Mitemo mitsva uye mienzaniso yekutarisa mapepa emuchato
Apo zvinosvika pakugadzirisa mapepa emuchato, nzvimbo dzakawanda dzewebhu uye nyanzvi dzedzidzo dzinoita sezviri kutora nzira yose-kana-isina. Vakawanda vanonyorera tsika, vachiomerera kuti iwe ugadzire mapepa ako emuchato nenzira yakanyanyogadzirika inogona kuitika:
Mr. naMnu John Edward Smith
Dambudziko nderokuti, chokwadi, vakadzi vazhinji vemazuva ano vanoshuva kuva rutivi rwemurume wavo, kwete kutaura kuti hazvibvumiri kutungamira zvepabonde imwechete kana ivo vasina zita rimwe chete rekupedzisira.
Aya nyanzvi anovimbawo zvikuru nekushandiswa kwevepamuputi mukati. Zvisinei, kushandisa imwe yevhopepepe imwe yeimwe nzira dzinoshandiswa nyore kuchengetedza mari pamakiti ako echikwata.
Vamwe vanotora zvakashata zvachose, kana kusareva tsika dzose pamwe chete, kana kuti kumanikidzira kuti unongodzinga chero mazita okuremekedza:
Jane Doe naJohn Smith
Dambudziko neyikusarudzwa kwemashoko ndeyechokwadi: iwe unoda humiro yemitambo yako yemuchato yekufananidza maitiro emuchato wako. Saka pano ndiyo mitsva yangu mitsva uye yemazuva ano yekutarisana nayo mikoti yako yemuchato:
Iva Kuremekedza
Etiquette inonyanya kuremekedzana. Saka mutemo wekutanga uye wepamusoro ndewe: sarudza vanhu kuti vanofarira kutaridzirwa sei. Izvi zvinodarika mamwe mimwe mitemo inouya pasi. Kana mumwe munhu ane Ph.D. asi haamboshandisi zita reDhokita, saka unamatira naVaMarri / MM. Kana mukadzi achisarudza kushandisa zita ravarume vake (semukadzi Mai John Smith) uye ndizvo zvaunofanira kunyora.
Kune vakaroora vakadzi vanoshandisa madzimai uye vakadzi vakarambana vanoramba vachishandisa madzimai uye avo vanoda kusara zvematongerwe enyika. Chinokosha ndechekuti, kana iwe uchiziva kuti mumwe munhu anofarira kudanwa, saka ndizvo zvaunofanira kushandisa.
Shandisa Mazita Ekutanga
Zvakakodzera kugadzirisa kukokwa kwemuchato kune zita rakazara remunhu.
Kana iwe uri kushandisa invopepe ye mukati, ipapo envelope yekunze inogona kuvasiya, asi iyo envelope yemukati ine mazita akazara evanhu vose vakakokwa. Asi kana iwe uine enveloppipe imwe chete, inofanira kutaurirwa kune wese wese zvakakwana. Ziva kuti kana uri kutevera mutemo we # 1, vamwe vakadzi, kunyanya chirikadzi, vanosarudza kushandisa mazita evarume vavo. Mukudaro, iwe uchanyora Mai John Smith pane Mai Mai Jane Smith.
Shandisa Mazita Okuremekedza
Chinyorwa ndicho chiratidzo chekuremekedza uye chimiro. Izvo zvakakodzera kushandiswa pamhando dzose dzememhoora yemuchato, pasinei nokuti yakagadziriswa sei kana yakasununguka chiitiko chacho. Kunze kwaVaMnu, Mai, uye Ms., zvinyorwa zvinofanira kunyorwa zvizere. (semuenzaniso, Chiremba panzvimbo yaDkt)
Mamwe mazita aunofanira kushandisa pamumiko emuchato:
Mr., Mai, Ms. vanhu vakuru
Mudzidzisi uye Miss kune vana vasiri pasi pe18
Chiremba
Muremekedzi Mutongi, Muremekedzi Gavhuna, Wekuremekedza Meya, etc. (Ziva: Vose veSU vakasarudzwa vakuru kunze kweMutungamiri vanofanira kutaridzana neshoko rekutanga Rinokudzwa.Sezvo vakaroorana vasina kusarudzwa vakuru, havagamuchiri chirevo.)
