Kubudirira kana kukundikana kweukama hwemhuri yako kunobva pane kuti unogadzirisa zvakadini nyaya dzakawanda dzemunhu oga. Kubva paukama huripo kumari kusarudzwa, vana, uye zvepabonde, zvakakosha kuti iwe mose muzive zvamuri kutarisira.
Muchato ihwokuzvipira pakati pevanhu vaviri vanogona kunge vane maonero akasiyana pane dzimwe nyaya. Ongororo dzakawanda dzekutsvakurudza pamusoro pemakore dzakaratidza kuti kutaura pamusoro pezvinhu izvi zuva rako risati rasvika rinogona kuchinja zvakanyanya kubudirira kwechato.
Ndicho chikonzero mazano ekuroorana asati awanana anowanzobatanidza zvimwe zvakajairika, asi zvinokosha, mibvunzo inopinda mukati memwoyo wemukaro hwakanaka.
Nokuziva izvo wako waunotarisira kubva paupenyu hwako pamwechete, iwe uchave wakagadzirira kutarisana nemamiriro ezvinhu aya sezvo ukama hwako huri kukura. Iyo pfungwa yakanaka yekuongorora mibvunzo iyi nemumwe wako.
Ukama Nezvinangwa
Iyi mibvunzo yekutanga inogona kuva yakakosha kubvunza. Kana iwe usingazivi chikonzero nei iwe uchiroora kana kuti uine maonero akasiyana-siyana aunenge uri mumakumi mashoma emakore, zvinogona kukonzera matambudziko mumugwagwa. Kana ukazaruka iwe unogona kuva ikozvino, mibvunzo shomanana ichauya munguva yemberi. Zvibvunzei imwi:
- Sei tiri kuroora?
- Chii isu isu semudzimai tinoda kunze kweupenyu?
- Unofunga kuti ukama hwedu huchashanduka mushure mokunge taroorana here?
- Iwe unofunga kuti tichave tichiitei mumakore makumi matatu kana makumi mana?
- Iwe ungatsanangura sei iwe pachako?
- Unofunga kuti ndinokuona sei?
Maitiro Evanhu
Kana usina kugara nemumwe wako musati waroorana, zvimwe zvinhu zvinogona kuuya sezvinoshamisa apo iwe ugova neimba.
Iwe unogona kunge usina kufunga kuti mibvunzo yakakomba yakadai sekunwa uye kushungurudzwa ndeyechikamu chimwechete semabasa epamba, asi vakaroorana vachakuudza zvakasiyana. Dzimwe nguva ndizvo zvinhu zvinoita sezvisingakoshi zvinogona kuitika pasi peganda rako.
- Iwe unofunga kuti zvakakosha kuziva mumwe nemumwe nhoroondo yehutano hwepanyama uye yepfungwa?
- Unonwa kakawanda sei?
- Wakamborova mumwe munhu here?
- Iwe une dare remhosva here?
- Iwe uchachenesa chimbuzi here?
- Tichaparadzanisa sei mabasa epamba?
Zvitendero zveMweya
Kune vamwe vanhu, hupenyu hwavo hwemweya hwakakosha sezvinongoita zvimwe zvinhu. Kunyange zvazvo chitendero uye zvitendero zvekunamata zvinogona kunge zvichinyanya kutaura nyaya dzevanhu vane hukama hwakanaka, vanogona kuita basa guru mumhuri yenyu. Funga mibvunzo iyi?
- Chitendero chinonyanya kukosha muupenyu hwako here?
- Iwe unofunga kuti kutenda nekunamata zvakakosha mumuchato here?
- Mufananidzo wako ndewei Mwari?
Mari
Mari inogona kukonzera kushungurudzika kukuru mumhuri uye zvidzidzo zvinoratidza kuti mari ndeimwe yezvinotungamirira zvekurambana. Izvozvo zvinoreva kuti pfungwa yakanaka kuti tinzwisisane pane iyi nyaya kubvira pakutanga.
Iwe haufaniri kubvumirana pane zvose, uye zvichida mumwe wenyu ari nani kune zvimwe zvikamu zvaro kune vamwe. Sekushandira pamwe, kubata nemamangwana ako emari pamwe chete uye kunzwisisa zvinangwa zvishoma-uye kwenguva refu ndeyekufamba kweuchenjeri. Funga nezvenyaya idzi:
- Tinogona kutaura nezvemari here?
- Iwe uri muponesi kana spender kana zvasvika pamari here?
- Tine chikwereti chakadini mune zvikwereti uye chii chatinacho?
- Iwe unoda kuva nebhajheji here?
- Mari yedu inoenda kupi?
- Ndezvipi zvinangwa zvemari?
- Tinofanira kunge tine cheji chekuongororwa chekeri, maakare akasiyana, kana maviri?
- Ndiani achave ane mhosva yekuona kuti mabhiriro ari kubhadharwa panguva?
- Iwe unofunga kuenda kune mafirimu uye kuva nezororo gore roga roga zvakakosha here kana kuti zvinotapira?
- Une mimwe mitero yakakosha kana madhora here?
- Ndezvipi zvirongwa zvedu zvekutenga imba?
- Ko isu tose tinoziva here magwaro edu anokosha emari aripo?
