Mazano eZvirevo Zvakakwana
Kana iwe uri mukomana anenge achangosarudza kupa musikana wake, iwe unofunga kuti unotya uye unetseka pamusoro pokuti ungazviita sei "nenzira yakarurama." Kuita chibvumirano inokosha zvikuru. Zvinoreva kuti wava kuda kutanga muchitsauko chinotevera chehupenyu hwako, naizvozvo usati wasvika pamabvi rimwe, verenga izvi uye zvisingaiti zvemagariro edzimba.
Zano Romuchato Ita
- Edzai mvura: Usati wataura, iwe mose munofanira kunge makatotaura nezvekuroorana . Ivai nechokwadi kuti kuroorana chinhu chimwe nechimwe chaunoda, uye ona kuti mose munobvumirana panyaya huru dzakadai sevana. Uyu mubvunzo mukuru unofanirwa kubuda kunze kwebhuruu. Iwe hausi kuti iye abviswe zvachose kubva kumuchengetedza, sezvinoshamisa kusarudzwa kunenge kwakanyatsogadziriswa kuita kuti munhu anoramba "hongu," kana kwete, "Ndichafanira kufunga nezvazvo."
- Ita izvi zvinoshamisa: Kunyangwe iwe wakurukura kuwanana, mararamiro ewanano pachake anogona-uye anofanira--ashamiswe. Tsvaga imwe nguva uye nzira yaasingafungiri .
- Zvigadzirire iwe pachako: "Iwe unondiroora here?" inongova mubvunzo wakajeka, asi ihurukuro inorema inosiya vakawanda vanoita mutauro zvakakwana-vakasungwa. Practice! Inogona kunzwa yakashata, asi taura mazwi achidanidzira kakawanda. Iwe unogonawo kunyora pasi uye nokuyeuka chaicho chaunenge uchataura kuti uone kuti uri kufara uye unovimba sezvaunokwanisa.
- Unowana chisungo chakanaka chekuita: Kubva kupfekedza bhandi rekubatanidza kuzvipira kwoupenyu hwose, iva nechokwadi chokuti yakarurama . Iwe unogona kuwana mukana wechitoro chemahwindo yezvindori paunenge uchifamba mberi nechitoro, kana iwe unogona kuzviunza mukukurukurirana. Iwe unogonawo kubvunza amai vake, hanzvadzi, shamwari yakanakisisa, nezvimwewo kuti vabatsire kusarudza chindori.
- Unoziva kana iye achida kusarudza bhandi rekubatana: Vamwe vakaroorana-kune-ndevamwe pamusoro pezvishongo zvavo uye vanoda kuve chikamu chekuita, uye nenzira yakakodzera sei: mhete ipfungwa huru, saka ndeipi nzira iri nani yekuita Ichokwadi kuti anoida izvi kupfuura kuenda kunotengesa pamwe chete? Zvechokwadi, iwe unogona kurasikirwa nechimwe icho chakashamiswa nokuti iye anototarisira ringiro, asi kana iwe wataura pamusoro pewanano, iye anoziva kuronga kuri kuuya nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare.
- Taura nevabereki vake: Tauya kure kure kubva mumazuva emadhora, asi pane chimwe chinhu chinoremekedza pamusoro pokukumbira chikomborero chevabereki .
- Sarudza nzvimbo yako pachako: Funga nezvenzvimbo dzaunofarira zviduku uye usarudze nzvimbo inobatsira kuti upi mubvunzo. Zvinogona kunge zvakajeka seimba yako yekugara kana zvakaoma sekumutsvaira kuenda kune imwe vhiki muParis. Ingo musamukumbira muchitoro chezvitoro!
- Iva neunyanzvi : Wedzera unhu hwako, zvinhu zvaunofarira, zvinokuvaraidza, nezvimwewo muchirevo. Itai kuti ive yakasiyana uye isingakanganwiki panzvimbo pekuvhara kwekiki.
- Dzokera kune rimwe ibvi: Zvakare, nguva dzakashanduka, asi pane chimwe chinhu chinonakidza nekudanana pamusoro pemunhu pamabvi rimwe achikumbira rudo rwehupenyu hwake kuti aroore naye. Kunyange kana iwe usisiri mutsika, unoita kuti chirevo chacho chiwedzere.
