Etiquette for Breaking Off An Engagement

Kana Muchato Usingaiti

Wati wambovhuna chibvumirano Wati wambotanga kuparara kwakakura kwemarudzi ose here? Izvi zvinoitika kuvanhu vakanakisisa, uye dzimwe nguva hapana chaunogona kuita pamusoro pazvo.

Kuberekwa hakunakidzi kune ani zvake - kana iwe uri iye wakaputsika kana uyo anosarudza kugumisa ukama. Iwe zvichida wakaona vanhu vachiita nenzira dzinonyadzisa kune vose vanovapoteredza.

Kuwana Kurambana Kunorwadza

Kana iwe wakamborarama nekupindirana kwakaputsika, iwe unoziva manzwiro anorwadza anoitika nokukurumidza kana apera.

Hausi iwe chete une zvaunofunga kuti uite nayo, vanhu vose vanoreva zvakanaka muupenyu hwako vanoda zvido, uye vanogona kubvunza mibvunzo yedu kana kutaura chimwe chinhu kunze kwemashoko .

Zvaunoita

Apo vanhu vamunoshanda navo vanodzidza pamusoro pekuparadzana, iwe ungazviwana iwe wehurukuro yekukurukurirana uye makuhwa . Kunyange zvazvo pasina nzira yokumisa hofisi huru muromo , iwe unogona kutaura zvine chiremerera vanhu kuti hongu, iwe waputsa kubatanidzwa, asi iwe unofarira kuti usakurukura. Ndiyo pfungwa yakanaka yekuuya neurongwa hwekupindura nemibvunzo pakarepo paunomisa misodzi yako.

Chokutanga pane zvose, unofanirwa kuyeuka kuti hazvisi zvose zvinopera mumhuri. Nguva yekubatanidza inguva yakanaka yekudzidza kuti waunofambidzana naye anoshanda sei mumamiriro ezvinhu anonetsa, uye kuparadzana kuchawedzera izvo zvinonzwisisika.

Hapana mhinduro dziri nyore kana imwe-yakakosha-inoenderana-yose sarudzo. Zvisinei, pane mitemo yakawanda uye mirayiridzo inogona kuita kuti izvi zvive zvisina maturo sezvinobvira.

Kunyange kana iwe usati wamboona mumwe munhu zvakare, nguva dzose iri pfungwa yakanaka yekuchengeta zvinhu zvakanaka uye kutendeseka. Kutevedzera tsika dzako dzezuva nezuva munguva ino yakaoma kuchakuchengetedza kusazvidemba zvakare gare gare. Iwe unogona kunge usingadi chinhu chekuita nemunhu iye zvino, asi kupisa mabhiriji kunogona kukanganisa kukwanisa kwehukama hwemangwana nevekare kana nevamwe vanhu vane simba muupenyu hwako.

Chiziviso

Sezvo iwe waizozivisa chibvumirano, iwe unoda kuti munhu wose azive kuti muchato wacho wakadanwa . Zvisinei, imwe nguva yepemberera inenge isina kurongeka panguva yakadai. Kune dzimwe nzira dzekuzivisa kuparadzana kwako.

Kurukurai kupatsanurana kwako nemusangano wevafundisi kana muchato mukuru . Munhu uyu anoda kuziva pamberi peumwe munhu kuitira kuti iye anogona kutora muchato wacho izvo zvingangodaro zvakabatikana purogiramu. Vamwe vamiriri vemufundisi vanogona kukumbira bumbiro rimwe chete rekupa mazano.

Haisi iyo pfungwa yakanaka yekuita mutambo wemhosva, kunze kwekuti mumwe wenyu akaita chimwe chinhu munharaunda chisingagoni kuchengetwa. Kana zvichiita, taurira vanhu kuti zvaiva sarudzo imwechete yekubvumirana kugovana nzira. Kana mumwe munhu achikumbira mamwe mashoko, nenzira yezvematongerwe enyika iwe unogona, taura kuti haisi yakasununguka pakukurukurirana uye kuti iwe une vamwe kuti utaure. Usazvibvumira kuti uiswe muhurukuro yakareba . Ita chero chaunogona kuti uchinje nyaya yacho .

Zvisinei, kana mumwe wenyu aine nyaya yevoruzhinji kana akaita chimwe chinhu chisingabatsiri, hapana nzira yakapoteredza vanhu vanoziva chokwadi. Zvichiri nani kudai iwe usingapfuuriri hurukuro yacho, kana iwe ungave wakanyanyisa nguva yekudzosa upenyu hwako.

Izvo iwe nemumwe wako wekare munogona kuita kuti shamwari neshamwari zvizive:

Kukurukura Vatengesi

Iwe unoda kutaurirana nevese vatengesi, kusanganisira muchengeti wako, photographer, videographer, florist, cake decorator, uye ani zvake wawakashandira kuti apiwe basa panguva yemuchato wako kana kugamuchira . Iwe pachako haungatori mari yako, uye iwe unogona kunge uchiri kukwanisa kubhadhara chikamu chekubhadhara kuti uchengete mitambo.

Engagement Ring

Kazhinji yenguva, zvigaro zvekubatanidza zvinoonekwa sezvipo zvinotarisirwa pamuchato unoitwa. Mwenga anofanira kuridzorera paanoputsa kubatanidzwa. Zvisinei, kana rhete yacho yaipiwa sezuva rekuberekwa kana yezororo, ndeyecheche yekuchengeta.

Kana pane kusagadzikana pamusoro pechindori uye ndiani anozviwana, unofanira kutsvaka mazano emutemo.

Mitemo yehurumende inopesana pamusoro pemamiriro ezvinhu anotora ringani . Mune dzimwe nyika, kana muwani achiramba kubatanidzwa, mwenga anogona kuchengeta mhete, asi kana mwenga achibvarura zvinhu, anofanira kudzorera mhete. Mamwe magwaro funga kuti rin'i chipo chaicho.

Zvipo zveMuchato

Nokukurumidza kana zvichibvira mushure mekuparadzana, zvipo zvose zvemuchato zvinofanira kudzorerwa mumapurasitiki epakutanga. Ichi chikonzero chimwe chete hachisi chikonzero chakanaka chekushandisa chipo chemuchato musati mhemberero. Paunotumira chipo chacho, chengetedza chinyorwa chekutenda uye rega munhu azive kuti muchato hausi kuzoitika. Hazvisiko kupa chikonzero kana tsanangudzo yakajeka. Izvi zvinosanganisira zvipo zvemari.

Uri Munhu Akanaka

Vakawanda vakaroorana vanobatanidza zvinhu zvavo vasati varoorana. Kana imi mose muri kuparadzanisa pamashoko akanaka, uye mune chokwadi kuti hakuna munhu achapokana pamusoro pezvinhu zvaari, kuungana pamwe nekuparadzanisa zvinhu zvako. Zvisinei, kana pane kusava nechokwadi kwekuti mumwe munhu achaita sei, bvunza nhengo yemhuri kana shamwari kuti avepo kana kudzorera zvinhu zveumwe munhu.