Vanhu vazhinji vanonzwisisa kukosha kwezvakanaka, uye izvi zvinoratidzwa mune zvimwe zvinyorwa zvakanyorwa pano. Ramba uchiyeuka kuti rinosiyana kubva kune imwe tsika kuenda kune inotevera. Tora nguva yekudzidza zvakakodzera chero kupi zvako uri.
Mutsa Wakanaka Unogona Kukubatsira
Zvingave nevemumhuri kana kunze uye nepamushamwari neshamwari, tsika dzakanaka dzichakuchengetedza iwe mumatambudziko akanaka evanhu vose vanokupoteredza. Kunyengera kungoita kuti iwe uite sechinhu chakaipa uye udyire.
" Shamwari uye tsika dzakanaka zvichakutakura iwe apo mari haigoni kuenda."
~ Margaret Walker
" Tsika dzakanaka dzichazarura mikova iyo dzidzo yepamusoro isingagoni."
~ Clarence Thomas
"Hapangagoni kuva nekudzivirira sechikonzero chakanaka."
~ EV Lucas
"Ani zvake aripo, uye chero paanenge aripo, imwe nguva inenge isina kukanganisa kana munhu asina hanya ."
~ Maurice Baring
Tetra Manners uye Dining Etiquette
Kana iwe uchida kushanda pakunatsiridza tsika yako, tanga nematafura emhando . Vamwe vanhu vanongoda kudzidza kudzidzira midziyo yakakodzera , asi vamwe havana chavanoziva kuti vangaitei nevhaputi yavo .
"Nyika yaimbova oyster yangu asi ini ndakashandisa fikisi isina kururama."
~ Oscar Wilde
"Unhu hunyatsoziva kuziva kwevamwe. Kana iwe uchiziva izvozvo, une tsika dzakanaka, zvisinei kuti iwe unoshandisa foshoro ipi. "
~ Emily Post
"Kudya mazambiringa nemaza neforogo haisi izvo munhu angati akadana zvakanatswa." Ndizvo zvinonzi munhu anonakidza. "
~ Judith Martin (aka Miss Manners)
Tsika Dzakashata uye Vanhu Vasingadi
Vamwe vanhu vachava netsika dzakaipa, zvisinei kuti chii. Izvozvo hazvirevi kuti unofanirwa kupindura tsika dzakaipa nemitemo yakaipa. Kana mumwe munhu ari kunyengera , rega kuzvidzikisa kumatunhu avo.
"Iwe unogona kuwana hupenyu hune tsika dzakashata, asi zviri nyore nemaitiro akanaka."
~ Lillian Gish
"Tsika dzakanaka dzimwe nguva zvinoreva kungoita zvinetso zvevamwe vanhu."
~ H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
"Kunyadzisa ndiko kukanganisa kwemunhu kutevedzera simba."
~ Eric Hoffer
"Kutendeseka" mune hupenyu hwemagariro evanhu hunowanzoshandiswa sechifukidzo chekunyengera. Asi pane musiyano mukuru pakati pekunyatsotarisa pane zvaunenge uchitaura uye vanhu vachitaura maonero avo okutuka pasi pezita rekutendeseka. "
~ Judity Martin (aka Miss Manners)
Nzira dzevana, Kutora nevechidiki
Vanhu havana kuberekwa vachiziva maitiro ekugara mumamiriro ezvinhu evanhu, saka vanofanirwa kudzidziswa tsika dzakanaka pazera remakore . Vana vanoda kudzidza tsika kubva kune vanhu vakuru vanofanirwa kuva mienzaniso yakanaka. Sezvavanokura, ivo vachava nechivimbo chikuru kana vachiziva zvokuita. Uyezve, vamwe vanhu vanofarira kufambidzana navo.
"Vana vane basa rakaoma zvikuru vanotarisa nhasi vari kudzidza tsika dzakanaka pasina kuona."
~ Fred Astaire
"Mwana chero upi zvake anogona kudzidziswa kuva nemafungiro akanaka pasina simba rakawanda kupfuura kukurumidza kutsungirira uye kushivirira, asi kubvisa tsika dzakaipa kana dzawanikwa pane basa reHerculean."
~ Emily Post
"Isu tose takaberekerwa tisingabatsiri." Hakuna kamuwana akambove aine ruzivo rwekunzwisisa kuti hazvifungi kuvhiringidza vamwe pakati peusiku. "
~ Judith Martin (aka Miss Manners)
"Vana vanowanzoita sokuti vanoita sevabereki vavo pasinei nekuedza kwose kudzidzisa tsika dzakanaka."
~ Author Author Unknown
Remekedza Vamwe
Nheyo dzenzira dzakanaka kuremekedzwa. Kana iwe usingaremekedzi vamwe, kunyange uchiziva kuti inofani yekushandisa panguva yekudya kwemazuva ose isingakoshi. Iwe uchiri kuonekwa seusina kunaka. Kana iwe uchiratidza ruremekedzo kune vamwe, ivo vanowanzova vakanaka kudzokera kwamuri. Kana zvisingaiti, ingoyeuka kuti waita chinhu chakanaka.
"Tsika dzakanaka inzira yekuratidza vamwe vanhu kuti tinovaremekedza."
~ Bill Kelly
"Kuita zvematongerwo enyika ndiko unyanzvi hwokusarudza pakati pezvauri kufunga."
~ Abel Stevens
"Upenyu hahuve hupfupi kwazvo asi kuti pane nguva nguva nguva yekuremekedza."
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
"Kuita zvematongerwe enyika nekufungisisa kune vamwe kwakafanana nekudyara mari uye kubhadhara madhora."
~ Thomas Sowell
"Hazvina basa kuti zita romunhu ndeipi chero bedzi achizvibata."
~ LM Montgomery
Shoko rekupedzisira pamunhu
Kuve nehanya, kuremekedza, uye kunakidza kunokosha mune zvemagariro ose uye zvehutano mamiriro ezvinhu. Judith Martin (waka Miss Manners) ane shoko rekupedzisira pano:
"Maitiro ndeavanhu vose maitiro evanhu kana iwe uri mugomo wegomo, iwe haufaniri kunetseka pamusoro pemararamiro: kana mumwe munhu akwira mugomo, iwe une dambudziko, zvinokosha nokuti tinoda kurarama mumharaunda inobvumirana. "