Wakamboshamisika here kana mumwe munhu akaswedera pedyo? Wati wambosangana nemumwe munhu achiisa chiso chake chemasentimita kubva kwauri panguva yekukurukurirana? Kana izvi zvave uchigunun'una uye uchitsvaga kubuda kwepedyo, zvichida nokuti munhu uyo akapinda nzvimbo yako yega.
About Personal Space
Izwi rokuti "nzvimbo yega" rinowanzoreva kurema kwemaviri pakati pevanhu vaviri mumagariro evanhu , mhuri, kana basa.
Funga nezvenzvimbo yako pachako semhepo pakati pemuviri wako uye chisingaoneki nhovo, kana bubble, wakazviumba iwe pachako kune chero hukama.
Nharaunda pakati pako nehove yako inogona kunge yakasiyana kubva kune mumwe munhu kune imwe, zvichienderana nemhando dzakasiyana-siyana, kusanganisira kuti iwe unonyatsoziva sei munhu wacho, ukama hwako nemurume iyeye, uye kuti unovimba zvakadini naye. Kuti kuisa vamwe vakasununguka , zvinokosha kuti vanzwisise kukosha kwehupenyu hwemunhu.
Kugadzirisa Zviitiko zveNzvimbo Yomunhu
Nzvimbo yakasununguka pakati pako nomumwe munhu waunoziva zvakanaka ingangodaro iri duku kudarika iyo ingadai iri kana iwe usingazivi mumwe munhu. Uye nemumwe mutorwa, zvakanyanya kukura. Kazhinji, vanhu vanogara mumaguta akakomberedzwa vane zviduku zvavanoda nzvimbo pane avo vanogara munzvimbo dzakazara.
Zvimwe zvinhu zvinogadzirisa nzvimbo yakasununguka yemunhu:
- Murume kurume
- Mukadzi kusvika kumukadzi
- Murume kurudzimai
- Ushamwari hwehutano - chero kusanganiswa kwevarume nevakadzi
- Rudo rwepabonde maererano neshamwari ya platonic
- Tsika nenyika
Avhareji nyaradzo yehupenyu hwemunhu oga nzvimbo iri kure mu US:
- Inenge 0 kusvika ku20 masendimita yehukama hwepedyo
- Inenge 1-1 / 2 mamita kusvika mamita matatu kune shamwari dzakanaka uye nhengo dzemhuri
- Anenge mamita matatu kusvika kune gumi pamusana pekuzivikanwa nevanhu vasingazivikanwi nevashandi
- Kupfuura mamita mana kune vatorwa
- Zvinopfuura mamita gumi nemaviri ekutaura neboka guru
General Rules of Personal Space:
Mitemo iyi inopesana maererano netsika uye nzvimbo, saka haisi kuiswa mumatombo. Vari pano semutungamiri wehutano hwemagariro evanhu uye unyanzvi .
Heano mamwe emitemo inokosha:
- Usambobata chero munhu wausingazivi.
- Usasvikire vana vese, pasinei nechinangwa chako.
- Mira anenge mamita mana kubva kumunhu kunze kwekuti iwe uchimuziva zvakanaka.
- Kana mumwe munhu akasendamira kubva kwauri, iwe unenge uri munharaunda yemunhu iyeye inoita kuti asanetseka.
- Kana iwe uchifamba muimba kana imba yemitambo isati yakabatanidzwa, siya imwe chigaro pakati pako nemunhu anotevera. Zvisinei, zvinogamuchirwa kugara pedyo nemumwe munhu kana imba yacho yakazara.
- Usambofa uchingamire pane rimwe rega rega kuti uverenge chimwe chinhu kunze kwekukokwa.
- Usambopfuura nepfuma yeumwe munhu.
- Usabvumira imbwa yako kuti ipinde muimba yekugezera pane imwe nzvimbo yomumwe munhu.
- Bvuma nzvimbo yako pachayo mumugwagwa. Usatengesa kana uchityaira .
- Usaisa ruoko rwako kumapfudzi eumwe munhu kana kurohwa munhu ari kumushure kunze kwekunge iwe uchiziva munhu wacho zvakanaka.
- Usapinda muimba kana ehofisi usina kugogodza pakutanga.
- Usatema pamberi pevanhu mumutsara.
Chemba Yomunhu Pakushanda
Kucherechedza miganhu muhofisi kunokosha kuchengetedza unyanzvi. Zvisinei, mushure mokushanda nevanhu kwemakore uye kusvika pakuvaziva, mitsara iyi ingave yakasvibiswa, kunyanya kana iwe ukashanda mumakubhi kana kuti une mazano ehofisi.
Ramba uchifunga kuti vamwe vasingakuzivi zvakanaka, kusanganisira vatariri, vangasanzwisisa zvavanoona. Ndicho chikonzero iwe unofanirwa kuchengeta kure nechezheni paunenge uri pahofisi uye uchengetedze humwe hukama hwepedyo hwemashure maawa.
Mitemo yebasa:
- Iva nehanya nekambani yemitemo pamusoro pehukama nevanoshanda navo .
- Usafungidzira ukama hwako nemunhu waunoshanda naye kana mutariri ari wega.
- Dzivisa kukumbatira kana zvimwe zviratidzo zvakajairika.
- Ingopinda mune imwe nzvimbo yekushanda kana iwe uchiziva kuti unogamuchirwa. Iva kuremekedza kana iwe uchinzwisisa kuti munhu anoshanda.
- Chengetedza hurukuro yako yega yega yekusvitsa kwemasikati kana shure kwemaawa.
Zvaunofanira Kuita Kana Mumwe Munhu Anopinda Munzvimbo Yako Yega
Kana mumwe munhu asinganzwisisiki pedyo newe, pane zvinhu zvakawanda zvaungaita. Ramba uchiyeuka kuti kuva wakananga kunogona kukuvadza manzwiro omumwe munhu, naizvozvo usati wataura pfungwa dzako, sarudza kana kana kwete nyaya yakakodzera kukura.
Nzira dzekutarisana nenzvimbo yekupinda:
- Gamuchirai.
- Svetedza kubva kumunhu kana kutora danho shure, achitarisira kuti iye achatora chirevo.
- Buda pakarepo uchiti iwe haunzwisisi kuva pedyo.
- Tsanangura kuti nei uchida imwe nzvimbo. Somuenzaniso, kana iwe uri kuruboshwe uye munhu wacho ari pedyo nechokupedzisira, ratidza kuti iwe unoda sei nzvimbo yekunyora manotsi.
Dzidzisa Vana Nzira Yokudzivirira Nzvimbo Yavo Yega
Paunodzidzisa tsika kune vana vaduku , varatidze nzira yekudzivirira miganhu yavo uye kuremekedza nzvimbo yavo yevamwe. Tsanangura kuti zvakakosha sei kutevera zvido zvevanhu vanovataurira kuti vadzoke. Iva nechokwadi chekuti unovataurira mumutauro wavanonzwisisa.
Vamwe vabereki vanoshandisa kuenzanisa kwebhuruu, vachitsanangura kuti munhu wose ane bundu risingaoneki rakavapoteredza, uye paunoswedera pedyo, iyo inopota. Uyewo udza vana vako kuti vanofanira kukuzivisa iwe kana munhu akaedza kuvabata zvisina kunaka.