Wati wamboshamisika here kuti ungati kudini kune shamwari yachangobva kurasikirwa nemunhu waunoda? Hazvisi nyore kuwana mazwi enyaradzo nekuda kwekurasikirwa kwavo, ndizvo? Asi chokwadi chinoramba chiripo kuti iwe unofanira kutaura chimwe chinhu kuti upe tsitsi yako uye kuratidza rubatsiro rwako kune munhu. Hazvifanirwi kuva kwenguva refu. Kunyange mashoko mashomanana achiita kuti vazive kuti uri kufunga nezvavo munguva yavo yekuchema inogona kunyaradza.
Kuwana Mashoko Akarurama
Chimwe chezvinhu zvakanyanya kuoma kune vanhu vakawanda kuita ndekuwana mazwi akakodzera okutaura mushure mekunge mumwe munhu apfuura.
Zvinosuruvarisa zvokuti mumwe munhu akafa, asi hapana munhu anoda kupfugama uye kutaura chimwe chinhu kuita kuti nhengo dzemhuri dziripo dziwedzere kuwedzera. Vamwe vanhu vanononoka pavanenge vachitya, saka shingairira kuva kunzwisisa nokunzwira tsitsi asi kwenguva pfupi.
Kunyaradza Panguva Yenhamo
Panzvimbo pokudzivisa kutaura kune vakapona, shandisa nguva uchifunga nezvemashoko achapa kunyaradza. Chengetedza hupenyu hwavo uye hutariro mupfungwa. Uye yeuka kuti iwe haufaniri kupfuurira mberi uye mberi. Chaizvoizvo, zvishoma iwe unoti zviri nani. Ipa tsitsi rwako, ipe munhu chikwata kana zvakakodzera, wozorega zvakare uye rega mumwe munhu ave nemukana wekupa runyararo.
Mushure mokutaura iwe nhengo dzemhuri yevakafa, unogona kubatanidza zvimwe zvekukurukurirana panguva yekushanyirwa kana kuti musangano usati watanga. Chengetedza inzwi rako pasi uye rinonyaradza. Dzivisa kutanga kana kupindira muhurukuro iyo isingapfuuri kukuremekedza kumhuri uye shamwari dzepedyo dzevakafa.
Zvokutaura
Kana iwe ukazviwana uri kurasikirwa nemashoko pamariro, iwe hausi woga. Vanhu vazhinji havanzwisisi mumamiriro ezvinhu aya. Funga usati wataura kuitira kuti usataura chimwe chinhu iwe uchazozvidemba.
Heano mimwe mienzaniso yezvingati:
- Hapana mazwi ekuudza iwe kuti ndine shungu sei. Ndapota zivai kuti muri mumiro yedu neminyengetero.
- Ndine shungu zvikuru kunzwa nezvekurasikirwa kwako. Kana iwe uchinzwa sokutaura, tapota usazeza kundidana.
- Johane akaunza mufaro mukuru kuvanhu vose vakamupoteredza. Iye achashaikwa nevakawanda.
- Ndine urombo zvikuru nekurasikirwa kwako. Ndinogara ndichiyeuka Maria uye kuti wakakuda iwe nevana vemhuri yako.
- Ndinoshuva kuti ndaigona kubvisa marwadzo ako. Ingoziva kuti ndiri kufunga pamusoro pako uye kunyengeterera kunyaradzwa kwako nemhuri yako.
- Kana pane chimwe chinhu chandingaita kuti ndibatsire, ndapota ndiudzei.
- Susan akanga ari chiedza chakajeka muhupenyu hwevanhu vazhinji. Tose tichamukanganwa zvikuru. Ndapota zivai kuti ndichave pano nokuda kwenyu apo munoda kutaura.
- Handikwanise kunyange kutanga kuratidza kuti mwoyo wangu unokurwa sei. Iwe uchava muminyengetero yangu.
- George aiva munhu akaipa kudaro. Tose tichafa, asi nhaka yake ichararama kuburikidza nebasa rose raakaita.
- Ndichatadza mazwi aTom ane mutsa uye kunyemwerera kunotyisa. Ndapota zivai kuti ndichave ndichinyengeterera iwe nemhuri yako.
Mashoko aya anogona kutaurirwa mushure mekunge apera , uye iwe unogona kuishandisa mumakadhi ekunzwira tsitsi . Zvausingadi kuita ndezvekuedza kutsanangura chikonzero chekufa kwemunhu kana kuita sekuti akafa kana mhuri iri nani. Kunyange kana munhu akafa akatambura kwemavhiki, mwedzi, kana makore, avo vari pedyo naye kana vachanzwa kurwadziwa kusingagoni kushambidzwa nekutsanangurwa.