Wati wambove uri muhurukuro yakatanga kutendeukira kune musoro unokuita kuti urege kunetseka here? Kune nzira dzekutungamira zvinyoronyoro kurukurirano zvakare kune chimwe chinhu chinonyanya kukodzera pasina kunyadzisa mumwe munhu. Zvisinei, izvi hazviiti nguva dzose kana uri kutarisana nomumwe munhu asingakwanisi kutora chirevo chisinganzwisisiki.
Zivai Zvadaro Dzorerazve
Kana mumwe munhu achitanga kutaura pamusoro pechinhu chisinganzwisisiki kana kukuita kuti ude, kubvuma kusati kwasati wasati washandura nyaya yacho kune chimwe chinhu chakasiyana zvakakwana kunofanira kuva chakakwana chechinhu.
Vanhu vazhinji vanozonzwisisa zvauri kuita uye kuenda newe.
Mienzaniso yekugadzirisa zvakare hurukuro yacho:
- Kana mumwe munhu akakurukura nyaya inogona kukonzera kukakavara pamutambo, unogona kutaura chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Pane maonero mashomanana akasiyana panyaya iyi. Sei tisingafungi chimwe chinhu chinonakidza, sekufamba kwako kwekupedzisira kune zvitsuwa? "
- Kana mumwe munhu anotaura nezvekuda kwako akakusiya iwe wakagumbuka mwoyo, iwe unogona kuti, "Izvozvo zvakanga zvakaoma kupesana, asi zvakapiwa ini mukana wekusangana nevamwe vanhu vanofarira vanofarira kutamba sezvandinoita. Wakamboita tango yeArginia here? "
- Apo munhu akakuyeuchidza nezvechokwadi chokuti iwe hauna kuwana basa rawakanga uri kutarisira, iwe unogona kuti, "Hungu, ndakanyadziswa, asi kubvunzurudza kwakandipa pfungwa yakanaka yezvandinoda kufunga pamusoro pekukumbira mamwe mabasa. "
- Kana munhu akaita mhinduro isina kukodzera pamusoro pechinhu chimwe iwe kana mukadzi mumwe akapfeka, kumurumbidza pamusoro pezivo yake pamusoro pemafashoni evakadzi uye kumubvunza zvaanofunga pamusoro pezvipfeko zvemwaka ino.
- Apo hurukuro inobva kune inofadza uye inofara kunoshungurudza kana kunetseka, taura chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Izvozvo zvinonzwisisika, asi ndinoda kunzwa zvakawanda pamusoro ((chero inguva yawakambotaura pamusoro pekare).
Kurumbidzwa paZivo
Imwe yenzira dzakanakisisa dzekutungamirira hurukuro ndeyokurumbidza munhu pane chimwe chinhu chinongopindirana zvishoma nehurukuro.
Somuenzaniso, kana ari kutsoropodza nyaya yezvematongerwe enyika yaunogamuchira, unogona kutaura chimwe chinhu, "Ndinonakidzwa nekuziva kwako. Chii chawakabva? "
Shandisa Shoko kana Mutsara kusvika muNhaurirano Yakasiyana
Dzimwe nguva vanhu vanotanga kutaura pamusoro pezvinhu zvausingafariri kana kusaziva nezvazvo, uye iwe hauna chaunogona kupa. Hurukuro imwe chete inogona kuve isina kunetseka, uye iwe une sarudzo. Iwe unogona kuvateerera ivo vanodhakwa nekuenderera mberi, kana iwe unogona kutsvaga mukova kuti uende pane chimwe chinhu. Teerera izwi kana mutsara unopa mukana wekutengesa magasi.
Heano dzimwe nzira dzekutaura kune imwe nyaya ndiyo chimwe chinhu chaungada kukurukura:
- Kana munhu achitanga kukurukura pamusoro pemamiriro ekufema-mapepa mapepa mumafashoni, uye mapepa emazuva mashoma haakufariri, taura chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Kutaura nezvekudziya kwemafudzi, unogona here kutenda kuti kushambidzika kwakashandurwa sei mune rimwe zuva?" Zvino iwe anogona kuramba achikurukurirana nezvemamiriro okunze.
- Kana mumwe munhu asingagoni kurega kutaura pamusoro pekutsvaga kwake kwegorofu, uye iyo inokurudzira nemisodzi, pakarepo paanotaura kurova bhora pamusoro pemuchero, unogona kuda kutaura kuti ruvara ndiwo iwe unofarira ruvara. Zvadaro taura nezvekuda kwaunoita ruvara rwemavara uye kuti rinounza sei zvinofadza kufungidzira kwekufamba musango.
