Mazano Okubata NeChirungu Shamwari

01 of 06

Shamwari Shamwari Inogona Kushungurudza

Wati wambove neshamwari yakashata kupfuura kudarika-mukati-iwe-mumuromo wako? Kana kuti zvimwe iwe uri munhu uyo. Pasinei nemamiriro acho ezvinhu, kukanganisa hakusi chinhu chinofanira kuita kuti mumwe munhu arambe mar, asi zvinogona kuvhiringidza zvikuru.

Chimwe chezvinhu zvaungashamisika ndezvokuti mumwe munhu angave akakanganisa sei kutanga. Pane chimwe chinhu chakakanganisika neuropi yake here? Kana pane chimwe chikonzero nei munhu uyu akanganwa zvirongwa uye haagoni kuverengwa?

Kunyangwe paine zvimwe zvinokonzera, chikonzero chikuru vamwe vanhu vanoenderera mberi kuva vasina kunaka ndechokuti vanobvumirwa kuva. Shamwari dzavo dzinoramba dzichivakoka uye dzinosanganisira ivo mumagadziro, kunyange zvazvo vane nhoroondo yekubuda kunze.

Icho chikafu chinouya nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana, zvichienderana nemunhu. Mhando imwe neimwe inoda kuitirwa nenzira yakasiyana. Heano mamwe emhando dzakawanda dzinowanikwa neshamwari dzakashata:

02 of 06

Ruregerero Muiti

Iwe unoziva munhu wacho. Anobvumirana kusangana nomunhu wese panguva yakatarwa uye nzvimbo, asi pamugumo wekupedzisira unowana rugwaro rine chikonzero chekuti sei asingagoni kuvapo. Anogona kunge akamboitawo urongwa hwokutanga, saka munhu wese anoshamisika kuti nei pasi pano aizoronga chimwe chinhu chingave chinopesana nechinhu chimwe muupenyu hwake.

Zvikonzero zvake zvinomhanya mumutambo, kubva paawa yake kusashanda kumigwagwa kunorema kudarika tsika. Kamwe kamwe kana kaviri, iwe unogona kunzwisisa uye kumupa kamuri kaduku-duku, asi akakurudzira iwe kupfuura chikamu chako chekunzwira tsitsi. Nzira yake yekuita zvikonzero yakakonzera kushungurudzika uye kuora mwoyo kwauri uye kune vamwe ari kuburutsa.

Heano dzimwe nzira dzekutarisana nomumwe munhu anogara achiine chikonzero chekubuda kunze:

• Kumusimudza kubva panzvimbo yake kuitira kuti asakwanisa kushandisa motokari sechikonzero.
• Rongai kuungana nguva dzose panguva imwechete vhiki imwe neimwe kana mwedzi kuitira kuti ave nenguva yake purogiramu yake.
• Ronga chimwe chinhu pane kana pedyo nenzvimbo yaunoziva kuti ichave. Inogona kunge iri paimba yake kana muimba.
• Ita hurukuro naye uye uite kuti iye azive iwe usatengezve zvikonzero zvake zvakare. Iyi ndiyo imwe nzira inogona kukutengesa ushamwari, asi ikozvino kutotambudza marwadzo iwe nevamwe kune boka rako.
• Tipei kumubatsira kuti aparadze tsika yake yakaipa yekugara achibuda kunze.

03 of 06

Over-Booker

Dzimwe nguva pane zvinhu zvakawanda zvekuita uye kwete nguva yakakwana yekuita zvose. Vanhu vazhinji vanobvuma uye vanobvuma izvi uye vanoderedza chero chavanoziva kuti havagoni kutevera. Zvisinei, kune vamwe vanhu vasina kubata pane zvavari kana kuti havagone kuita mumaawa makumi maviri nemaviri nguva iyo munhu wese ane. Mune mamwe mazwi, havagoni kuti kwete .

