01 ye11
Idzo Top 10 Zvikonzero Zvikuru Zvokuroorwa
Nerida McMurray Photography / Getty Images Vakaroorana vanobatanidza ruzivo rwezvikonzero zvakawanda zvakasiyana, asi dzimwe nguva izvo zvavanofunga kuti kutonga kwakanaka chaizvoizvo kungova kukanganisa kukuru. Kana iwe uine tsoka dzinotonhora - kana kutarisa shamwari yako kukanganisa kukuru - ziva kuti kune zvikonzero zvakanaka zvekudzivisa muchato . Heano zvikonzero gumi zvakanyanya zvikuru zvekuroorana.
02 of 11
Chikonzero Chipi Chakanaka Chokuroorwa # 1: Kuva neKurota Yengoro
Michael Orton / Getty Images Usandiita zvakaipa - Ndinofunga kuti muchato unoshamisa, chinhu chakanaka chinogona kusimbisa ukama hwako nekuvandudza hupenyu hwako. Asi kunewo zvakawanda zvehupombotaro kune michato inogona kukuita iwe chaizvoizvo uchida imwe, kunyange kana iwe usati wagadzirira, kana mudiwa wako haisi kuroorana. Kubva pamazwi e hyperbolic akakomberedza "zuva rakanakisisa rehupenyu hwako" kumifananidzo yakajeka mumagazini, zviri nyore kubviswa nemafungiro emusi wemuchato.
Ndakambosangana nemukadzi akatakura muhombodo yake mifananidzo yehope yake yechinguho dzaro, keke, uye nzvimbo. Imwe dambudziko duku - akanga asina muwani. Akange asiri kufambidzana nomumwe munhu. Ndinonzwira tsitsi mukomana wake weramangwana; fungidzira kusamanikidzwa!
Zvingaita sezvisinganzwisisiki kune webhusaiti yekuroorana kukupa mazano aya. Asi chokwadi ndechokuti, muchato wenyu unongova zuva rimwe chete, uye kuroorana ndewehupenyu hwako hwose. Iwe unogona kunge uine chikwata ichocho kurota kana iwe wakanyatsogadzirira.
Nokusashanyira muchato wako, unogona kuva nenguva yakareba, uye humwe humwe hutano hunokosha huchakubatsira kugadzirira imba yakareba uye yakakosha.
03 of 11
Chikonzero Chakanakisisa Chokuroorwa # 2: Kuti Uvepo
Buccina Studios / Getty Images Vakawanda vakaroorana nemadzimai vanotarisa kutaridzirwa nechinangwa chechibharo chavanomirira pavanochata. Asi michato yemuchato haisi chikonzero chakakwana chokuroorwa. Kazhinji, iwe uchapedza mari yakawanda pamuchato pane iwe unogona kunge uchingotenga midziyo, tirasi, uye china uri kurota. Uye chii chisina kukuudza iwe kuti muchato unogona kuve wakabhadhara, asi kurambana kunodhura uye hakunakidze.
Saka iva nechokwadi chokuti mudiwa wako ndiye chaiye wamunoda kugovera zvirairo izvozvo nehupenyu hwako hwose.
04 of 11
Chikonzero Chakanakisisa Chokuroorwa # 3: Kusurukirwa
Finn O'Hara / Getty Images Kusurukirwa kwakaoma, uye vanhu vazhinji vanotya kuva voga. Paunosvika pane imwe nguva, zvinogona kuonekwa semunhu "yako yekupedzisira sarudzo yako." Asi iwe uchasangana nevamwe vanhu kuti ude, uye kana ukagadzirisa, unogona kusuwa kune mumwe munhu unoshamisa zvikuru gare gare.
Yeuka, kune vanhu vazhinji vane simba, vakabudirira vasina kumbobvira vakaroorana - Oprah, Condoleezza Rice, Bill Maher, uye Al Pacino, kutumidza zvishomanana. Muchato inzira yakanaka yekuvaka pane hukama hwakabudirira, uye hunogona kuva shanduko, kuzvikudza-kuvaka chiitiko, asi hachisi chakavanzika cheupenyu hunofadza.
05 of 11
Chikonzero Chipi Chakanaka Chokuroorwa # 4: Wakamanikidzwa
mediaphotos / Getty Images Izvi zvingava chikonzero chinowanzovhiringidza vanhu vane muchato vasati vagadzirira. Pane kukanganisa kwakanyanya muhuroro hwechato , uye hazvisi nyore kutaura, "Ndinokuda asi ini ndisina kugadzirira zvakadaro."
Kunyanya kuipa ndeye apo mumwe wako anotaura nezvekupedzisira: "Kana tikaroora, kana tikasununguka." Kunyange dzimwe nguva munhu achida nudge yakasimba kuti avatungamirire pane zvavanotya, zvinogona kutungamirira kusazvidza mararamiro evanhu uye kuregera kuroorana gare gare.
Asi kana iwe uchida mumwe munhu, une chikwereti kwaari kuti ave akatendeseka. Zvakaoma uye zvinorwadza, asi zviri nyore kwazvo kupfuura kurarama nhema kana kuti iwe unoti hauna kumboda kuroorwa.
06 of 11
Chikonzero Chakanakisisa Chokuroorwa # 5: Shamwari Dzako Vose Vachiroora
JGI / Jamie Grill / Getty Images Iwe unganzwa wakasara kunze kana zvichiita sevanhu vose asi iwe uri kuenda kuatari. Zvakanaka kupinda mumatambudziko ehupenyu pane imwechete sevamwe shamwari dzako. Asi nguva dzose zviri nani kuti uve wekupedzisira wevamwe shamwari yako kuti uroore kune iye wokutanga kurambana. Bonus: Kana ukamirira, ivo vachave nemazano akanaka emuchato, uye nguva yakawanda yekukubatsira iwe newe.
