Kuwana Vashandi Vako Vomuchato Kuti Vatsigire Imba Yako
Imba inoda rubatsiro uye rudo rwemunharaunda, kukurumbidza iwe paunenge uchiita zvakanaka, nekukusimbisa iwe kana nguva dzakaoma. Icho chikamu chechikonzero nei tichikoka vaeni vomuchato kuti vauye kumutambo wedu wemuchato. Saka sei usina kuisa vatenzi vako sechikamu chemhemberero pachayo? Heano misimboti shanu inoita kuti vatenzi vako vave nechikamu chinokosha chemuchato wemuchato:
- Kuita Mhiko Muchechi yeEpiscopal, ino inonzi Community Community Declaration of Consent. Asi vanhu vezvitendero zvakawanda vakashandisa tsika iyi. Mushumiri kana mushumiri anobvunza vatenzi vakaungana, "Ko mose muri kupupura mhiko idzi itai zvose musimba renyu kutsigira izvi zviviri uye imba yavo?" Ungano, kana vaeni vomuchato vobva vati, "Tichaita."
Zvimwe Zvimwe: Ungano inofanirwa kumuka. Muchato unoda rubatsiro rwemunharaunda. Iwe iwe, Jane naJohn shamwari neshamwari, unovimbisa kuvatsigira mumhuri yavo, kuvada, nekukurudzira rudo rwavo kune umwe neumwe? (Tinovimbisa). Verenga zvakawanda pamusoro peVanhu veMhiko dzeKutsigira
- Chikomborero chezvikwereti Kana uchinge uine mukomana muduku, unogona kubvunza vachato vako vakaroorana kuti vakomborere mapoka emuchato enyu, kana kuti kuvakuvadza nesimba rakanaka uye rudo. Vapei kune mumwe munhu mumutsara wepamberi, uye muvakumbire kuti vatange kupoteredza kusvikira vadzokera mberi. Zvakanakisisa kana izvi zvingaitika panguva yemimhanzi. Kuva nevanopfuura 50 vaenzi? Iwe unongoda kungobvunza vanhu vashomanana vasarudze kuti vabate zvindori nekuvakomborera, sekupfuura iwo nepamusoro kwekamuri kunotora nguva yakawanda, uye iwe unotya mungozi yekurasikirwa navo.
- Mhemberero yemakese Mhemberero yemakwenzi ndeimwe nzira yakanaka yekubatanidza rudo rwemhuri yako neshamwari. Izvo zvakaita sangano rekubatana, asi pane kungobatanidza mhuri mbiri, iyo inobatanidza imba yose.
Mumwe nomumwe muenzi anopiwa maziso asingatendi sezvavanopinda mutambo. Panguva yakatarwa, mutungamiri kana mwenga nemwenga vanovhenekera mwenje weumwe munhu mumutsara wekutanga. Ivo, ivowo, vanopisa murazvo kumunhu ari pedyo naye kana iye, uyo anozoipfuurira kune munhu anotevera. Kana kese yevanhu vose ichitsemuka, munhu wekupedzisira anopisa murazvo kumwenga nemwenga, uyo anoshandisa kuisa kenduru.
Zvinoshamisa kuti uite izvi zvakanaka musati mutevedzeri, kuitira kuti vaeni venyu havafaniri kunetseka pamusoro pemoto unopisa uye kuputira kenduru yakisi kwenguva refu. Sezvavanopinda mukati meusiku, kuonekwa kwevose aya makenduru kuchava kunoshamisa.
- Kuramba uye kupa Chido Mumiririri anofanira kuzivisa boka revanhu kuti pachava nemaminitsi gumi ekufungisisa uye kunyarara, apo mumwe munhu anonzwa akasununguka anogona kusimuka uye kupa chido chemuchato wevakaroora, kana kungoona zvinyorwa. Iyi tsika yaive yakabva pamutambo wechato cheQuaker, asi yakabva yava chimwe chinhu kune iyo pachayo. Unogona kupfupisa nguva yakapiwa basa iri, kunyanya kana vaeni vako vachiita sevanonyanya kunyara. Ndinokurudzira kuti iwe uudze vaeni kare kare pamusoro pechikamu ichi chemhemberero yavo; kuita saizvozvo kuvabvumira kufunga pamusoro pezvavanoda kutaura, uye kushanda nesimba.
- Kushandura Rugare Imwe yenzira dzakajeka dzekubatanidza vatenzi vako ndeimwe yezvakanaka. Kusvikira kumagumo emhemberero, muenzi mumwe nomumwe anotendeukira kune vavakidzani vavo, taurai hello uye musimbise maoko. Vanogona kuti "Rugare ngaruve newe," kana kuti "Runyararo nerudo." Kunyangwe kuchinjana nerunyararo hachisi kukumbira zvakananga kubatsigirwa kwavo, kuri kubatsira kuumba mharaunda nekubatana kwevanhu. Uye pakupedzisira, iyo yeruzhinji ndiyo ichakubatsira iwe, kwemakore akawanda ari kuuya.