Iwe wave uchifamba nemuhupenyu, uchifunga kuti wakawana zvinhu zvose zvakagadzirwa. Zvisinei, wakacherechedza kuti vamwe vanhu vanokupa maitiro anonakidza, kana iwe wakasara kubva kune imwe nzvimbo yevaeni yevamwe vekanaka. Wakambofunga here kuti ungangodaro uchinge uchinge uchiita zvisiri izvo zvikanganiso ?
Heano zvimwe zvinhu zvausingafaniri kuita:
- Kwete kuisa vamwe. Kana iwe ukamira nemumwe munhu, uye mumwe shamwari kana kuti anoziva anofamba, iwe unofanirwa kuita sumo. Hazvina kudaro hazvina maturo. Iwe unogona kunge usinganzwisisiki kana iwe wakakanganwa rimwe remazita avo, asi zvakanaka kuti uregerere kukanganwa. Izvo zviri nyore, "Ndine urombo, asi handifungi zita renyu," rakakwana. Uyezve kana iwe uine zita romunhu, ita sumo.
- Kwete kutumira RSVP. Apo mumwe munhu anokukoka iwe kumuchato kana kuti mutambo wekudya, nguva dzose utumire RSVP . Kuita kudaro kunogona kukanganisa kuronga kwemuenzi. Kana usina chokwadi chekuti iwe unogona here kuenda kana kuti kwete, regai munhu wacho azive nechivimbiso chekusimbisa nokukurumidza. Zvadaro tevera kana iwe uine chokwadi. Usachengetedza mumiririri akarembera, kana iwe ungawana kuti iwe hauna kuwana kukokwa panguva inotevera paanokanda pati.
- Kumbira kuona imba yeumwe munhu. Paunenge uri muimba yomumwe munhu-ingave iyo yekudya kwemanheru kana kuti husiku husiku-hazvina kunaka kukumbira kutarisa kweimba yose. Mukuru wacho achakutora iwe parwendo kana achida kuti uone. Kukumbira kuratidzwa kweimba kunonyadzisa, kupindira kwebasa rega , uye kunogona kuita kuti munhu wacho asanetseka kana mamwe emakamuri akavharwa nokuda kwechikonzero.
- Kukumbira zvokudya zvakananga. Kana iwe ukakokwa kumba kweumwe munhu kudya kwemanheru, hazvina kunaka kuti ubvunze zvimwe zvokudya. Zvisinei, zvakanaka kuti munhu wacho azive kana iwe uine mishonga yepamusoro kana kuti mimwe mitemo yechitendero kuitira kuti akwanise kukuudza kuti chii chakanaka kana kuti chisina kunaka kuti iwe udye. Iwe haufaniri kutarisira kuti mutevedzeri awane zvaunoda zvekudya. Iwe unogona kudya zvakapoteredza chero zvese zviripo, kana kana zvakanaka newawakagamuchira, uunza chimwe chinhu kuti ugogovana. Zvichida iwe uchaziva kuti pane zvokudya chimwe chete zvaunogona kudya.
- Kuita vanhu kusagadzikana. Mira uye funga nezvekuti unozvibata sei pamberi pevamwe shamwari dzako. Uri kunyengera kumaseva paresitorendi here? Iwe unotaura majee asina kukodzera here? Unoratidzira rudo rukuru kune rako rinokosha kune vamwe munharaunda here? Kana iwe usingakwanisi kuvhara chero chinhu, bvunza shamwari yaunovimba iyo ichave yakatendeseka newe.
- Kuisa mumwe munhu pa speakerphone pasina mvumo yake. Iwe unofanira kugara uchiudza munhu wacho kuti ari pa speakerphone nokuti anoda kuziva kuti vateereri vake ndevanaani. Kusamuudza hazvina maturo nokuti anogona kutaura chimwe chinhu chinorehwa nenzeve dzako chete. Zviise pachake munzvimbo yake uye fungidzira kuti iwe unonzwa sei kana iwe usingazivi iwe wagovera mamwe mashoko anoziva neboka revanhu.
- Kutarisira chipo chemubatsiri kuti chigoverwe panguva yepati. Apo iwe unoshanyira mumwe munhu, nguva dzose iri pfungwa yakanaka yekuunza chipo icho muiti kana muenzi wekushandisa angashandisa gare gare, mushure mekunge maenda. Iwe unogona kubvunzwa kuti uuye nesidho kuti ugogovera kana bhodhoro rewaini, asi chipo chinopindira chakasiyana. Ipa chipo chemubatsiri kune munhu ari pamusuo pakarepo paanopindura.
- Kwete kupindura kune email. Kunyange kana mumwe munhu akakutumira email iyo isingadyi mhinduro, unofanira kutumira zvakare mharidzo pfupi yawakagamuchira. Icho chikonzero chinodzivirira kusanzwisisana kana mumwe munhu achifanira kutevera uye kukumbira kuti ave nechokwadi.
- Kushandisa preprinted mavara pamitambo yemuchato. Paunotumira kukokwa kwemuchato, unofanira kunyora maateri. Izvi zvinoratidza kuti iwe unofunga nezvemashoko uye unoita kuti munhu azive kuti akakosha zvakakwana kuti iwe utore nguva yekunyora zita rake nekero pavhopupepe.
- Kukanganwa vatengesi pachato kana kupemberera. Iko nguva dzose maitiro akanaka ekupa vashandi vechato zvokudya, kusanganisira vateereri , DJ, uye chero ani zvake ari pamuchato.