Uyu ndiwo mutsara unoshamisa here chikamu chinodiwa chechato?
Wati wambocherechedza here kuti mararamiro ega ega ebhidhiyo anotevera zvinenge zvakafanana script? Havasi chete chete vanoshandisa mazwi akafanana, asiwo vanoedza kusiyanisa pane zvinoitika pahupenyu hwechokwadi hwechato hwemuchato , chaiko? Nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero, Mumitambo yemabiro emumabhizimusi kune nguva inoshamisa nguva iyo mushumiri anoti "Kana mumwe wenyu ane zvikonzero nei vaviri ava vasingafaniri kuroorana, taura ikozvino kana kuti nokusingaperi ugare norugare." Icho chinonyanya kushandiswa chigadzirwa mumabhaisikopo anopa mukana kune wekare-mudiwa wemwenga kana mukomba kuti afambire mberi, achizivisa rudo rwake, kana kuti nezvehumwe hutsva hutsva hutsva hunofanira kuzarurwa pamusoro pevakaroorana.
Zvinoratidzika kuvapo chete kuumba kukanganisa kukuru, izvo zvisati zvichinyatsobetsera kumuchato chaiwo.
Izwi riri mumutsara uyu, "taura iye zvino kana kuti nokusingaperi ramba uine rugare" yakabva pachitarisiko chechichato cheBhuku revaKristu reMunamato weNhepfenyuro, saka kana iwe uri kuroora muchechi, iyi mutsara inogona kuva chinhu chinodiwa. Kana iwe uchikwanisa kuchinja script yemuchato wako, ndinogona kuratidza kubvisa kubva pamhemberero yako. Zvichida panzvimbo pokubvunza mubvunzo uyu mune zvakaipa, ndingati ndikumbire vaeni vako kuti vatsigire muwanano uye kuda mumwe nomumwe nekuvakumbira kuti vaite mimwe mhiko senharaunda yenyu.
Nharaunda yemhiko yekutsigira inogona kutora maitiro akasiyana-siyana panguva yemutambo wechato. Iwe unogona kukumbira vatenzi vako kuti vataure chete kuti vanotenda kuti imi mose munofanira kuroorwa uye kuti vanokurudzira hurumende iyi uye vanovimbisa kukutsigira munguva dzakanaka uye dzakaipa.
Zvichida iwe unoda kutora chikamu chemunharaunda chikwata chinowedzera.
Kunyange mararamiro anopa hutano anowedzera kuburikidza nedambudziko rimwe nerimwe kana kurwisana, uye shamwari dzako nemhuri zvinogona kuwedzera mafuta kumoto kana kukubatsira iwe kuburikidza nedambudziko. Kumbira nzvimbo yako kuti ikusigire uye kukukurudzira kuburikidza nemhuri chero ipi zvayo uye mararamiro ehupenyu anogona kushandira kusimbisa hukama hwako, sezvo hunova humwe hukama pakati peboka pane kungova iwe vaviri.
Munhu wose anobatsirwa kana vari chikamu chemusha. Mhuri yako neshamwari inharaunda yako uye imba yako ichava chikamu chevanhu pamwe chete. Kuva nemhuri yemhando dzakasiyana-siyana (kwete kungoroorana) kunobatsira kusimbisa nekusimudzira mharaunda. Mhedzisiro ndeyekuti vazhinji vehama dzako nevanodikanwa vachakutsigira nenzira iyi kunyange iwe usingavabvunzi, asi tsika yekubvuma kukosha kwekutsigirwa, uye kugamuchira zvivimbiso izvozvo, inogona kuva chikamu chakakosha uye chakasimba yemutambo wechato. Munhu wose ari kupinda zuva remuchato wako anoda kuona imba yako ichibudirira nokuti inoda uye inotenda mauri, saka kuva nevimbiso yekuve kutsigirwa munzira kunokosha zvikuru.
Community Wedding Vows
Heano mamwe maitiro emhiko yemunharaunda yekushandisa panzvimbo ye "Taura zvino kana nokusingaperi ugare iwe":
- Iwe unotsigira hurumende iyi nekusimbisa kuti ava vaviri vanofanira kuroorwa nhasi? (vaenzi vanopindura, "Tinoita")
- Iwe uchakomberedza vaviri ava murudo, uchivapa mufaro wehukama hwako here? Iwe unotsigira iri vaviri mumhuri yavo here? Pane dzimwe nguva yekupesana iwe unovapa simba rezano rako rakachenjera uye kunyaradza kwekufungisisa kwako kunofunganya here? Pane dzimwe nguva dzomufaro, iwe uchapemberera pamwe navo, kuwedzere rudo rwavo kune umwe? (vaenzi vanopindura, "Ticha")
- Izvo zvisungo izvo murume uyu akazviita nhasi zvitsvene uye zvitsvene, uye hazvifaniri kutyorwa. Asi kunenge hukama hwose hwakaedzwa pane imwe nguva kana imwe, nekupesana, muedzo, kukakavara, nekuchinja. Iwe iwe, vadiwa vavo, mhuri, uye neshamwari, vanobvumirana kuvabatsira kuchengetedza zvisungo izvi zvitsvene, vachivayeuchidza rudo rwavo kune umwe, nekuvabatsira kuti vapfuure nepanguva iyo inonetsa nguva? (vaenzi vanopindura, "Ticha")
- Zvindori zvechato izvo vaviri ava vachapa mumwe nomumwe zvichava chiyeuchidzo cherudo rwavo, uye mhiko dzavanoita pano nhasi. Vakandikumbira kuti ndivaperekedze mukamuri kuitira kuti mumwe nomumwe wenyu, uyo anokosha uye anofarira nhengo yehupenyu hwavo, anogona kukomborera zvindori uye kupa ruvimbo rwako kune vakaroora. (zvindori zvakapfuudzwa kubva kumueni kuenda kumueni)
Ko izvi hazvisi kuita seimwe nzira dzakanaka kune mubvunzo unoshamisa unongoda kukonzera dambudziko here?
Ndinofunga kuti iwe unenge uchisarudza kukumbira mhiko mharaunda panzvimbo pokukoka chiitiko chisina kunaka.
Iwe unenge uchisanganisira mutsetse "Taura Iye Zvino kana Kuti Nokusingaperi Bata Chero Yako" mumutambo wako wemuchato?