Wati wadzidza nezvekufa kwemunhu wemhuri yemunhu kana shamwari yepedyo here? Iwe unozviwana iwe uri kurasikirwa nemashoko apo iwe uchiedza kufunga nezvekuti ungaratidza sei kunyunyuta kwako ? Hausi wega. Kunyora pfungwa dzako panguva ino yekuchema uye kuchema kunogona kunetsa.
Rimwe remashoko akaoma kwazvo kunyora nderimwe rinoratidzira tsitsi kune mumwe munhu akafirwa nemunhu waanoda, angave ari nhengo yemhuri, shamwari, kana chipfuwo chaanoda .
Zvisinei, pane dzimwe nguva apo chiri chakanaka chinhu chakanaka chaunofanira kuita, uye iwe unofanirwa kukwira kuchiitiko.
Ramba uchifunga kuti munhu arikugamuchira haasi kuongorora maitiro ako ekunyora kana kunyange kufunga pamusoro pako munguva ino. Chinangwa chekadhi ndechokupa nyaradzo kumunhu pakuguma kwekugamuchira. Tora nguva yekunyora nekutumira kadhi nekukurumidza mushure mekunge iwe uchinzwa nhau dze kurasika kwemunhu. Nyaya iyi inonyanya kufanana kana iri kunyorwa.
Mhando Yakakodzera Yenyasha Cherechedza
Zvakanakisisa kunyora tsamba yako yekunzwira tsitsi uye kuiisa mumeyili pane kutumira iyo kuburikidza ne email. Iwe unogona kusanganisira chipo chinonzwisisika chekupa tsitsi pamwe chete nemashoko ako, kunyange zvisiri izvo zvinodiwa. Tsvaga kadhi rakanaka kana shandisa zvinyorwa zvako zvakanaka uye nyora nepeni. Tanga nekutora chikwangwani pane imwe chigadziro chepapepa usati waisa mazwi pamakadhi okupedzisira. Iwe haufaniri kutora mapeji nemapeji; nhamba yako inogona kunge iri pfupi, chero bedzi ichibva pamwoyo.
Zvaunonyora Nekunzwira tsitsi Cherechedza
Pano pane zvisinganzwisisi dzimwe humwe hunoti hubatanidze mukunzwira tsitsi:
- Apo iwe unonyora mharidzo yekunzwira tsitsi , yeuka kuti haifaniri kuva imwe nguva yakareba iyo inotambaira uye pamusoro pekufa. Iwe haufaniri kuedza kupa chero tsanangudzo yekuti nei munhu wacho apfuura. Chinhu chinokosha ndechokubvumira munhu anogamuchira kuti iwe uri kufunga nezvake uye kuti unotarisira zvakakwana kutumira kadhi.
- Mharidzo inogona kuva iri nyore-mutauro wekutaura kwenyasha, se "Ndine urombo kunzwa nezvekurasikirwa nababamunini vako" Izvi zvingashandiswa kune mumwe munhu wausingazivi zvikuru, zvakadai seshamwari yebhizimisi kana kuti anoziva.
- Kune mumwe munhu wamunonyatsoziva, zvichida ungada kuwedzera chiyeuchidzo pamusoro pomunhu akafa. Usatya kutaura nguva inofadza kana inonakidza. Uyo anogamuchirwa achakoshesa kunyemwerera kuburikidza nemisodzi pachiyeuchidzo chenguva inokosha muhupenyu hwemudiwa.
- Kana munhu waanoda akafira mudambudziko rakafanana nenjodzi yemotokari, munhu wacho angangodaro achinetseka. Chengetedza iyi pfupi, asi ita kuti uite chimwe chinhu chakanaka kuti ubatsire. Uye zvino tevera.
- Rega munhu wacho azive kuti iye ari mupfungwa dzako neminyengetero. Kana iwe uchinzwa kuti munhu wacho angave asingadi kunamatira, iwe unogona kurega kutaura minyengetero. Kunyange kana ukasarudza kunyengeterera munhu uyu, yeuka kuti izvi ndezvemunhu wauri kutumira kadhi-kwete pamusoro pako.
- Vhura kadhi yacho nechipo chekubatsira . Izvi zvinogona kuva kuendesa kwekudya, zvichiita kuti munhu wacho azive kuti uripo pane zvekukurukura pamusoro pefivha, kana kuda kuibatsira nebasa. Iwe unogona kutaura zvakananga pamusoro pezvaunogona kuita, kana iwe unogona kungozvipa kuti uvepo kune zvose zvinoshungurudza munhu .
Izvo Zvisingafaniri Kubatanidzwa Mukunzwira tsitsi Cherechedza
Pane zvimwe zvinhu zvausingafaniri kunyora mune kadhi rekunzwira tsitsi. Dzivisa kuedza kuwedzera clichés dzisinganzwisisiki zvakadai sokuti, "Ari munzvimbo iri nani iyezvino." Izvi hazviiti kuti mupi wemunzwi achinzwe zviri nani uye anogona kunge aita kuti aite zvakaipa. Munhu anotambura kurasikirwa ari kukuvadza uye haafaniri kuverenga rudzi urwu rwemhinduro.
Usaudza munhu waunoziva kuti iye anonzwa sei. Kana iwe wakambosangana nemarwadzo akafanana, iye kana angave anoziva uye haafaniri kuyeuchidzwa panguva ino yekusuwa. Kana iwe usati wapinda mune izvi, iwe uchasangana seusingafungi.
Mienzaniso Yetsitsi Mharidzo
Dear Samantha,
Ndine urombo kunzwa nezvekupfuura kwababamunini vako. Akanga ari nguva yeupenyu hwepati, achiunza kuseka kune vose vaakasangana naye.
Handimbofi ndakakanganwa nguva yaakange aine munhu wese mumakumbo achitamba kazoo pamutambo wako wekuzvarwa. Ndine chokwadi kuti iyo nguva dzinofadza dzichashaikwa nevose vanoziva.
Ndinoda kuti iwe uzive kuti iwe nemhuri yako mune mifungo yangu neminamato munguva iyi yakaoma. Kana iwe uchida chinhu, usazeza kubvunza. Kana iwe unongoda mumwe munhu kuti ateerere , ndidane chero nguva. Ini ndiripo kuti ndive nevana vhiki yevhiki kana iwe nemurume wako muchida nguva yenyu.
Nenyasha,
Amanda
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Dear Hal,
Ndakanga ndine shungu zvikuru kunzwa nezvekurukuru vako vachipfuura. Ndinoziva kuti iwe wakanga uri pedyo naye uye unomusiya zvikuru.
Iwe uri mupfungwa dzangu apo uchienda kuTexas kumariro ake. Kana iwe uchida mumwe munhu kutarisa paimba yako kana kuunza tsamba yako, ndiudze. Ini ndichafara kufarira chero nenzira ipi zvandinokwanisa.
Shamwari yako,
Jake