Kunyora zvipikiso zvako zvemuchato iwe pachako kunogona kuva basa rinotyisa, asi hazvisi zvakaoma sezvarinoratidzika. Heano matanho matanhatu ari nyore iwe unogona kutevera kunyora mhiko dzako dzechichato.
Mazano Okunyora Mhiko Yenyu Yomuchato
- Iva nechokwadi chokuti munhu wese ari papeji imwe chete. Taura nemudzimai wako wemunguva yako uye mukuru wako uye uite kuti munhu wose ave akanaka nemhiko dzomukati yemunhu . Zvimwe zvezvitendero zvinoda kuti iwe ushandise mazwi ekutaura, asi vamwe vachakubvumira kunyora zvako, chero bedzi iwe uchisanganisira mamwe mazwi. Iwewo unoda kuve nechokwadi chokuti mudiwa wako anodawo kuzviita. Paunenge uri pairi, sarudza pamwe chete kana iwe uchida kunyora chimwe chezvipikiso zvemuchato chaunenge uchataura zvose, kana kuti iwe unoda kunyora iwe pachako.
- Pindura mibvunzo iri nyore. Inguva yekuchikoro. Gara pasi munzvimbo yakanyarara uye pepa uye peni uye upindure mibvunzo iyi. Kunyange kana iwe usingafungi kuti mhinduro ichaguma mumhiko dzako dzechato, tora nguva yekuinyora pasi zvakadaro. Inogona kukubatsira munguva refu. Kana iwe ukasangana nebhuku rekunyora, tanga kuedza kutora nguva shomanana. Kana iwe uchiri kunetseka, edza kutaura mhinduro dziri mu tepi rekodha, kurega pfungwa dzichiyerera pachena.
- Ndeipi chinhu chikuru pane munhu wauri kuroora?
- Wakazive rini kuti iwe uri murudo / unoziva kuti munhu uyu ndiye waunoda kuroora?
- Kuroorana kunorevei kwauri? Sei uchida kuva munhu akaroorwa?
- Ndeipi chinhu chakakosha iwe unoda kuvimbisa kune wako? Chii chinopikirwa iwe unoda kunyanya kunzwa kubva kwavari? (Somuenzaniso, zvinogona kunge zvakakosha kwauri kuti uvimbise kuti iwe uchagara uchivaremekedza kana kuti iwe unogona kunge uchida kuti vimbise kuvimbika kwavo kusingaperi.)
- Chii chichachinja pamusoro pehukama hwenyu kana makaroorana? Chii chichagara chakafanana?
- Chii chaunonyanya kuyeuka yewawakaroorana naye?
- Pawakanga uri muduku, wakarota zuva rako remuchato here kana kuti wako wemangwana wako? Chiratidzo ichocho chinowirirana sei (kana kwete) neunofarira wako?
- Ongorora nyanzvi. Tora nguva yekuverenga kuburikidza nemhiko dzakasiyana-siyana dzemhiko dzechichato, pamwe chete nendima dzezvinyorwa, rudo nenyaya, uye kunyora kunonyanya kuratidza rudo . Shingaira kunze kwezvaunofarira, uye shandisa magwaro anonyanya kutaura newe.
- Itai zvose pamwe chete. Dzokera kumashoko awakanyora kare, uye shandisa mavhesi aungada kuisa mumhiko yako yemuchato. Ino ndiyo nguva yekugadzirisa zvinhu pasi uye kusarudza zvakanakisisa zvezvinhu zvose zvaunofanira kushanda nazvo. Edza kutora mutsara kana maviri kubva mumabhuku, wedzera mutsara kana maviri kubva mhinduro kumibvunzo iri pamusoro, uye pedza nemhiko-mutemo unotanga "Ndinopika" kana "Ndinopika". Somuenzaniso, unogona kuti: "Maria, sezvakataurwa nhetembo Rilke, 'Ichi ndicho chishamiso chinoitika nguva dzose kune avo vanonyatsoda. Iwe ndiwe unopa rupo, rudo, munhu asina udyire ndinoziva.Ndakadirana newe nguva yandakatanga kukuona iwe nemwanasikana wako, kumubata neruremekedzo rwakadaro uye kumupa iye wese.Ndinonzwa wakafara kuti iwe wakasarudza igoverana rudo rwako neni, uye kuti ini ndinosvika pakukwegura pedyo nemwi Maria, nhasi ndinosarudza iwe kuti uve mudzimai wangu.Ndinovimbisa kukuda, kukukudza, kukuchengeta iwe, uye kutendeka kwauri, kubvira nhasi kuenda mberi uye kwehupenyu hwedu hwose. "
- Kana izvozvo zvisina kushanda ... Edza kuzadza muzvinyorwa mumhiko yakajeka:
(Zita remudiwa wako), iwe ndiwe (shamwari yangu yakanakisisa, imwe yerudo rwechokwadi, iyo yandinoda kupedza hupenyu hwangu hwose pamwe, nezvimwewo) Nhasi, ndinokutora kuti uve wangu (mudzimai, murume, mudzimai akaroorana nemutemo kana murume, shamwari yehupenyu, nezvimwewo.) Ndinokupikira kuti ini ndichave (akatendeka, akakodzera kuvimba kwako, akakodzera rudo rwako, shamwari yako ine rudo, nezvimwewo) Ndinopika kuti (kukukudza, kukuda, kukuda, kuremekedza iwe, kuseka newe, kuchema newe, kukutsigira pane zvinangwa zvako, nezvimwe), (Isai pano urefu hwemhiko yako, somuenzaniso, yeupfumi, yevarombo, mukurwara uye mune utano, chero bedzi isu tose isu achararama.) - Dzidzira, Dzidzira, Dzidzira. Kutanga, edza kuverenga zvawakanyora nenzwi guru kune shamwari yaunovimba kana nhengo yemhuri. Zvakanaka, munhu uyu achava mumwe munhu munyori akanaka, uye mumwe munhu anoziva ukama hwako. Vangave vane mazano akanaka kwamuri, kana chiito chisina kuoma chekuchiverenga nenzwi guru vanogona kukubatsira kuziva nzvimbo dzaunokwanisa kuvandudza. Kana uchinge washanda shanduro yekupedzisira, ita kuti uzviverengere uri woga kuti uone kuti iwe unofara nazvo. Kana uchikwanisa, edza kuifunga nepamusoro. Asi kana iwe kana iwe usati wakabata nemusoro zvakanaka, iva nechokwadi chokuti iwe unonyora pasi mhiko dzako dzechichato pamakadhi echinyorwa (uye shandisa imwe kopi kumunhu wakanakisisa kana musikana wekubwinya !) Kuitira kuti mitsipa isasaparadza basa rako rose rakaoma.