Kirasi yako yekukokazve kukoka yasvika, uye iwe unotarisa nayo nemafungiro akasiyana. Kunyangwe iwe uri mudzidzi wekirasi pachikoro chako kana munhu akabatanidzwa mukati mehuni, hauzive kuti unonzwa sei pamusoro pekuona vose vevanhu avo makore mazhinji gare gare. Asi zvino, sezvaunofunga nezvazvo zvimwe, iwe unoona munhu wese zvichida anonzwa nenzira imwecheteyo. Kunyanya iwe unofunga nezvekuti vamwe vakabuda sei, saka unosarudza iwe unogona kuenda.
Wakatumira RSVP yako mushure mokugamuchira kukokwa kwako, uye ikozvino wava kutanga kufara nekubatana nevanhu wausina kumboona mumakore. Sezvaunoswedera pedyo, kufara ikoko kunogona kuchinja.
Zvakare, chikoro chako chekare chekuchikoro chesekondari chinotanga kudzokera shure, uye unoshamisika kuti munhu wose achafunga sei. Ko vaunodzidza navo vachakuona iwe semudzimai wamabhizimisi akabudirira iwe iye zvino, kana kuti vachayeuka here kuti waimboita sei sipinashi yakanyatsogadzirirwa muhombwe yako masikati?
Kana iri kuunganazve kwemhuri, unoshamisika kuti chii chichaitika kana iwe usingazodyi mbatya yaEdume yemasitadhi inokuita iwe gag. Kana zvakadini kana Sekuru Joe atanga imwe yehondo dzake, uye iwe uri pakati payo? Zvichida une murume mutsva kana kuti unokosha, uye unonetseka kuti mhuri yacho ingagamuchira kana iwe waunofarira here kana kuti kwete.
Chikoro Reunion
Chimwe chezvinhu zvinonyanya kukosha chokuyeuka pamusoro pekirasi rekuunganazve ndechokuti makore apfuura, uye munhu wose anofanira kunge akave munhu mukuru wevanhu vanogona kutarisa kubva paudiki hwavo.
Kana vasingagoni, inofanira kuva dambudziko ravo. Usazviita. Chero zvingave zvakadaro, simudza musoro wako kumusoro, famba uine chivimbo , uye uve nenguva yakanaka.
Zvaungaita mukirasi zvakarezve:
- Smile. Hapana chinofukidza jitter yekutya zviri nani kupfuura chiso chakanaka .
- Sangana uye sangana nevanhu vakasiyana. Usazviisa kune rimwe boka rawaiwanzorembera naro. Iwe unogona kuona kuti une zvakawanda zvakafanana neyaimbova mutungamiriri weboka rebhola kana kuti wekare aimbova mutungamiriri we Future Farmers of America kupfuura uyo waimbova TP dzimba.
- Batsira vamwe. Kana iwe ukaona mumwe munhu akamira ari oga, swedera kumunhu wacho uye tanga hurukuro . Kuita izvi kunogona kuita kuti musiyano pakati pemunhu ari kushungurudzika uye ave nenguva yakanaka. Uye ndiani anoziva? Zvichida uchawana ushamwari hwaifanira kunge hwakaitika makore apfuura. Pachinhu chiduku, iwe uchaisa munhu wakasununguka uye anoita kuti ruzivo rwake ruve rufaro.
- Ivai neruremekedzo rwevanhu vose. Usambofa uchitaura nyaya dzinonyadzisa pamusoro pezvinhu izvo vanhu vanoda kuakanganwa. Izvi zvinosanganisira kurera kukanganisa nekupwanya kukuru pamberi pemumwe wako.
- Yeuka kuti vanhu vakwegura zvakasiyana. Usambofa waita mhinduro kana kubvunza mibvunzo isina kunaka pamusoro pevamwe vanhu kuwedzera kwehupfumi, makwinya, bvudzi, vhudzi rebvudzi, kana zvimwe zviitiko zvine chokuita nemakore. Iwe unogona kunge wakachengeta muviri wako wechidiki, asi vamwe vangangodaro vakawana chimwe chinhu chakavadzivirira kubva kuenda kumitambo yezuva nezuva.
- Stifle kuzvikudza. Paunoswedera kune wekare wekutanga mutungamiri weklasi kana mutungamiriri weboka remakakatanwa, zvakanyatsonaka kuti utaure zvauri kuita iye zvino zvekurarama. Zvisinei, iwe haufaniri kuzvirumbidza pamusoro pekuti iwe unogona kutenga imba neimba yezororo kuMediterranean, nevashandi veimba kuti vashandise nzvimbo mbiri. Izvo hazvibatsiri chimwe chinangwa kunze kwekuita kuti mumwe munhu ashungurudzike kana kuti kuita kuti iwe uite sebhagivha yemhepo.