Heano mamwe mazano ekugadzirisa chirwere chinonyanya kubatikana nguva dzose:

• Panguva yegadziriro yegadziriro, bvunza kana atove ane zvimwe zvinhu zvakarongwa zvezuva iroro. Muchiyeuchidze kuti uri kuverenga pamusoro pake kuti avepo, kana akabvuma kubatana newe. Zvakanaka kumuisa panzvimbo iyo kana ane nhoroondo yekusatevera.
• Bvunza kana pane nguva iyo iye asina chinhu chakakonzerwa uye anoronga chimwe chinhu panguva iyoyo.
• Muudze kuti iwe unoziva kuti wakabatikana sei, uye hauzogumburwi kana achiramba kukoka .

04 of 06

Mushure mokutanga

Apo shamwari inogara ichinonoka , iyo inokanda munhu wose anenge apindira muzvirongwa uye anogona kugadzira zvimwe zvakanyanya kuoma. Vanhu vakawanda vanonoka kamwechete kamwe mune imwe nguva, asi kune vamwe vanhu vasingagoni kuonekwa sevari panguva. Vangave vakatanga kutanga kugadzirira vasingabvumi nguva yakakwana kana kuti vasingatori nguva yekutanga zvakanyanya, zvinoshungurudza kuva neshamwari imwe chete iyo inochengetedza munhu wose kumirira.

Zvaunogona kuita nehukama husingaperi:

• Siya kunze kwake. Zvimwe angawana mharidzo ndokutanga kugadzirira zvishoma nguva inotevera nguva inotevera.
• Dana imwe nguva kana kuti zvisati zvaitika iwe unofanirwa kuungana pamwe kuti umuyeuchidze nguva yenguva. Izvi zvinogona kana zvisingashandise, asi iye haazovi nechikonzero chekurumidza .
• Ita hurukuro naye pamusoro pekuti ari kuba nenguva kubva iwe nevamwe vako shamwari. Iko maminetsi (kana kunyange maawa) hauzombokwanisi kudzoka.

05 of 06

Wire Crosser Wire Crosser Wire Crosser

Dzimwe shamwari dzine zvinangwa zvakanakisisa, asi hazvigoni kuramba dzakatarisa. Vanogona kuratidzira panzvimbo yakashata panguva yakakodzera kana zvakasiyana. Iwe unogona kusanzwisisa kuti izvi zvinoramba zvichiitika sei, asi kana iwe uchikoshesa nguva yaunopedza nemunhu uyu, pane zvimwe zvaunogona kuita kumubatsira.

Nzira yekubatsira sei munhu anovhiringidzika pamusoro pezvipikirwa:

• Tumira tsamba kana email kuti uone nehuwandu hwemashoko, kusanganisira nguva uye nzvimbo yekuungana.
• Mubvunze kuti adzokorore zvirongwa zvekuti iwe unoziva kuti anonzwisisa.
• Dana kuti usimbise zuva risati rasvika kana mangwanani emusangano.

06 of 06

Iva nemafungiro emwoyo nemoyo

Chimwe chezvinhu izvo ushamwari hwakasimba hunogona kugona kubata ndechekukurukurirana pachena uye kutendeseka pamusoro penzira iyo ukama hunogona kubudirira. Kana shamwari yako yakashungurudza iwe zvakakwana kuti ugumbukane, chinhu chaanoda kuziva.

Usafungidzira kuti anoziva kuti yakawanda yekushungurudzika ndeye kwauri paanenge achibuda. Zvichida akamborarama nehupenyu hwake hwose nokuti hakuna munhu amuudza. Heano mamwe mazano ekuve nehurukuro iyi:

• Chengetedza musoro wakachena uye fungisisa pakutaura nyaya yacho musingamutsamwiri.
• Dzivisa chido chekunyomba kana kumhanyira kwaari neboka. Iyi hurukuro inonyanya kuchengetwa pachivande, pakati penyu vaviri.
• Tanga nekutendera kuti azive kuti unokoshesa ukama, asi haugone kuramba uchiisa hupenyu hwako pachigarire iwe uchimirira.
• Kumubvunza kana pane chero chinhu chipi zvacho chaunogona kuita kumubatsira kuti ave asina kunaka.
• Muregei azive kuti iwe haugoni kuramba wakamumirira mune remangwana.

Kuva neshamwari isina kunaka kunogumbura asi haisi tariro. Iva kunzwisisa asi wakasimba pakutaura nyaya uye tariro kuti ane hanya nehukama hwekushanda nayo.