angabatsira kubvisa ice, vamwe vanhu havafariri kutaura pamusoro pavo. Kana ukawana mhinduro dzakatemwa uye kutarisa kwechando, zvichida pfungwa yakanaka yekuwana imwe nyaya.

Beyond Hello

Iwe unogona kungotaura pamusoro pemamiriro ekunze kwenguva yakawanda musati wanyomba mumwe munhu, saka tanga kutungamirira hurukuro mune imwe nzira kana uchida kuramba uchidaro. Nguva dzose iva wakarurama uye uchitevera hongu-hapana mubvunzo nemashoko kana chimwe mubvunzo kuti uchengetedze hurukuro yacho. Kana iwe ukagara kwenguva yakakwana iwe unogona kuwana rufaro rwakafanana runotora.

Kutanga Kutanga Kwemazvimbo Anonyanya Kukurukura

Tora nzvimbo yako uchifungisisa paunotanga hurukuro.

Iwe haungamboiti kubvunza waunoshanda naye mubvunzo wakadaro wewe mubvunzo waungabvunza mumwe munhu waunosangana naye kumusangano wevamwe shamwari. Kana uine chido chekuenderera mberi kubasa , yeuka kuti unongova nemukana mumwechete wekuita kwekutanga.

Office openers:

• "Wakashanda kwenguva yakareba sei?"
• "Iwe unoshanda kupi?"
• "Iwe unoshanda sei?"

Kwazisa muvakidzani :

• "Yard yako inoratidzika zvikuru.
• "Ndiri neshamwari dzepamusoro kuti ndione mutambo paTV. Ungada kubatana nesu here?"
• "Ndine shanduro yekuwedzera iyo iwe unogona kukwereta kana iwe uchida kuitora.

Sangano rakasununguka:

• "Wagara uri pano kwenguva yakareba sei?"
• "Wave uchiziva kwenguva yakareba sei (iyo mhare kana mutevedzeri)?"
• "Wakaedza here zvinonaka (chinhu chiri pafurafura yebhafet)?"

Chikoro chakasununguka:

• "Unofungei pamusoro pezvokudya zvekudya?"
• "Chii chako chikuru?"
• "Iwe une chikwata chekuchikoro kuchikoro (zita redzidzisi)?"

Generic openers inoshanda munzvimbo dzakawanda dzevanhu:

• "Unobva kupi?"
• "Wakaroorwa here?"
• "Une vana, uye kana zvakadaro, vangani?"
• "Unoita basa rei?"
• "Izvo zvakanaka (jekete, bhegi, kana mapeti maviri)."

Chenjerera

Yeuka kuti kunyange nemuganhu wakanakisisa wokuzarura munyika, iwe unogona kunge uchiri kupiswa nemumwe munhu. Kana iwe wakatarisira kuva neshamwari, kuzarura, uye kurondedzera usingatyi, iwe waita zvose zvaunogona. Apo mumwe munhu achikuita kuti uzive kuti iye haafariri, famba mberi uye utaure nomumwe munhu.