Wakamboda here kana waida chimwe chinhu chausina kukwanisa kutenga? Wakamboita here kuti mumwe munhu akumbire kukwereta chimwe chinhu kubva kwauri? Kana iwe wakambove uri mune imwe yemamiriro ezvinhu aya, zvakakosha kuti uzive zvinhu zvishomanana, kana unogona kuisa pangozi ushamwari hwako kana hukama hwekushanda nemumwe munhu.
Mutemo kune Mukwereti
Kuva wakwereta kunotakura huwandu hwemhosva. Iwe hausi kuda kutora ruzivo rwehupo hweumwe munhu mukukwereta iwe chero chinhu chiripo, uye iwe hauzombodi kubvumira icho icho chinhu kuti chigadzire wedge pakati pako.
Heano mamwe mazano ekutanga ekubhadhara:
- Usambokwereta chero chinhu chausingagoni kudzoka pakarepo kana wapedza nayo.
- Kana chero chipi zvacho chaunokwereta chikapedza kana misodzi, ita apologi yechokwadi uye enda unotenga munhu wacho mutsva kana asingagoni kugadziriswa.
- Usakwereta chero chinhu chitsva. Muridzi anofanira kunge ari wekutanga kushandisa.
- Kana mumwe munhu akakwereta chimwe chinhu kubva kwauri, rega munhu wacho azive kana iwe uchida zvakare zvakare uye unotarisira kuti uwanezve panguva iyoyo.
- Kana iwe usingagamuchiri mukati menguva yakawanda, hakuna chakaipa nekukumbira kuti udzoke, kunyange iwe usingakodzeri kuita izvozvo.
- Zvakanaka kurega kwete kana mumwe munhu akakumbira kukwereta chimwe chinhu.
- Usakwereta mari kune shamwari yako, kana iwe unogona kuisa pangozi ukama hwako . Iwe uri nani pane kuenda kune imwe chikwereti apo iyo yekutengeserana iine mabhizimisi.
- Iva wakanyatsongwarira pamusoro pokukwereta kune waunoshanda navo nokuti kana chimwe chinhu chisina kunaka, unogona kuisa pangozi basa rako.
- Kana iwe ukakumbira kukwereta chimwe chinhu, uye munhu wacho achikutendeutsa, usatsamwa. Chengetedza mari yako uye tenga chinhu chacho.
Mitemo yeLender
Kana mumwe munhu akasvika kwauri achikumbira kubhadhara chimwe chinhu, iwe unganzwa usina kunetseka . Kana iwe une chinhu icho munhu anoda, asi iwe usingadi kukwereta, unogona kugara uchiti kwete.
Zvisinei, kana iwe uchikwanisa kumurega achiitora, iva nechokwadi chokuti une chibvumirano.
Heano mamwe mazano ekutora chikwereti-chikwereti chibvumirano:
- Iva nekushandisa kushandiswa kwechimwe chinhu. Mune mamwe mazwi, mumwe munhu anofanira kukuzivisa iwe kuti chii chichashandiswa kuitira kuti iwe uzive kuti hausi kushungurudzwa.
- Iva nenguva yakatarwa yenguva iyo mumwe munhu achave nechikamu chacho mune zvake. Kana iyo isingadzoserwi nezuva uye nguva yawakabvumirana nayo, zvakagamuchirwa kubvunza.
- Kana iwe uchikweretesa mari kana chimwe chinhu chakakosha, nyora chibvumirano chekuti iwe mose munopinda.
Nzira Yokubvunza Nayo Chimwe Chinyorwa
Panogona kuva nenguva iyo iwe uchirega mumwe munhu akwereta chimwe chinhu, asi anokangamwa kana kukaramba kudzorera. Izvi zvinogona kunge zvisina kunetseka, asi iwe uri mukati memvumo yako yekukumbira. Iwe unogona kushandisa kushora, asi yeuka kuti izvi zvinogona kunyadzisa wakwereta uye kukuvadza ukama hwako.
Heano dzimwe nzira dzaunogona kukumbira kuti chinhu chakakwereta chidzoserwe:
- Uyai kunze uye mubvunze chinhu. Kana mumwe munhu akagumburwa, unogona kumuyeuchidza kuti akabvuma kudzorera iyo pane rimwe zuva rave rapfuura.
- Bvunza kana iye apedza kushandisa chinhu chacho uye utaure kuti iwe ungada kuchidzoka pakarepo kana akakwanisa kuitora iwe. Izvi zvakazaruka, saka iwe ungada kuwedzera kuti iwe unofanirwa neimwe zuva uye nguva, kunyange kana asina kupedza nayo.
- Unongotora chinhu chinenge chichikurukurirana. Iwe unogona kutaura chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Yeuka kuti fan ini ndinokubvumira kuti uite chikwereti?" Kana iwe unogona kuti, "Zvave zvichitsva munguva pfupi." Unofunga here kana ndikwereta fanana rangu? "
- Ita mwoyo-ku-mwoyo utaurire kune wakwereta. Iwe unogona kutaura kuti iwe wakamuvimba naye nechimwe (kana mari), uye iwe unoda kuchengeta chivimbo ichocho.
Last Resort
Panogona kunge pane nguva apo iwe uchirega mumwe munhu akwereta chimwe chinhu chisingadzokeri. Iwe une zvisarudzo zvakawanda. Iwe unogona kuramba uye uchiedza kuidzosera. Iwe ungatotora kufunga kutora shamwari yako kudare, iyo ndiyo iyo chibvumirano chesayinini chinopinda kana kuti kana iwe unogona kubvisa chinhu kana mari, unogona kunyora pasi uye uchitaridzire chidzidzo chawakadzidza. Zvose izvi zvisarudzo zvingangovhiringidza ukama, ndicho chikonzero nei zvakanyanya kusina kukwereta kubva kana kupa chikwereti kune umwe waunoda kuramba uine shamwari naye.