Chirevo chekutanga chaunoda kuziva
Ndinokutendai manotsi maonero akajeka. A thank you letter, kana note, inoratidza kuonga kwechiito chinofungisisa, kutaura, kana chipo. Kazhinji chimiro chekugona kwekadhi rakanyora zvingave chinotyisa kumunyori. Vanhu vazhinji vanofunga kuti mazwi ekutendai tsamba anofanira kuva akakwana vasati vasayinwa, vakaiswa chisimbiso uye vanonunurwa izvo izvozvi zvinokonzera kushungurudzika kwakanyanya zvokuti zvinyorwa hazvina kutumirwa.
Pamberi pemamwe mimwe mitemo, ingoyeuka kuti tsamba isina kukwana inouya nemanzwiro emuwoyo wakanaka kune chinyorwa chakakwana chisina kunyorwa.
Heano mutungamiri ari nyore kune zvaunoita uye hazviiti zvekutendesa ma tsamba kuti akubatsire kukugonesa kuburikidza nekuita. Iwe unogona kuona kuti mune dzimwe nguva apo waifunga kuti tsamba yakanyorwa yaidiwa, hazvisi. Pano panewo mashomanana mapepa ekuti iwe utange. Asi yeuka, iyi inongova nzira yakanyatsotevera yekutevera, iwe unoda kuchinja iwe unotenda iwe chinyorwa kuti uite zvinoreva kumubatsiri.
Izvo Zvakaitwa Nekutenda Tsamba
- Tumira iwe kuonga iwe tsamba nokukurumidza sezvinobvira.
- Tsamba dzinogona kutumirwa pane zvinyorwa zvisina kufanira, kunze kwemuchato ndinokutendai manotsi ayo anowanzoendeswa pane zvinyorwa zvepahofisi.
- Nguva dzose taura zvakananga nezvechipo icho chiri pamusoro pehurukuro, yakadai se "Ndinokutendai zvakanyanya nokuda kwe sweti yebhuruu. Wakaziva sei kuti iyo yakanga iri mavara aidiwa?"
- Nguva dzose tumira tsamba mumamiriro anotevera:
- Zvipo zvechikwata.
- Nokunzwirana netsamba , maruva, kana makadhi akawanda.
- Kumubati wemushure mushure memutambo wakagadzirirwa mukukudzwa kwako.
- Kune bridal kana baby shower zvipo.
- Nokuda kwezvipo zvakagamuchirwa nemaresi
- Mushure mekunge uchitarirwa nehosi yako.
- Zvipo zvakagamuchirwa munguva yekugara muchipatara.
- Mushure mekunge wakagadzirirwa seimba yeimba imwechete kana kupfuura husiku (kunze kwekuti ihama yako yepedyo kana shamwari iri kuitisa).
- Pamashoko kana zvipo zvekukwazisa.
- Ndinokutendai manotsi haatariswi mumamiriro ezvinhu anotevera, asi ungadai uchiri chiito chakanaka:
- Mushure mekunge mueni kune imwe yekudya kwemanheru .
- Mushure mekubvunzurudzwa kwebasa (kwete kudai, asi chokwadi ndangariro yakajeka).
- Nokuda kwezvipo zvekuzvarwa izvo zvakagamuchirwa uye zvakazarurirwa mukati momunhu, uye iwe watotenda kare iye anopa.
- Apo shamwari yako yakakubatsira iwe nekunakidza kwakadai sekusununguka, kudya kwawakanga uchirwara, kumhanya nzira dzako kana iwe usingakwanisi.
- Kumumiririri wekutengesa uyo akakuratidza iwe pachako sechikamu cheukama hwebhizimisi.
Tsamba dzeDon'tts Yekutendai
Usanonoka pakutumira tsamba zhinji. Kazhinji, tsamba dzinofanira kutumirwa mukati mevhiki yekugamuchira chipo kana chiito. Izvo chete kune nguva iyi ndeyotevera:
- Ndinokutendai tsamba dzezvipo zvechipatara dzinofanira kutumirwa pakarepo apo murwere akakwana kuti atumire, chero nguva iyo iri.
