Iwe une shamwari inokosha inogara iripo apo iwe unomuda here? Anoteerera iwe pasina kutonga mutongo here? Anouya kuzokuponesa kana uri nechinetso here? Anonyatsoziva here kana iwe uchida shoko rinokurudzira ?
Rudzi urwu rweshamwari runokosha uye runongouya kamwe kamwe munguva. Ichokwadi, vanhu vakawanda vane shamwari imwechete yakadaro muupenyu hwavo hwose. Zvichida inguva yekutumira tsamba yehukama kuratidzira kuti unoonga zvakadini kuti avepo kwauri.
Kuratidza Kuonga
Nzira yakanakisisa yekuratidza kuonga kwako kumunhu uyu ndeyokutaura mamwe mazwi anobva pamwoyo anonyanya kuhukama hwako. Izvi zvinogona kuva chinhu chaicho chaanoda kuti awane kuburikidza nezuva rakaoma rake. Uye zvichamubvumira kuziva kuti zviratidzo zvake kwauri zvakaratidzwa.
Iwe unogona kana usasarudze kuwedzera chipo sechiratidzo chehukama hwako. Inogona kuva chikadhi chechipo kumunda waaifarira waaifarira kana dengu reaanoda ma teas. Kana zvinogona kuva kudya kwemanheru iwe unogadzirira iye chete. Zvichida iwe unogona kuita chimwe chinhu chakakosha kwaari, nokuti iwe unoziva kuti aizokoshesa kana kuifarira. Chero chipi nechipi chaunoita, ita kuti azive kuti iwe unoda kuti aone seanokosha sezvaanoita kuti unzwe.
Chimwe chinhu chaunogona kuwedzera kuwedzera chifananidzo chemiviri yenyu muchiita chimwe chinhu chinokosha. Kana iwe wakatora nguva yezororo pamwe chete kana unonakidzwa nebasa rakadaro, iye achanyemwerera payeuchidzo uye kuti iwe waifunga zvakakwana pamusoro pake kuti ape iyo.
Iwe unogona kunge uchida kuzviisa mukutenda iwe chinyorwa, kana iwe unogona kuchiisa mune chimwe chimiro chaunoziva chaanoda.
Dzimwe nguva zvakaoma kuti uuye nemashoko akarurama ekuti shamwari yako inokosha izive kuti unomuonga sei. Asi chokwadi chokuti iwe unonyatsoda kumunyorera tsamba inomuratidza kuti unokoshesa sei ushamwari hwake.
Nyore Tsamba
Kunyange zvazvo kutengesa-kutenga makadhi ekukwazisa kunonakidza kupa uye kugamuchira, zvakaoma kuwana zvakakwana izvo zvinoratidza zviri mukati memoyo wako. Ndosaka zvakanaka kuti uwedzere pfungwa dzako pachako kuitira kuti shamwari yako izive kuti ndeyeiye. Iwe unogona kuita izvi pane imwe kadhi yakatengwa-denga kana kunyora icho pachigamba chisina chinhu.
Sample Friendship Notes
Dear Pamela,
Kana munhu wose aiva neshamwari yakafanana newe, vose vaizofara. Ndinongoda kuti iwe uzive kuti ndinokoshesa sei iwe neshamwari yako. Zvakanaka kuziva kuti ini ndinogara ndiine munhu wandinogona kuvimba nemufaro wangu, gripes, uye chivande changu chakavanzika chokoletike. Iwe unogara uchive pedyo nemwoyo wangu!
Rudo,
Yolanda
Dear Juliana,
Nguva ipi zvayo pandinofunga nezvekunakidzwa, noupenzi, uye mutsa, zita rako nechifananidzo zvino zvinouya pfungwa. Handizivi zvandingaita kunze kwako. Ndinokutendai zvikuru kuti muve munhu wamuri.
Rudo uye shamwari dzakanaka nokusingaperi,
Tracy
Dear Marylou,
Shamwari dzakafanana newe dzinouya kamwe chete muupenyu hwose. Handifungi kuti ndine mazwi akakwana okuratidza kuti ndinokoshesa sei nguva dzose dzawakateerera kwandiri uye wakanga uripo apo ndaida mumwe munhu. Zvinoshamisa kuziva kuti iwe une hanya zvakakwana kuti ubatisise parutivi rwangu panguva dzakanaka uye dzakaipa.
Ndinotarisira kuti ndinokwanisa kuva shamwari yakanaka kwauri sezvaunenge uri kwandiri.
Ndinokuda zvikuru,
Dottie
Dear Jessica,
Ndakanzwa vanhu vachiti shamwari dzinofanana nendarama inokosha, uye ndinobvumirana. Iwe wakanga uri nendeve yegoridhe inondiyeuchidza kuti shamwari dzakanaka dzinogona kuva dzakadini. Ndinokutendai zvikuru nekugara muri parutivi rwangu.
Hugs,
Genevieve
Kumbiranai nekutenda
Panogonawo kuva nenguva apo unoda kukumbira ruregerero kune shamwari inokosha. Usarega rimwe zuva richienda kana mushure mekusabvumirana kana chiito chinogona kukanganisa kukanganisa pakati pako nemumwe munhu ushamwari hwaunokoshesa.
Dear Joanne,
Ndapota bvuma kubvuma kwangu kuburitswa nokuda kwekusafunga saizvozvo usiku hwekupedzisira. Handifaniri kumbotaura zvandakaita. Ndinokoshesa ushamwari hwedu netariro kuti unogona kuzviwana mumoyo mako kuti undiregerere. Kana iwe uchida kutaura nezvazvo, ndapota ndipei foni.
Shamwari yako ine hanya,
Karen
Dear Linda,
Ndine urombo zvikuru zvokuti ndakasuwa musangano wekudya kwemanheru zuro. Handina chikonzero chekukanganwa kuinyora pamusoro pekarenda yangu. Tingaita zvirongwa zvakare kuti tibatane, ndinobata here? Zvakadini neMugovera unotevera?
Wakagumburwa asi uchionga ushamwari hwako,
Melissa
Dear Susan,
Ndinonzwa kunetseka kuti ndakarasikirwa nemucheka wako. Ndinoda kuti iwe uzive kuti ndinokoshesa sei iwe uchibvumira kuti ndizvipfeke , asi kupfuura izvozvi, ini ndinotenda nekuda kwekuti iwe nguva dzose uripo kwandiri. Ndapota bvumai chirafu chitsva uye muzive kuti ndinokoshesa ushamwari hwedu.
Shamwari yako,
Annette