Kana iwe wakamboenda kumuchato, iwe ungangopinda mumhemberero nzvimbo chete kuti unetseke, "Ndeipi rutivi ini ndinofanirwa kugara?" Zvinowanzoitirwa mutambo wemuchato, chigaro chinogadzirirwa mukati memakumi maviri nechepamusoro nepakati nepakati, uye vashanyi vanofanira kusarudza rutivi rwenzira yekugara nayo, kana kurudyi kana kuruboshwe. Maererano nekugara kwenguva refu yemuchato, vamwe vangati kune kodzero yakarurama uye yakashata yekugara, zvichienderana nekuziva kwaunoita kana kubatana kune vamwe vanhu vari kuchata.
Saka vakaroorana vako vanofanirwa sei kuziva kune rumwe rutivi rwemukana wekugara?
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Pamuchato wechechi, vanotora kazhinji vanobvunza vaeni, "Mucheche kana ruwani?" Asi rumwe rutivi rwupi? Uye nei?
Kuroorwa kwechichato kunotiudza kuti mazana emakore akapfuura, vanokunda vanowanzotora uye vanomhanya nemwenga kuti vabare dowry yake. Saka, kuitira kuti ave nechokwadi chokuti muwani anogona kuchengetedza bakatwa rake (rakarurama) pasina, mwenga akamira kune rumwe rutivi (kuruboshwe.) Nhasi, pasinei nokuti mucheche haawanzopfeka bakatwa kana kudikanirwa kubva pavanopikisa, iwe unenge uchida kuona nguva dzose mwenga akamira kuruboshwe rwemuwani. Ichowo chimiro chevatori vechikwata kuti vatevere. Kazhinji, vakokwidza vaeni uye mhuri vanogara kuruboshwe, apo mhuri yemuwani nevashanyi vanogara kurudyi.
Pamutambo wechato wakarongeka, vanotora vachawanzoperekedza vaenzi kune rumwe rutivi rwakakodzera zvichienderana nevepi mhuri iyo mueni inosanganiswa nayo.
Munguva yechipatapata chemuchato , mhuri dzechikwata nemwenga dzichaendeswa mberi musati yatochato. Zvakakoshawo kuziva kuti kazhinji zvikamu zvishoma zvokutanga zvezvigaro kune rumwe rutivi rwechivanze zvakachengetedzwa kumhuri yepedyo yemhuri, saka iva nechokwadi chekugara kumashure mitsara shoma kana iwe usingawirirane zvikuru nevakaroorana.
Vhura Chigaro
Zvechokwadi, kunze kwekuti kereke yako yakasimba pamusoro pechesika, hapana chikonzero iwe unofanirwa kutevedzera mutemo wakare, saka sarudza wakasununguka kuchinja zvinhu. Iwe unogona kunge uine shamwari dzakawanda kupfuura iwe unoparadzanisa shamwari, kana, muhutano hwepabonde imwechete , mibvunzo yakadaro ingasashanda. Kunyange kana vakadaro, inzwa wakasununguka kuisa rumwe rutivi sewako, kana kuti kupa vaeni vako mvumo yekugara chero kupi zvako nekugara.
Pakupedzisira, ugaro hwevakashanyi vako haisi chimwe chinhu chinodzvinyirira. Nokuda kwekusununguka, vazhinji vakaroorana vanosarudza kupa vatenzi vavo rusununguko rwekugara pasi pose pavanosarudza.
Kugara Chiratidzo
Zvakajairika kuti vakaroorana varatidze kuenzanisira pamichato yavo nekunyepedzera kutarisa kuratidza kuti rutivi rweivo vaenzi vavo vanofanira kugara, kana kuti kupa vaeni vavo mvumo yekuregeredza mitemo yekare zvakakwana. Iyi chiratidzo chemuchato ndiyo nzira yakanaka yekugovera zvigaro zvako zvekugara pamwe nevashanyi vako saka havafaniri kushamisika kuti vanogara kupi.
Heano mienzaniso mishomanana:
"Uya iwe sezvauri,
Ramba kwenguva refu sezvaunogona,
Isu tose tiri mhuri zvino,
Saka hazvina hurumende yekugara. "
"Zvino zvatiri pamwe pamwe nokusingaperi,
Ndapota inzwa wakasununguka kugara pasi pose! "
"Mhuri neshamwari dzomwenga nomwenga,
Ndapota garai pamwe chete, pane nzvimbo yakawanda! "
"Iye akati Hungu! Zvino isu tichati ini ndinoita!
Ndapota sarudza chero chigaro. Isu tiri mhuri imwe chete, kwete mbiri! "
"Nhasi mhuri mbiri dziri kuva imwe,
Saka sarudza chigaro, kwete rutivi! "
"Sarudza chigaro, kwete rutivi,
Isu tose tiri mhuri mhuri iyo yakasungirwa! "
Yakavandudzwa uye Yakarongwa naJessica Bishop