- Nhasi mirayiridzo yechipo chechichato ndinokutendai tsamba ndeyekuti tsamba idzi dzinofanira kutumirwa mumwedzi mitatu yekugamuchira zvipo. Zvisinei, akapiwa basa rinonyanya kukosha iro raizowedzera kune mwenga nomwenga mushure mekuzvarwa kwavo, zvinonzwisisika kutumira manotsi kunze kwekuti zvipo zvinogamuchirwa (kazhinji zvipo zvemuchato zvinotumirwa mberi kwezuva remuchato).
Kukosha kwevanhu pachavo vanotenda tsamba hakugoni kuomeswa zvakakwana.
Kunyangwe zvazvo vakawanda vachikutendai tsamba dzinogona kutumirwa pane zvinyorwa zvisingatauri, izvo hazvirevi kuti zvakakodzera kushandisa chidimbu cheputi chakabvarurwa kubva padhorosi yako yekutenga. Tsvaga makadhi emakadhi anoratidza unhu hwako, uye ramba wakagadzirira kugoverwa. Havadi kutora mari yakawanda. Zvechokwadi, kana iwe ukatengesa nekushingaira, unogona kuwana makadhi asingadhuri, anotarisa mumadhora emadhora.
Hapana chikonzero chekureva nhema kana iwe usingadi chipo. Kana chimwe chinhu chisati chiri chekunaka kwako, iwe unofanirwa kuratidza kuonga kwepfungwa yakapinda mukukusarudza iyo iwe. Iwe unogona nguva dzose kuti: "Maita basa nekuda kwekufungisisa (kuzadza zviri pachena)." Ndichagara ndichifunga nezvako pose pandinoishandisa. "
Kutaura nekutendai Manotsi
Ndinokutendai tsamba dzinofanira kutaurirwa kumunhu (s) akasaina kadhi rako rechipo.
Muchiitiko chechipo chinobva kumhuri, envelopu inogona kutaurirwa kuna Mai naVaPirato, uye kukwazisa kunogona kuva "Mudiwa Donna naJoe." Iwe unogona kutarisa kune nhengo dzemhuri dzakasara mumutumbi wechirongwa: "Ndapota wedzerai kuvonga kuna Gina naMaria, uye vaudzei kuti ndinofarira sei bhuku racho."
Nzira yekukwazisa kwako inofanira kunge yakavakirwa paukama hwako nemunhu wauri kuonga. Semuenzaniso, munyaya yekutendai kubvunzurudzwa kwebasa, kukwazisa kunofanira kuverengerwa "Vadiwa Madhi O'Brien" kunze kwekuti Mhandu O'Brien akakupai mvumo yekumuudza nezita rake rokutanga. Saizvozvowo, kuvonga kwechipo chemuchato chinogamuchirwa kubva kune shamwari dzevabereki vako kunofanira kutaurirwa "Wakadiwa naMnu Cohen" kunze kwekuti iwe wakakura uchivaidza nemazita avo okutanga.
Paunenge uchiumba nhamba yekutenda yekugamuchira vaeni, iwe unogona kungotarisa iyo kumubatsiri wako (uchifunga kuti ndiye munhu akaita basa), asi shandisawo kuvonga kumurume ari mumashoko: "Ndapota regai Aldo azive kuti tinokoshesa sei mutsa wokugamuchira vaenzi uye nyaya dzake dzinonakidza panguva yezvokudya. "
Mienzaniso Yekutenderera Tsamba dzeMuchato Zvipo
Heano mienzaniso shoma shoma yekukutendai tsamba dzezvipo zvemuchato . Sezvaunogona kuona, haifaniri kunge iri nyanzvi yekunyora.