07 pa11
Chikonzero Chipi Chakanaka Chokuroorana # 6: Your Ex ndiyo Inoshanda
Jamie Grill / Getty Images Oooooh kune anorwara, mufaro unofadza mukuudza yekare kuti wawana munhu ari nani. Apo imwe yekare yakabatanidzwa, inogona kunzwa sokuti shangu iri kune rimwe rutsoka. Asi kupenga hakusi kudya ukama, uye pane nzira dzakawanda dzepamusoro dzekuita yekare kuziva kuti iwe ndiwe wakabva.
08 ye11
Chikonzero Chipi Chipi Chakanaka Chokuroorana # 7: Zvepabonde
Ryan McVay / Getty Images Kana chitendero chako chikukumbira kuti iwe umirire kusvikira waroorana, iwe ungada kumhanyira muchato. Zvechokwadi, zvakaoma kumirira uye kwete kuziva zvauri kusimba, asi kurara ndeimwe nzira iyo iwe unogona kuita kuti mumwe nemumwe anzwe zvakanaka. Ipa mumwe umwe kugovera, kuita marathon maitiro ekuita, kuratidza rudo rwako nenzira dzakasiyana.
Asi ivai nechokwadi kuti haisi kungochiva chete kuchikuderedza pasi. Zvizhinji zvezvitendero zvinokukumbira kuti iwe umirire, zvakare zvinotsvaira kurambana.
Kana wakagadzirira, verenga mamwe mararamiro ehutano hwepabonde zvekuita kuti ave nechokwadi kuti zvakakosha kumirira.
09 of 11
Chikonzero Chakanakisisa Chokuroorwa # 8: Vana
Kayla Ross / FOAP / Getty Images Vamwe vanhu vanoroora chete nokuti vane pamuviri. Vamwe vanoda vana vakanyanyisa zvokuti vanoroora kune mumwe munhu asiri chakanaka kwavari. Zvose zvikanganiso zvakabva pane pfungwa dzenhema kuti iwe unogona kungova nevana mushure mekunge iwe wakaroorana.
Kune zvidzidzo kubva kuvasayendisiti nevatsvakurudzi vari kumativi ose emagazini ino vachitaurirana kana zviri nani kuti vana vakure nevabereki vakaroorana kana vabereki vasina voga. Asi izvo zvisinganzwisisiki ndezvokuti pane nguva dzose mave nevabereki vasina kuroora avo vakazvifungisisa uye vakashandura.
Kana iwe kana musikana wako wava nepamuviri, unogona kutarisana nekudzvinyirirwa kwakawanda kubva kumhuri yako kusunga pfumo. Ndapota ona kuti pane zvakawanda zvakasarudzwa zvinogona kuwanikwa kwauri, kusanganisira kuva nemwana pamwechete asi kwete kuroorwa, kurera mwana oga, kuisa mwana kumwana, nekugumisa pamuviri.
Kana iwe uchida kuroora nokuti wakagadzirira kutanga mhuri, asi mudiwa wako haasi munhu akakodzera kuroora, zvichida haasi kuzova munhu akakodzera wekubatana nemubereki pamwe. Kukohwa kwemaawa kana kuti kubata pamuviri kunogona kuva anokurudzira zvikuru, asi haufaniri kukupa muwanano usina rudo.
10 pa11
Chikonzero Chakanakisisa Chokuroorwa # 9: Mari
Comstock / Getty Images Kuroorana nemari kuneta kunotora kunze kunze kwokuti uri kutarisa Kuwana Millionaire naMarilyn Monroe naLauren Bacall. Mari inogona kuita kuti upenyu huve nyore, asi hunogonawo kuita kuti hupenyu huve hwakaoma, uye hahuna kumbokosha sekudiwa.
Yeuka, kana iwe wakaroorana nemutemo, iwe unotora chikwereti chemunhu pamwe chete neavo. Vamwe vanhu havasi vapfumi sezvavanoita. Kunyange kana wakawana mumwe munhu ari mupfumi zvechokwadi, zvinogona kusimbisa kusaenzana kwemasimba izvo zvichakudzivirira kuva neupenyu hunofadza pamwechete. Iva nechokwadi chokuti rudo ndicho chikonzero chikuru chawakaroora, kwete mari.
11 pa11
Chikonzero Chakanakisisa Chokuroorwa # 10: Vabereki Vako Vari Kukupa Iwe Kuve Nemhosva
FPG / Getty Images Vabereki vanogona kunge vakanaka pakutumira vana vavo pane zvose-mari dzinotambirwa kutadza mhaka. Iwe unogona kunge wakanzwa hurukuro inotanga, "Ndinongoda kukuona uchiroora ndisati ndafa. Kana kuti zvichida wakanzwa hurukuro, "Ndini ndoga yeshamwari dzangu pasina vazukuru.Uchagara rini, waroora, uye uine vana? Hazvina kunaka kundidzivisa kufara pamagumo ehupenyu hwangu . " Kunyangwe mubvunzo wakajeka wekuti, "Uri kuroora rini?" anogona kuva rwendo rwemhosva kana akakumbira nguva yakakwana nenzira yakarurama.
Pasinei nokuti chii chinotora, mhosva ndeipi chikonzero chinotyisa chekuroorana. Iwe unofanirwa kurarama hupenyu hwako uye kuita chinhu chakanakisisa kwauri. Kunze kweizvozvo, kana iwe ukapa kune rudzi urwu rwemubereki , ivo vangowana zvitsva zvekutora mhosva.