Ndiregererei, Asi ndine Chinhu Chandinoreva
Kuvhiringidza kunowanzova chinhu chisina maturo kuita . Kutaura zvazviri, nguva yakawanda iyo inopesana nehurukuro kana kushungurudza mumwe munhu pavanenge vachitaura haifaniri kukurudzirwa, asi kune mamiriro ezvinhu anoda kutaura.
Nguva Yekupindira
Kana pane dambudziko, munhu wacho ari kutaura chimwe chinhu chaunoziva chakasina kunaka, boka racho riri kutaura makuhwa pamusoro pomumwe munhu asiripo , kana pane chimwe chikonzero chakasimba chokumisa hurukuro, iwe unogona kupindira chero bedzi uchiita zvine chiremerera.
Kuziva nguva uye nzira yekuvhiringidza kunokosha kana uchida kuti vamwe vakuone sewe munhu akanaka , ane nyasha, anofunga, uye anofadza.
Haikwanisi kuwana Shoko Mu
Chimwe chikonzero chokuvhiringidza kungadaro ndeyekuti mumwe munhu anotora kutaura chimwe chinhu. Kukurukurirana kunofanirwa kusanganisira vose vari muboka, asi kune vamwe vanhu vasingapa vamwe mukana wokutaura. Kana iwe chete nzira yaunogona kutaura nayo, tarisira munhu wacho kuti abate mweya wake uye ataure.
Usava munhu iyeye anonyanya kutaura. Kuva mutauriri akanaka kunosanganisira kubatanidzwa mukushingaira nekukurukura nguva yekupindira. Kana inguva yekuteerera, rega kutaura asi tsvaka mikana yekupindirana nemibvunzo kana mazwi mashoma.
Mazano ekuti Unganganisa sei Kukurukurirana
- Iva nechinangwa chaicho. Pasinei nokuti uri kutamba mune imwe nhaurirano yevamwe vanhu kana iwe uchigadzirisa unhu humwe munhu, zvakakosha kuti iwe une chikonzero chekuita uye kukwanisa kuendesa izvo kumunhu achitaura. Taurai chinangwa muchidimbu sezvinobvira.
- Shandisa nguva yakakodzera. Zvakanaka kumirira kusvikira munhu achitaura achirega kubata mweya asati ataura.
- Iva sounyoro sezvinobvira. Nguva dzose taura zvakasununguka uye tanga hurukuro nekutaura kwekuremekedza kune kukanganisa kwako. Zvimwe zvinhu zvaungataura zvinosanganisira, "Ndiregererei," "Ndinofanira kutaura chimwe chinhu pano," "Unofunga kana ndikangopokana here?" Ndine pfungwa inofanirana nezvamangotaura, "" Ndinoda kuwedzera chimwe chinhu kune icho, "kana" Ndinokumbira ruregerero rwako, asi ndinofanira kutaura chimwe chinhu. "
- Shandisa gati. Kana kukanganisa kwako kusagamuchirwa, simudza ruoko kana kushandisa siso rekuona kuti munhu afunge. Usambofa wakamira. Paunenge uchiita chiito chako, iwe unogona kuti, "Ndiregererei kwechidimbu. Zvadaro taura iwe zvaunoda kuti utaure nekukurumidza sezvinobvira kuitira kuti vagone kudzokera kuhurukuro yavo.
- Bvisa huro rako. Izvi zvinogona kuva nemisoro inotenderera mberi. Shandisa zvayo kuti utaure chero zvaunoda kutaura.
- Ramba uchitarisa kure kana uchivhiringidza hurukuro yemumwe munhu. Kana iwe uchifamba kusvika kune wese ari kutaura, zvingaratidzika kuti unoda kungoteerera. Dzokera shure apo iwe unotarisana neziso kuti uratidze kuti kuva chikamu chekukurukurirana kwavo kwete izvo zvaunoda.
- Wana tsananguro. Paunenge uri musangano rebhizimisi kana komiti , uye hurukuro iri kutungamira mune imwe nzira iwe uye pamwe nevamwe vasinganzwisisi, zvakanaka kuti udzivhiringidze kuwana tsanangudzo. Iwe unogona kushamisika kuti vangani vachakuvongai gare gare. Mikana ndeyokuti iwe usinganzwisisi vamwe havaiti.
- Ongai vamwe kuburikidza nekubvumira kuti muvhiringidze. Mushure mekunge uchitaura zviri mupfungwa dzako, kuratidza kuonga kwako kune vamwe vanokubvumira kutaura.
- Kana mumwe munhu atanga kuhwa, unogona kupopotera chero chero chipi zvacho kuti udzimise mumakwara ayo. Imwe yenguva dzinonyanya kukosha yekuvhiringidza kukurukurirana ndeye kana inoshanduka kusvika kune tsvina kutaura mumwe munhu asiripo kana kuti kuseka munhu. Kana iwe ukaramba umira ipapo uchiterera, kunyange iwe usingatauri shoko, uri kutora pamwe nekukurudzira chinhu chakadai. Uye mikana ndeyokuti, apo iwe usipo nevanhu ava, ivo vari kukanganisa pamusoro pako. Taura zvakasimba uye shandura nyaya yacho. Kana vasingakwanisi kuwana ruzivo, iwe unogona kuti, "Ndingasada kumurangana naye apo iye asiri pano kuzvidzivirira." Kana vakaramba vachienda, siya.