Vamwe vanhu vanoshamisika kana zvakakosha kutumira manyorero mavheti mushure mekuvigwa. Kutumira kukutendai chinyorwa nguva dzose tsika dzakanaka apo mumwe munhu anokupa chipo kana kuita chimwe chinhu chakakunakira iwe. Haisi nguva dzose inotarisirwa, asi ichiri chiito chakanaka chokupa kuratidza kwekutenda kwevanhu vakave varipo kwauri panguva yakaoma yekuchema. Hapana nguva inopera nguva yakapfuura mushure mekuvigwa, saka zvakakodzera kumirira kusvikira wava kugadzikana mupfungwa.
Avo Vanoenda Kumariro
Iwe unogona kutumira tsamba pfupi yekutenda kune vose vanoenda kune imwe nzvimbo yemariro. Zvisinei, kana mariro acho aiva nemazana evanhu varipo, pamwe haungashudzi kutumira munhu wose nhamba, asi iwe unogona kusarudza uye kutumira shoko kuna avo vakabuda munzira yavo kukunyaradzai. Somuenzaniso, kana mumwe munhu akaenda kumusha wemariro kuti abatsire kugadzirisa kana kubata vana vako, chinyorwa chekutenda chingadiwa .
Ndivanaani Vanofanira Kuwana Mavonga Note
Kune vamwe vanhu vangave uchida kuvonga nokukurumidza kana iwe uchikwanisa:
- Vanhu vakakuitira chero chinhu pakati pekufa kwemazuva anotevera kumariro
- Munhu wose akatsigira iwe panguva yehutano hwevakafa kana kufa kwaiva chikonzero chekurwara kana chirwere
- Vanhu vakatumira maruva kana zvipo zvebasa racho
- Vadzidzisi nevaridzi vakapinda mumariro
- Vadiri
- Chero ani akabatsira panguva yebasa, saiye mutariri uye munhu akamira nerejista yevashanyi
- Vaya vakapa zvinyorwa
Hazvisi Zvekutumira Kutuma Mazvita Kumunhu wese
Hapana chikonzero chekutumira kuvonga manotsi pamabasa ezvakanaka zvemutsa , kunze kwekuti chinhu chaunonyatsoda kuita. Heano mimwe mienzaniso yevaya vamusingafaniri kunetseka nezvekutumira tsamba:
- Vanhu vakatumira makadhi nemashoko ekunzwira tsitsi uye kuvhiringidza
- Vaya vakatuma vanotenda manotsi kubva kune zvipo zvakagamuchira avo vakagamuchira zvipo mukuremekedza wevakafa
- Munhu wose akamira pazuva remariro
Vanhu vakawanda vanonzwisisa kuti zvakaoma kuchengetedza vanhu vose vasina kugovera patafura yakazadzwa ne casseroles, sandwiches, uye dessert. Iwe unogona kutumira manyorero kuvonga kune vanhu vakaunza zvokudya. Ita pasi mazita evanhu vanoratidzira nezvokudya kana chero rudzi rwechipo kuitira kuti mugone kuyeuka mukunyora tsamba.
Ndivanaani Vanofanira Kutumira Kuonga Cherechedza
Zvakakodzera kune ani zvake akabatsirwa nekubatsirwa kwakananga kutumira kukutendai chinyorwa. Izvi zvinowanzova mudzimai, mwana, kana mubereki wevakafa. Akutenderera mashoko kubva kune imwe nhengo yemhuri kana shamwari yako yepedyo inogamuchirwa.
Kana iwe uchiri kutambudzika zvakanyanya kutumira tsamba, iwe unogona kuita kuti mumwe munhu akuitirei. Uyo anogamuchirwa achaziva kana akagamuchira kadhi nemashoko anoti, "Hanzvadzi yangu Marsha yakandikumbira kuti ndikutendese pamaruva akanaka uye kadhi rinofungisisa. Achiri kushungurudzika kurasikirwa kwomweya wake, asi anoda kuti ndikuudze iwe kuti anotarisira kutaurirana newe nokukurumidza. "
Nguva Yokutumira Kuonga Cherechedza
Ndinokutendai manotsi anofanira kugara akanyorwa nokukurumidza.
Vanhu vazhinji vachaziva kana vasingagamuchiri rimwe mukati mevhiki yemariro. Iko hakusi nguva yakasimba, asi zvakanakisisa kupedzisa kunyora nekuvatumira mukati memwedzi inoverengeka. Iwe uchanzwa wakasunungurwa shure kuti uve nezvose shure kwako.
Zvokutaura muKadhi Remutenda
Ichi ndicho chimwe chezviitiko izvi apo zvakakosha kutumira makadhi nemashoko ekunyora. Iwe unogona kuwedzera mumwe mutsara kana mutsetse kuti uite zvaunofunga uye unyore zita rako.
Paunonyora chinyorwa chekutendai, taura zvakananga sezvinobvira:
Bheti Anodiwa naJonatani,
Ndinokutendai mose zvakanyanya nguva yose yamakapedza naTimoti neni tisati tafa. Zvaireva zvakanyanya kwandiri kuti ndive neshamwari dzakadai, dzine rudo.
Rudo,
Molly
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Dear Samantha,
Ndinokutendai pamaruva akaisvonaka wamakatumira kumarariro ambuya vangu. Aigara achida marosi machena, uye kuzviona mumuchengetedzo kwakandiyeuchidza kuti akafara sei nekushanya kwako.
Ndichagara ndichiziva kuti wakamuitira mutsa sei.
Shamwari yako,
Melissa
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Dear Matthew,
Ndinokutendai kuburikidza nekushanda semucherechedzo pamariro ababa vangu. Ushamwari hwenyu nemutsa munguva ino yakaoma zvinoreva zvakawanda kwandiri.
Nekuda,
Helene