- Muudzei kuti sei iwe uchida kumuroora: Usangotaura mazwi iwayo mashoma mana. Iye zvino ndiyo mukana wakakwana wokumuudza kuti nei ari iwe iwe, zvinorevei muchato kune iwe uye kuti tariro yako yeramangwana chii. Iwe unogona kutaura chimwe chinhu, "Upenyu hwangu hahuna uye hahuna kumbova hwakafanana mushure mekunge ndakasangana newe.Ndiwe wakandiita kuti ndifare zvikuru, ndakanyatsogadzikana uye ndakafuridzirwa zvikuru. Handigone kufungidzira hupenyu hwangu hwose pasina iwe nehana yangu Mundiitire ini kukudzwa kwekuroora ini? "
- Ita hurukuro iyi: Usanzwa sokuti unofanirwa kuputira chibvumirano pakarepo. Tora kanguva, kana zvisinei nekureba kwaunoda, kufungisisa pamusoro pekuita kwako nekubatana. Shandisai nhau kana wagadzirira.
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- Usazviita pachena: Kana scriptwriters achifanira kutendwa, ipapo mararamiro ose emuchato anoitika mumugwagwa pamberi pezana remamwe vanhu. Kunze kwekuti ataura kuti anoda sarudzo yeplashy, nzira iri nyore kuita kuti chirevo chacho chive chinhu chakakomba, chinhu chairo. Vakawanda vakaroorana-kune-vano vangada kuva nenguva iyo yemashiripiti iri pakati pevamwe vaviri. Mushure mezvose, une hupenyu hwako huse hwekuudza vamwe vanhu nezvechato chako, asi iwe unongova nenguva imwe chete yekubatana.
- Usavanze bhandi rekubatanidza muchikafu: Ndinovenga kuzvireva , sezvo ndine chokwadi kuti kune vamwe vaverengi vakanga vachida kuita izvi chete, asi kuvanza bhokisi rekubatanidza mune zvekudya ndiro pfungwa yakaneta. Zvave zviri mumafirimu ane chiuru nemitambo yeTV, uye iwe haungakundi chero hupi hupi hwekugadzira.
- Usataurire pamutambo wemutambo: Unofanirwa nemwenga wako-uye-uye rudzi rwehukama hwaunahwo, asi mitambo yemitambo kazhinji haisi yepamusoro nzvimbo dzekutsvaga. Ivo vanonzwika, vachishushikana uye hamungakwanisi kuva nechimwe chekuratidza rudo kune chiitiko chinokosha chakakodzera.
- Usazviita pamberi pemhuri yake: Zvirongwa pamberi pemhuri zvinowedzerazve imwe dambudziko rekushushikana rausingadi. Tora nguva ino kuti uve iwe vaviri. Mhuri dzako dzichabatana pamwe chete nemukati wako nekusingaperi, uye hazvidi kuvepo kana iwe uri mubvunzo mubvunzo. Usanetseka: unogona kudana munhu wose pakarepo.
- Usaita kuti zvive zvakaoma zvakare: Unofanira kunyatsoedza kuve wakasiyana uye nekugadzira nechinangwa chako, asi, pamusoro pezvose, zvakakosha kuchengeta pfungwa pane izvo zvinonyanya kukosha: chirevo chacho pachako. Kana iwe usingakwanise kutarisa nokuti unonetseka kuti kana kwete iyo limousine ichaita kuti ibhaloni rifambe munguva, saka uri kunetseka pamusoro pechinhu chakaipa.
- Usataurira zvakare kare kare muhukama: Pawakaputirwa mune izvo zvisingaoneki kutanga kuratidza rudo, zvakaoma kusaita zvinhu zvisina maturo, zvoupenzi. Iva nechokwadi chokuti iwe unonyatsozivana uye kuti umwe neumwe waunoda kubva mumuchato usati wazvipira kune umwe kune hupenyu hwako hwose. Kumirira kusvikira ukama hwako hwakasimba huchasimbisa imba yako chete. Zvakakosha kuva nemwoyo murefu.
- Usatarisira kuti ataure, "hongu," pakarepo: Kukumbira mumwe munhu kuti akurove iwe une mutengo mukuru. Urikumbira mumwe munhu kuti apedze hupenyu hwavo hwose newe. Tine tariro kuti imi vaviri makurukura nezvekuroorana uye muri peji imwe chete, saka iye achapindura nechisimba, "Hongu!" Asi nokuti iwe wakabvunza hazvirevi kuti akagadzirira. Kana iwe unofadza unoti, "Zvichida," tora zvishoma uye upe nguva yake yekufunga nezvechirevo. Iwe haungadi kuti munhu anoshamisa uyu aroore mumwe nomumwe Tom, Dick naHarry vakamubvunza, iwe iwe?