Kutora Tarisa paFOCCUS, PREPARE uye RELATE
Chinangwa chokutora musati waroorana musati waroorana nemubatsiro wako ndechekubatsira vaviri venyu kugamuchira chinangwa chekuongorora kwezvinetso zvingangodaro uye nyaya muukama hwenyu. Nyanzvi dzakawanda (vanachiremba, vadzidzisi uye varairi vemutemo yemhuri) vanobvumirana kuti mazano ekuroorana asati atoroorana anokurudzirwa vasati varoorana. Iyi inzira yekubatsira kukurudzira kubatana kwakabudirira uye inofunga pfungwa yakajeka ichifunga nezvekurambana kwechirwere ichi chiripo.
Kusarudzwa kwevanhu vasati varoorana kune kazhinji kunoshandiswa kubatsira nekupa mazano.
Izvi zvinongororwa hazvigadziri kukuudza iwe kana kuti kwete iwe unofanira kuroora, asi kukubatsira kuona uye kugadzirisa kusiyana kwezvaunotarisira, mamiriro emhuri, uye unhu hweunhu. Kuregeredza nyaya idzi musati ((uyewo munguva yewanano) zvinogona kukonzera zvinetso zvakakomba zvemhuri.
Kushandiswa kwekusarudzwa kwevanhu vasati varoorana hakusiwo yakagadzirirwa kuputika mukati memaitiro ako pakati pako nemumwe wako. Kurapa kwechikwata, kune rumwe rutivi, kunopinda zvakadzama mumatambudziko, unyanzvi hwekukurukurirana, hunoona wakanamatira kana kubviswa. Mutungamiri ane mvumo chete anokwanisa kushanda zvinobudirira nemurume nemudzimai vakaora mwoyo. Kana iwe uchida kuti iwe uri mufambisi wako ane zvinetso zvakadzama zvinoda kugadziriswa, tsvaga vakaroorana vakakodzera kana muwanano wekuroorana kana zvisati zvaitika kana mushure mekunge mawana mhinduro kubva pakuzadza kuwanikwa.
Kune zviedzo zvitatu zvisati zvaroorana / zvinyorwa zvinowanzoshandiswa nevanopa mazano, vafudzi, vanyori, uye vadzidzisi vekuroorana pavanenge vachishanda pamwe nekukurumidza kuroorana. Zvose zvinokurudzirwa uye zvakashandiswa kwenguva yakareba zvakakwana kuziva kuti dzinobatsira.
Kuroorana Mazviitiko uye Miedzo
NOKUDZIDZA - Kukurudzira Kubudiswa Kwevamwe Vakaroorana, Kunzwisisa & Chidzidzo
Iko kuwanikwa kweFOCC inofungidzirwa nenyanzvi dzakawanda dzekuroorana kuti dzive dzakashanda-dzakanaka, dzisingakwanisi, uye dzakabatanidzwa. Icho chinogona kugadziriswa, tsvakurudzo yakaenzana nemuedzo nemibvunzo 189. Inonyanya kushandiswa muzvirongwa zveKaturike zveCe-Kana nokuda kwevadzidzi vanogadzirira kuroorwa muchechi yeKaturike.
Iyi mibvunzo inotsvaga nyaya dzakadai sekukurukurirana, mari, kubata zvepabonde, ukama hwekubatana, nekubatana kwemigumisiro.
Pane zvishanu zvinyorwa zveFOCCUS:
- General
- Christian, Kwete-Denominational
- Katurike
- Zvimwe zvekudzidza-kusina kunaka
- Dzokorora kuti uroorazve vakaroorana
PREPARE / ENRICH
The PREPARE / ENRICH Premarital Inventory ine maonero echiKristu. Kunyange zvazvo zvichitaura nezvema1995, iyo inongororwa inotarisira zvinotarisirwa nemudzimai, hutano hwehupenyu, nyaya dzekukurukurirana, kugadzirisa kukakavara, mari, kufara pamwe chete, nyaya dzepabonde, kubereka, kubata mhuri nemhuri neshamwari, pakunamata, nekugadzirisa.
Pane zvishanu zveshanduro ye PREPART / ENRICH inowanikwa:
- GADZIRIRA kune vakaroorana vasati varoorana
- PREPARE-MC yevakaroorana vasati varoorana nevana
- PREPARE-CC yevakaroorana vanogara pamwe chete kana kuti vasina vana
- MATE kune vakaroorana vanopfuura makore makumi mashanu
- CHENYIKA kune vakaroorana
RELATE - Ukama Hwokuongorora Mubvunzo
RELATE Inyanzvi inogona kushandiswa iyo yose isati yarovedza dzidzo uyewo zvekuroorana. Iine zvinhu 271 zvinotarisana nemibvunzo yekukurukurirana, kukonzera kukakavara, kuvaka chibvumirano, mhuri-ye-yakabva, unhu hweunhu, nezvimwe. Inofungidzirwa kuti inotsvakurudzwa inotsvakurudza inotarisa ukama pane hwaro hwezvirevo zvina zvehutano hwemhuri.
Chinhu chakanaka kupa RELATE ndechokuti vakaroorana avo vakaparadzana nechekugona vanogona kushandisa iyo-inotanga kuverenga musati varoorana mumwe nomumwe. Icho chimwewo chaunogona kutora kunze kwechiremba unobatanidzwa uye kurukurirana iwe pachako pamwe chete. Kana iwe uchirwisana nechikamu ichi, unogona kugara uchitsvaga unyanzvi kuti uende pamusoro pemigumisiro newe.
Pasinei nokuti iwe unosarudza hupi, rangarira kuti kuzvipira kwezvakanaka zvewanano kuchakupa iwe mukana wekanakisisa wekugara kwenguva refu.
Zvingave kuti ukama hwako hwakanaka, asi iwe unoda kunzwa wakasara hapana dombo rakabviswa. Icho chisarudzo chouchenjeri uye vamwe vakaroorana havafaniri kutya.
Zvisinei, kana iwe uchitenda kuti iwe uine matambudziko muhukama hwako kana uri kurwisana zvakanyanya, iwe unogona kuda kutsvaga mazano kumudzimai pamwe chete. Kuita chikwata chisati chawanikwa pamwe chete nemishonga yekuroorana inonyatsoenderana nemumwe. Nzira yacho inogona kupa ruzivo rwekukosha kune iwe mose uye chiremba anotarisa kukubatsira iwe mose.
* Article yakagadziridzwa naMarni Feuerman