- Kana vanachiremba vachiendeswa vachikurukurirana nezvemvura, mapfupa akaputsika, nemimwe nyaya dzinogona kuita kuti vanhu vakawanda vanyarare, pakarepo mumwe wavo paanotaura shoko rokuti "stitches," taura chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Kutaura nezvezvimedu, wakamboona zvakapfuura here? standup comedy pane Netflix? Zvaive zvakanyanyisa, zvakasara isu mumakumbo. "
Nokukurumidza Kuchinja Nyaya
Imwe nzira yekugadzirisa nayo nyaya yausingadi kukurukura ndeyokumirira munhu kumubata kufema uye kuchinja musoro wacho kune chimwe chinhu chinofadza. Vanhu vakawanda vanotora mazano, asi kana asingashande, edza zvakare. Smile apo iwe uchizviita kuitira kuti munhu asakuona iwe seanopesana kana kufunga kuti hausi mutauriri akanaka.
Heano mimwe mienzaniso yekuti ungakurumidza sei kuchinja nyaya yacho:
- Vanhu pavanotanga makuhwa pamusoro pomumwe munhu asiripo, taurai buffet (kana chimwe chinhu chisingagumi) uye taura nezvekuda kwekugadzirira kwakadini.
- Kana munhu akati ane nyaya nekambani yaunoshanda nayo, unogona kunyemwerera uye kumubvunza kana ane mhuka dzemhuka, uye kana zvakadaro, ndezvipi. Anofanira kutora mazano ekushandiswa kwaunoshandira muhurukuro iyi.
- Kana munhu achitanga kutsoropodza shamwari yako kana waunoshanda navo, tora kunyemwerera kukuru uye mubvunze nezvekupedzisira kwezororo.
Iva Mutungamiri
Pane nguva apo vanhu havagoni kutora ruzivo kana kuti havazoregi kuenda kune musoro, zvisinei kuti iwe uri pachena sei nekuedza kwako kuchinja nzira. Iyi ndiyo nguva apo iwe unoda kuita chimwe chinhu chinotyisa uye kuvadzivisa kuti unoda kutaura nezvimwewo.
Heano zvimwe zvinhu zvaungataura:
- Ndine urombo, asi nyaya iyo inounza zvinyorwa zvakaipa, uye ndinoda kutaura nezvimwewo.
- Handizivi chinhu pamusoro penyaya iyi. Tingakwanisa kukurukura chimwe chinhu isu tose tinonakidzwa here?
- Handinzwisisiki kutaura nezvechitendero nevanhu vasinganzwisisi kutenda kwangu. Nenzira, ndinoda mutsara wako. Inosimbisa marara emaziso ako.
- Tinonyatsopesana nezvematongerwe enyika . Sei tisingawani nzvimbo yakafanana yekukurukurirana?
Zviregerere Iwe pachako
Hazvina mhosva kuti unoedza sei kuva neuchenjeri kuvapo, kune vamwe vanhu vanozoita nyundo pane chero nyaya yausingadi kukurukura. Panzvimbo pokukakavadzana kana kuora mwoyo pamusoro pekuti ungashandura sei nyaya kune chimwe chisingafadzi, chengetedza uye uchiti iwe unoda kuwana madzimai 'nzvimbo.
Kana ukasarudza kudzokera kumunhu mumwe chete, uya wakazvidzivirira pane imwe nyaya yekukurukurirana. Tariro, munhu wacho angakanganwa pamusoro pehurukuro isinganzwisisiki kana kuziva chidzidzo chacho hachizarurirwi kuzokurukura. Kana zvisina kudaro, zvose zvaunofanira kuita ndezvokuti, "Ndine urombo, asi ndinofanira kuenda zvino."
Iva Wakagadzirira
Imwe yenzira dzakanakisisa dzekugadzirisa nyaya dzisina kunaka ndeyekugadzirira neurongwa rwevatanga kutaura pamusoro pehurukuro dzamusingafungi kukurukura. Teerera mazwi kana mabheti anokupa mukana wokuchinja nyaya yacho.
Pano pane mamwe mazano evanhu vakawanda vanogona kutaurirana:
- Kuchinja mumamiriro okunze
- Mapoka emitambo yemunharaunda (kunze kwekunge kune vamwe vanofa-vanopikisa vanogona kupinda mumakaka)
- Mitambo yakakurumbira yeTV kana mafirimu
- Zvokudya zvekunakidzwa
- Nzvimbo dzakanakisisa dzezororo dzevasina, vakaroorana, kana mhuri