Mazita ane mauto anosanganisira Colonel, Sargent, nezvimwewo.
Zita Rinokosha Pakutanga
Kana munhu mumwechete mune vaviri vane zita rakasiyana naVaMnu, Mai, kana kuti Ms., saka ivo vanofanira kuverengwa pakutanga.
Semuenzaniso: Lieutenant naVaJane naJohn Smith, kana Chiremba uye Mai John naJane Smith. Kana vaviri vari vaviri vari vaviri vane mazita, zvino ndiyo tsika yekunyoresa mukadzi pakutanga: Vanachiremba Jane naJohn Smith kana Lieutenant Jane Smith uye Doctor John Smith. (Nokuda kwevanhu vanoita zvepabonde, kurongeka kune iwe.) Chero bedzi kunze kwemurairo uyu ndeye apo murume anowanzobuda mumudzimai wake, pane izvozvi iye akanyorwa pamberi pake. Isu tinonyora: "Muremekedze Vachigaro wePurezidhendi Joe Biden uye Doctor Jill Biden" kana "Vachigaro Vachigaro uye Dr. Jill Biden"
Kuremekedza Mamwe Mazita Okupedzisira
Kune vakadzi vakawanda vakaroorana vasingasarudze kutora mazita avo. Kune dzimwe nzvimbo apo munhu mumwe bedzi ari mumurume nomudzimai anosarudza kufungidzira, uye vazhinji vanoita zvepabonde vanoenda kune imwe nzvimbo pasina munhu anochinja zita ravo. Murairo uyu ndiwo mahedheni ekutonga # 1, asi inobereka kudzokorora: Kana mazita ekupedzisira akasiyana, ndeye tsika yekunyora zita remukadzi kutanga kwemunhu.
Bata Vakaroora uye Vasina Kuroora Vakaroorana
Chirevo chetsika chinoreva kuti iwe unofanira kunyora vakaroora mazita mumutsara mumwechete, uye vakaroora vasina kuroorana pamakakatani akasiyana. (Somuenzaniso, tsika inoti unofanira kunyora Mai Jane Smith naVaJohn Doe kune vakaroorana, asi Mai Jane Smith VaJohn Doe kune vakaroora vasina kuroorana.
Asi kune huwandu huwandu hwevanhu vanopinda muzvipikirwa zvemazuva mazhinji vasina kumbobatanidza ruzivo, uye vazhinji vanoita zvepabonde vakaroorana havakwanise kuve vakaroorana zviri pamutemo. Saka hutongi hwemazuva ano uye hutsva hunoreva kuti uvaporese zvakafanana: kana vari vaviri, vanyora pamutsara mumwe chete. Kana mazita avo asingaiti zvose zviri pamutsara wakafanana, nyora pazvikamu zvakasiyana. (Onawo: Ndeupi musiyano pakati pemuchato nemuchato )
Bata Heterosexual uye Same-Sex Couples zvakafanana
Izvi zvinofanira kuenderera pasina kutaura, asi hapana chikonzero chekugadzirisa kukoka kune mumwe murume nemudzimai mumwe chete zvakasiyana pane zvaunoda kune vakomana nevasikana. Ndapota musangokukoka munhu mumwe chete, uye nyora "uye mushanyi" kune mumwewo kana iwe uchiziva kuti vari muukama hurefu. Ndapota usavatumira mapepa akasiyana sekuti haararame pakero imwe chete. Ndapota musavanyorera pamitsara yakasiyana sekuti vakanga vasiri vaviri. (Uye zvechokwadi, usamhanyira vakaroorana vehukama hwepabonde, asi kwete avo veHGBTI shamwari dzako). Zvinosuruvarisa, ndakanzwa nezvezvinhu izvi zvose zvichiitika. Zvinorwadza uye hazvina kufanira.