- Pfeka zvakanaka. Zvishongedze zvakakodzera chikamu. Hapana chakakanganisika nekupfekedzwa mupfeki wekugadzira kana tsika yakagadziriswa sutu, asi iwe haufaniri kuita chinhu chikuru. Nenzira imwecheteyo, kana zvose zvaunokwanisa kutenga chimwe chinhu kubva pane chekuchengetedza, chengetedza kuti yakachena uye hapana majeko kana mapako. Hapana munhu anoda kuziva chikafu chepfeko yako kana kuti yakawanda zvakadini.
- Deredza kunwa doro. Usanwa zvakanyanya, kana iwe unogona kutaura kana kuita chimwe chinhu iwe uchazozvidemba. Iwe uchazosiyawo pfungwa iyo icharamba yakasara kusvika pakuzosangana zvakare.
- Dzivisa kukakavara. Kana mumwe munhu akakuitira shungu nekuda kwechimwe chinhu chakaitika shure kuchikoro chesekondari, pangave pasina chaunogona kuita nezvazvo. Kana uchinge waona kuti munhu wacho ari kuparadza kurwisana, famba kure uye umudzivise iye kana akasara wepati.
- Ratidza tsika dzakanaka. Shandisa maitiro akakodzera kubva panguva yaunofamba nayo kusvikira waenda.
Family Reunions
Kana iwe uine ruzivo rwakakwana kuti uve chikamu chemhuri inoda kuungana pamwe nekugadzirisana kamwechete kamwe kwechinguvana, ita zvakaoma kuti uwirirane nemunhu wose iwe uripo. Izvo zvakakosha kuti uve neruremekedzo kuhama sezvavari vanhu vamunoshanda navo. Yeuka kuti anenge munhu wose ane tete, baba vake, kana mukoma.
Etiquette mazano emhuri yekuunganazve:
- Iva iwe wauri chaizvo. Pasinei nokuti iwe uri mukuru wekambani huru kana mutambi wechikoro, iwe uri chikamu chemhuri imwe chete. Usapfekedza mhepo kana kunyara pamusoro pezvaunoita nokuda kwehupenyu.
- Batsira. Pasinei nokuti unovenga urongwa hwakadii, kuchenesa, kana chimwe chinhu chinodiwa, chip in. Hazvina kunaka kusiya basa rose kune vamwe, uye kusabatsira kunogona kukupa mukurumbira wekuti "waini yakasviba."
- Usafungira. Usambofungira nezvezvokudya, mamiriro ekunze, kana dzimwe nhengo dzemhuri. Imi muri mose mune izvi pamwe chete, saka edza kuva nenguva yakanaka.
- Ramba uine ziso pavana vako. Kunyangwe iyi iri kuunganazve kwemhuri, haufaniri kutarisira kuti vamwe vave nehanya nevana venyu . Iva nechokwadi kuti vanoziva zvinotarisirwa mberi kwechiitiko uye nguva dzose vanoziva kuti varipi apo iwe uripo.
Zvose zvinobatana
Pane mamwe mazano ekutevedza aunofanira kutevera, pasinei nekutarisanazve. Kunyangwe iri kirasi rekubatanazve, kuunganazve kwemhuri, kana imwe mhando yekubatana, tsika dzakanaka nguva dzose dzinotarisirwa.
Etiquette tips for all occasions:
- Respond. Kana munhu wacho akakumbira RSVP, tumira zvakare nekutambira kana kuzvidemba . Kuronga kwakaoma zvakakwana pasina kushushikana pamusoro pekuti vangani vachapinda.
- Usanonoka. Iva nenguva yezviitiko zvakarongwa. Nguva yega yega inokosha seyako.
- Ipai vanhu chikwereti nokuda kwezvavakaita. Gara uchibvuma uye uchirumbidza vamwe nekuda kwezvinhu zvakanaka zvavakaita kubva pakupedzisira wakavaona.
- Ratidza kuonga kwako. Tendai muronga kana mutungamiri musati masiya chiitiko. Mushure mokunge masvika kumba, tumira munhu wacho zvakanyorwa zvakatendwa chinyorwa .
- Iva nenguva yakanaka. Nguva zhinji iwe une chisarudzo chokuseka kana kushungurudzika, nekungochinja zvaunotarisira, mafungiro, uye maitiro. Sarudza kunakidza, uye iwe unogona kunge uchida.