Dear Amai Gloria,
Ndinokutendai zvikuru nokuda kwemashoko akanaka awatumira kwatiri. Ndinoziva kuti ichatarisa zvakanaka patafura yedu uye hatigoni kumirira kukukoka iwe kudya kwemashure mushure momuchato kuitira kuti iwe uzvione iwe pachako. Iwe wakagara uine tambo yakanakisisa yakadai muzvipo!
Kutarisa mberi kukuona iwe pazuva redu guru!
Ne rudo,
Megan
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Mudiwa naMnu Reingold,
Ndinokutendai nokuda kwezvigadziko zvemwenje zvakanakisisa zvamakatipa nokuda kwemuchato wedu. Vachava nechokwadi chekuchengeta rudo rwacho runopfuta patafura yedu kwemakore akawanda ari kuuya.
Shuwiro yakanakisa-
Elissa James
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Anodiwa Marjorie naJack,
Imi vaviri munogara muchiziva kusarudza chipo chakakwana!
Tinongoda CD yakagadzirirwa iwe wakatipa sechipo chemuchato. Iwe unofanirwa kuuya nekukurumidza kuitira kuti tive nekunakidzwa kwekutanga kwekudya kwemanheru pamwe chete sevakaroorana. Tichava nechokwadi chekutora CD player usiku kuti tifare mitambo mitsva.
Rudo,
Tina naBill
Muenzaniso wekutendai Tsamba yeJobho Hurukuro
Chinangwa chekubvunzurudzwa kwebasa ndinokutendai netsamba yekuratidza kuonga kumubvunzurudzo nekuda kwekutora nguva kubva purogiramu yavo yakabatikana kutaura newe. Zvisinei, tsamba idzi dzinobatsira kubhadharwa kwekuchengeta zita rako pamberi pekambani seyo mukana webasa racho.
Dear Ms. Brown,
Ndakanyatsonakidzwa kusangana nemwi mberi kwemazuva ano uye kudzidza zvakawanda nezvemahofisi ehofisi yehofisi paWareget Company.
Sezvatakakurukura, ndinotenda makore mashanu ezvakaitika paAcme Company inoenderana nezvinodiwa zvekuzadza nzvimbo iyi. Kunyange zvazvo ndakanakidzwa kushanda paAcme Company, ndinotarisira matambudziko matsva uye mabasa makuru sezvandinoramba ndiri mubasa rangu roupenzi.
Ndinotarisira kunzwa kubva kwamuri nokukurumidza uye ndinokuvongai zvakare pamusangano neni nhasi.
Kutendeseka,
Bob Doe
Muenzaniso wekutendai Tsamba yeChicheche Shower
Baby shower shower chipo ndinokupa iwe tsamba inofanira kunge iri pakati pezvinhu zviri nyore kutumira. Zvipo zvizhinji zvinokonzera amai vatsva kuti vashandise pane tariro yekuona mwana wavo achishandisa chipo. Iyo yakaoma zvikuru munyaya iyi ndeyokutora zvinyorwa pane panguva yakakodzera. Kune zvinhu zvakawanda zvakadai zvokuita apo mukugadzirira mwana mutsva! Uye kunyange zvazvo tsika dzakagadziriswa hazvidi kutora mutsara munyaya iyi kana chipo chikavhurwa pamvura uye mupi wacho akatendwa mukati momunhu, ichiri chimiro chakajairika kutumira zvinyorwa zvakakodzera panguva ipi zvayo.
Mudiwa Maria Jean,
Ndinongoda mwana akarara, achigamuchira bhokete, uye bhandi rinonyorera iwe wakandipa pamvura. Sezvaiwanzo, iwe wakanga uine rupo. Handigoni kumirira kuti ndivashandise nechecheche - ndinoziva kuti ichaita seinofadza mukati mavo.
Ndinotarisira kuti tinogona kupedza nguva shoma pamwe chete mwana asati asvika uye ini ndiri kumusoro munzeve dzangu mumabheji!
Rudo,
Clarissa