Kana iri pamusoro pemichato, pane vanhu vanoverengeka vanowanzopa hurukuro kana kuti zvigaro pamitambo yakasiyana-siyana yakapoteredza zuva guru revakadzi. Kubva pamutambo unobatanidzwa kusvikira zuva remuchato, pane mikana yakawanda uye vanhu vanogona kupa chigunwe, uye kana iwe uchifunga iwe ungada kugovera mbiriso pane imwe nguva, ipapo ramba uchiverenga!
Ichi chinyorwa chichajekesa uyo anowanzopa michero yemuchato, nguva uye kupi kwaanoitika, pamwe nekugovera mazano pamusoro pekunyora chikwata chechichato chakanaka, zvisinei kuti unoita sei mumhemberero dzemachato.
Chii Chiroro Chechichato?
Chigunwe chinotsanangurwa senzira iyo kunwa kunotorwa semuenzaniso wekuremekedzwa kana kufarira, saka kana tichitaura nezvemuchato, ihurukuro inofanirwa yakagadzirirwa kuonga vadzimai vanofara avo vakangosunga chete pfumo. Chigodo chechato chinogona kupiwa nhengo dzakasiyana dzakasiyana dzomukati kana kuti nemunhu mumwechete, zvichienderana nematauriro emudzimai.
Ndiani Anopa Toasts paMuchato?
Uri kushamisika pamusoro paani anopa chirairo chechato uye kana panguva yemhemberero? Vanhu vanotevera vanowanzopa zvigaro:
- Munhu Akanakisisa: Munhu Akanakisisa ndiye anowanzoita kuti ataure hurukuro kana mbiriso kune vakaroorana pamutambo wechato.
- Mudzimai Wekuremekedza / Matron Wekuremekedza: Zvadaro kumusoro maererano nehutungamiri hwemigwagwa ingadai iri Mukadzi kana Matron of Honor.
- Mwenga uye Mukadzi: Zvakajairika kuti mwenga nomwenga vataure mazwi mashomanana kuvashanyi vavo uye vavatendere kuuya.
- Vabereki veMwenga kana Mukadzi: Kazhinji vabereki vemwenga vachapa chigunwe, kunyanya kana vari kutora muchato. Vabereki vomukomana vanogonawo kupa gumbo.
Ndeipi Muchato Wokuroora Unoitika?
Chimbofunga nguva yekutambira paunosarudza nguva yekupa hurukuro yako. Nenguva isipi hurukuro uye zvigaro zvinowanikwa panguva yekugamuchira, panguva yekudya kwemaawa apo munhu wese agere zvakanaka. Dzimwe nguva tipeji dzinenge dzichiitika panguva yekupembera mukudha panguva yekugamuchira kana pedyo nekanguva yekucheka kwekeke.
Pane chirevo chekuchengetedza mupfungwa kana zvasvika kune chechi yechikwata chehurumende, saka iva nechokwadi kuti usataure kunze kwekutsvaga.
Nzira Yokunyora Imba Yakawanda Yomuchato
Maererano naSteve Faber, munyori wechirongwa che "Wedding Crashers," panofanira kunge kune zvikamu zvishanu zvakakosha mune zvigunwe chero chipi zvacho: background, anecdote, rubatsiro rwemashoko, kuchinja, uye kugumisa.
- Background. Ipai mamiriro ezvinhu nekuzviisa muimba, kunyanya kana iwe usingazivi vazhinji vevaenzi. Kunyange kana iwe uchiziva vazhinji vevashandi, ichi chiito chakanaka kuitira kuti munhu wese anoteere ane chimiro chekutaridzirwa.
- Anecdote Ane Chinangwa. Shandisai imwe nhau inofadza nekutsanangurira mukamuri kuti unoziva sei mwenga uye / kana mukomana. Nguva dzose unosanganisira zvose mwenga nemwenga mumutauriro wako, zvisinei kuti ndiani ari kurutivi rwemuchato iwe uri chikamu che. Ipa nhaurirano nyaya pfupi yawakasangana nayo uye kuti wakasvika pakuziva sei vakaroorana vanofara muukama hwavo.
- Comic Relief. Izvo zvakakodzera zvakakwana kushamiswa uye kusanganisira kuseka mumutauriro wako, asi kwete pamutengo wemwenga kana mukwati pazuva ravo rinokosha. Gara uine chiedza-mwoyo uye zvose zvakasununguka kana zvasvika pakushamwaridzana mumuchato wako.
- Turning Point. Ipa nguva apo vaviri vacho vaiziva kuti vaida kuti varambe varipo nokusingaperi, kana imwe nguva yamakaona mushamwari yako kuti iye awana "iyo."
- Mhedziso. Putira zvakanaka. Nguva dzose gumisa kutaura nechishuvo chemutsa kana chikomborero kune vakaroorana, uye kusimudza chigunzva mukukudzwa kwavo.
Mazano eMuchato Gorosi Yakabudirira
Usapotsa mazano aya ekunyora uye kupa chirabwe chikuru chechato:
- Iva Pfupi, asi kwete pfupi. Kutaura kwako kunofanirwa kupedza zvishoma pamaminitsi mashanu uye inofanira kuva nechokwadi chekutarisira vateereri.
- Practice your Speech. Shandisa nguva yekudzokorora, zviri nani kutaura kubva pamwoyo kupinda kuverenga sendi yekodha makadhi. Dzidzira zvakakwana kuti uone sechisikirwo, asi kwete yakakonzerwa zvakakwana.
- Iva nechokwadi chekumwemwerera. Iwe uri kupemberera vanhu vaviri vanoita sezviri pachena kuti vanoreva zvakawanda kwauri, saka ita zvose zvaunogona kuti uchengetedze kutarisa chiso chako nguva yose.
- Ramba uchiita zvakanaka. Shandisa nhau kana zvirangariro zvevakaroorana pamwe chete vanofara uye vakanaka. Ichi ndicho chiitiko chinonakidza, saka siya zvimwe zvinosuruvarisa uye zvinoshungurudza mwoyo kune imwe nguva.
- Shandisa chete maitiro akanaka akanaka. Usataurirana nhau dzechokwadi dzinonyadzisa pamusoro peumwe wekuroorwa. Kana chiri chimwe chinhu chavasingadi kuti vanasikana vateerere, zvakachengeteka kufunga kuti nyaya yacho iri kure nemiganhu.
- Ramba uri kure mukati majokes. Kana nyaya yaunoda kuisa inowira mu "iwe waifanira kunge uri" ndima, zvakanakisisa kuti uisiye kunze kwechigunwe chako kuitira kuti usaparadzanisa vamwe vaenzi.
- Iva nechokwadi kune wauri. Usapinda gumbo rinonyadzisa kana iwe uri werudzi rwemanzwiro, uye usaenda kumisodzi kana iwe uri munhu wekunakidza. Iva wepanyama uye ugare wakatendeka kune wauri uye neukama hwako nevarume vaviri.
- Shandisa zvinyorwa zvinorehwa. Funga kutsanangura mutsara unobatsira kubva kumabhaisikopo, nhetembo kana bhuku mubhuku rako kuti urove mwoyo yevamwe vaeni vomuchato.
Nekubatsirwa kwemashoko aya, iwe uchava nechokwadi chekunyora tsvina inofadza, inofadza uye inobva pamwoyo kukudza vakaroorana vanofara pazuva ravo rinokosha.