Vana
Haasi vose vanodikanwa vanoda kuva nevana, asi iyo inonyanya kukosha muwanano, uye iyo pfungwa yakanaka kuchengetedza hurukuro yakazaruka pamusoro payo. Kunyange kana isinganzwisisi pfungwa yakanaka ikozvino, unogona kuchinja mafungiro ako munguva yemberi. Iyi mibvunzo yakateya nheyo yekuenderera mberi hurukuro iyi gare gare:
- Unoda kuva nevana here?
- Tinoda kuva nevana here?
- Kana tikasarudza kuti tinoita, ndivanaani vaunoda kuva navo?
- Tinofanira kutora nguva yakareba zvakadini tisina vana?
- Unofunga kuti uri mubereki werudzii?
- Chii chinonzi kubereka kwako ruzivo?
- Ko mumwe wedu achagara kumba mushure mekunge tine vana here?
- Ndeupi rudzi rwekuberekwa kwekuberekwa kwatinofanira kushandisa kana tichida kudzorera kana kudzivirira vabereki?
- Iwe unonzwa sei nezvekugadziriswa?
- Une vana here kare?
Mhuri
Mhuri yemunhu mumwe nomumwe yakakosha kukurukura zvakare. Mhuri imwe neimwe yakasiyana, saka unonzwisisa kuti munhu wako wamangwana akakura sei uye ukama hwavo nevabereki nevanin'ina venyu nhasi huchava hunobatsira zvikuru. Mushure mezvose, iwe umwe neumwe unoroora mumhuri itsva, saka zvakanakisisa kuedza nekuzvinzwisisa.
- Chii chaiva huduku hwako?
- Mhuri yako yakanga ine rudo here?
- Iwe unofunga kuti tichava nezvinetso nemhuri yako munguva dzezororo here?
- Ndeapi mhuri inokosha iwe unoda kuunza mhuri mumhuri yedu?
- Chii chaunofarira uye chisingadi pamusoro pemhuri yako?
- Chii chaunoda uye chisingadi pamusoro pemhuri yangu?
- Chii chaunoda uye chisingadi nezvechato chevabereki vako?
- Chii chaunofarira uye chisingadi nezvechato chevabereki vangu?
- Inguva yakareba yatichapedza nemhuri dzedu?
Zvepabonde uye Kushamwaridzana
Hapana hukama hunogona kurarama pane zvepabonde chete, uye hukama hwepedyo hunokosha chete. Kunyange iwe uchifunga kuti unoziva zvakawanda pamusoro pemafungiro emumwe wako, zviri nani kuva nekutaura kukuru pamusoro payo musati maroorana.
Uyewo, mamwe emibvunzo iyi inopinda munyaya dzakadai segodo, kuvimbika, nekuzviremekedza. Sevamwe vanovabatsira, unovawana kuti zvive zviyeuchidzo zvinobatsira kune izvo wako wako angave achifamba mupfungwa. Funga mibvunzo iyi pamusoro pehukama hwepedyo:
- Tinokwanisa kutaura pamusoro pepabonde here?
- Tinofanira kutaura pamusoro pepabonde here?
- Unofara kutaura pamusoro pezvaunofarira zvepabonde uye zvisingadi here?
- Ndezvipi zvamunotarisira zvehukama hwedu hwepabonde?
- Ndiri munhu ane godo here?
- Ndinovimba nenyaya kana kunzwa ndisina kuchengeteka here?
- Zvinokosha zvakadini kuvimbiswa kwandiri?
- Ndinonyatsorumbidza here?
- Chii chinonzi mutauro wako werudo?
- Unofunga kuti isu tinoteerera mumwe nemumwe zvakanaka here?
- Iwe unofunga kuti zvakakosha kuva akatendeka kune umwe neumwe?
- Iwe unoda sei kupedza mazuva edu kubva?
- Ndezvipi zvamunotarisira pamusoro pekuti tichazoshandisa sei nguva yedu yekusununguka?
- Iwe unotenda here kuti tinofanira kunge tiri kuita zvose pamwe chete?
- Ko isu tose tinogona kutevera zvatinoda isu here?
- Iwe unoda nguva yoga here?
- Iwe unganzwa sei kana ndichida usiku huno neshamwari dzangu iye zvino?
- Tichaita sei kuti tine nguva yakanaka pamwe chete?
Kurwisana uye Kutaurirana
Iwe wakangodaro wakanzwa kuti kukurukurirana chinhu chinokosha kumhuri yakanaka uye ichokwadi. Upenyu hwenyu pamwe chete huchazadzwa nezvisarudzo zvakakosha, nguva dzinonetsa, uye kumwe kukakavara. Icho chikamu chepanyama chekushandisa hupenyu hwako nemumwe munhu. Iwe unogona kuitanga kubva zvakanaka nekutaura nezvekuti iwe uchabata sei mamiriro ezvinhu aya pavanouya:
- Tichaita sei zvisarudzo pamwe chete?
- Tose tiri vaviri tinoda kutarisana nenzvimbo dzakaoma here kana tinoedza kudzivisa kukakavara?
- Unofunga here kuti tine matambudziko muhukama hwedu hunofanirwa kutarisana nawo tisati taroorana?
- Tinosangana nemakakatanwa zvakanaka here?
- Takasiyana sei?
- Iwe unofunga kuti kusawirirana kwedu kuchagadzira matambudziko mumhuri yedu?
- Unotarisira here kana kuti unoda kuti ndichinje?
- Tose tingakanganwira here?
- Isu tose tinoda kushanda pahutano hwedu hwekutaurirana uye kugovana zvakananga kune mumwe nemumwe?