Mazita Akasiyana? Tumira Vaviri
Kana vakaroorana vasingagari pamwe chete, saka iwe unofanira kutumira mapepa akasiyana pane imwe kero. Kune avo vanogara navo vasingasviki zvepabonde, tsika dzedsika dzinoti dzinofanirwa kugamuchira mikumbiro yakasiyana, asi ndinofunga zvakanaka kuti uvaise pamusana mumwechete.
Kwete Nicknamames, Kazhinji
Sezvo mutemo, nyora zita rakakwana remunhu panzvimbo yezita rezita rekudana pane kukokwa. Nyora Josefa pane Joe kana Melissa panzvimbo ye Missy. Zvisinei, cherechedza kuti haisi mazita ose anonzwika sezita rezita rezita. Ndinoziva Jese uyo akanga asati ari Jessica, uye Jenny ane chizvarwa chekuberekwa haatauri, Jennifer.
Kana iwe usati wambonzwa kuti vakamboshandisa zita rakarongeka, batanidza zita raunoziva.
Itaiwo Vose Vakokwa Vashanyi
Uyo wamunotaridza kukokwa kunoratidza kuti ndianiko akakokwa . Saka usangokoka shamwari yako, uchifunga kuti achaunza mukadzi wake; Zvose mazita avo anofanira kunge ari muvupurupu. Saizvozvowo, kana uchida kuti vana vadye, vauyewo mazita avo.
Paunenge usina Nharo, Nyora Zvinhu
Tsika dzinoti haufaniri kushandisa zvinyorwa pamusana wekukoka, kunyora "Twenty Main Street" pane "20 Main St." Nokuda kwechato chisina kuwanikwa , iwe unogona kusarudza kusazvidza murairo uyu. Zvisinei, kushandisa iyo fomu refu kunogona kubatsira kukukoka kwako kumira sechiitiko chinokosha. Iyo inoratidza kukoka kwako sechinhu chawakatora nguva shomanana yokutarisa, iyo isati iri chinhu chakaipa chokukurukura
Iva Nomutsa Iwe pachako
Kunyange iwe uchifanira kuita zvose zvaunogona kuti uwane zvinhu zvakarurama, zvinogona kuti iwe uchaita kukanganisa kana maviri pane kuti munhu anoda sei kutaridzirwa. Kunyange vanhu vakakurumbira vakagamuchira kuti nyika isiri yakashata kupfuura yaimboimbova, uye vakadzi vakawanda vakaroorana vanochengeta zita ravo pachavo vanoshandiswa nguva nenguva kunziidzwa nemazita evarume vavo. Tine tarisiro, iwe wava pedyo zvakakwana kune vakaroorana vako vaeni kuti vazive zvavanofarira, asi vanotarisira, ivo vane hanya newe zvekuregerera iwe nekuda kwekanganiso yakatendeseka.
Mienzaniso Yekutaura Nekukoka Miti
Muenzaniso:
Mr. naMnu John naJane Smith
Twenty Six Main Street
Springfield, Massachusetts
01101
Kusiyana:
Chiremba uye Mai John naJane Smith
Chiremba uye Jane naJohn Smith
Vanachiremba Jane naJohn Smith
Chiremba Jane Doe uye Doctor John Smith
Chiremba Jane Doe uye Lieutenant John Smith
Mai Jane Doe-Smith naVaJohn Smith
Mr. naMnu John naJane Doe-Smith
Mr. naMs. John naJane Smith
Mr. Joe Smith naVaJohn Doe
Mishema John naJose Doe-Smith kana VaMnu naVaJohn uye Joe Doe-Smith
Mukadzi Jane Smith naMs. Jennifer Doe
Mai naMai Jane naJennifer Smith
Mutungamiri Barack Obama naMadzimai Michelle Obama
Mutungamiri Senator Jane Smith naVaJoseph Smith
Mutungamiri Senator Jane Smith naDhector John Smith