Mazano ekunyora gorosi risingakanganwiki
Kunyora chigunwe chikuru kunoda kusimba, kushivirira, rimwe basa rakaoma uye unyanzvi hushoma. Ne mazano aya anobatsira, iwe uchakwanisa kunyora mutauriri wemunhu mukuru pane imwe nguva.
Usati Watanga
Tanga nekunyora pasi pfungwa zvakasununguka pamusoro pemwenga nemwenga uye ukama hwako navo.
- Unozviziva sei?
- Sei vakakusarudza iwe semunhu akakurumbira ?
- Ungatsanangura sei mumwe nomumwe wavo? Ndezvipi zvipikiso zvishanu zvokutanga zvinouya mupfungwa?
- Chii chakanga chiri chikomba chakafanana asati asangana nemwenga? Akashandura sei kumuziva?
- Vakasangana sei? Muwani akakuudza sei pamusoro pake?
- Kana iwe wakaroorwa, ungada kufungisisa nezano rewanano wawakagamuchira kana wakadzidza.
- Pane here kunyanya kunakidza anecdotes inoratidza kuti ndiani muwani?
- Verenga kuburikidza nesarudzo dzechikwata zvechikwata zvekare uye kusimbisa chero chipi zvacho chinoratidzika zvakakosha kwauri.
Kana waita izvozvo, inguva yekugadzira pfungwa idzi mumoyo unofadza uye unofadza.
Kutanga
Tanga nekutaura iwe pachako, sezvo havasi vose vari mumba vanoziva kuti uri ani. Iwe unogona kuti "Ndapota, ini, munhu wose, kana ndikakwanisa kutarira iwe, ndinoda kutora nguva shomanana kuti nditaure mazwi mashomanana pamusoro pomuchato nemukwati." Ndiri John, munhu akanaka kuna Patrick, uye shamwari yakareba kwenguva refu. "
Kuita kuti vanhu vafunge, iwe unogona kutaura kuseka nokukurumidza kana chirevo pamusoro pewanano. Usati wasvika kure zvakanyanya mukutaura kwako, iwe unofanira kuonga mutariri uye utaure chimwe chinhu, "Tose tinofara kuva pano nhasi pachiitiko chinofadza."
Pakati
Iyi ndiyo iyo nyora dzawakanyora pasi idzo dzichauya zvakanaka. Taurira nyaya inonakidza pamusoro pemwenga uye / kana mukwati (izvo zvinonakidza , kwete kunyadzisa!), Ipa pfungwa dzako murudo nemukaro, taura nhau yekuti vakasangana sei kana kutaura pamusoro pekuti makavaona sei vachikura munguva yehukama hwavo.
Apo iwe unogona kuziva mwenga zviri nani, edza kuita chigunwe chako chienzanise nokutaura pamusoro peumwe neumwe wavo. Edza kusataura kwenguva refu sezvo pasina munhu anoda kukunzwa iwe, asi iwe unopa mamwe mashoko anofadza. Pamusoro pezvinhu zvose, dzivisa yekare-musikana nyaya uye uchengetedze iyo yakarongwa PG yevana nekurukuru muimba.
Kana iwe uine chokwadi pamusoro pezvauri kutaura uye mazwi ako anouya kubva pamwoyo, zvakaoma kusaenda.
Kuvhara
Zvinowanzova zvakanaka kuvhara mbambo yako nechishuvo, chigunwe kana chikomborero kune vakaroorana. Simudza girazi rako nekunyaradza kukurumbidza, cheers, chaim kana salud , uye usakanganwa kunwa kune yako yega yega!
Nyora chigunwe chako pasi pane pasecard kana pafoni yako uye uzviite kaviri kamberi kare kuti iwe usanzwi seurikurikurukura usina unhu. Iwe unogona zvakare kufambisa chigunwe chako neshamwari yaunovimba inogona kukupa mhinduro.
Zvino ndiyo nguva yekuzorora, kufara pamuchato, uye kutsigira shamwari dzako.
Mazano Okupa Munhu Akanakisisa Kutaura
- Taura zvinonzwika uye zvakajeka , kunyange kana iwe uchitya. Tariro, iwe uchava nemakrofoni. Kunyange kana iwe usingaiti, iva nechokwadi chokuti iwe unosarudza. Hapana chakaipisisa pane kuteerera kumaminitsi mashanu ekudzidzira pasina.
- Usanwisa zvakanyanya usati wapa hurukuro yako. Ainwa kana maviri anogona kukubatsira kusunungura iwe, asi kupfuura izvo uye iwe uchaita sebenzi.
- Usaverenga zvakananga kubva pakadhi . Izvi zvinofanirwa kuva mazwi anobva pamwoyo, kwete scripted, robotic response. Zviri nani kufungisisa zvawakanyora kuti uwane pfungwa yakawanda. Zvechokwadi, iwe unogona kunge uine zvinyorwa zvako zvisingabatsiri, kungoyeuka kuti uone ziso nekamuri.
- Simuka zvakananga . Iyi nguva inokosha, uye maitiro ako anofanira kuratidza izvozvo. Kunyanya, iwe unoda kutarisa zvakanaka mumifananidzo iyo yemuchato, chaiko?
Kana iwe uchingorasikirwa nemapepa ako kana kungovhara ipapo, hapana chakakanganisika nemashoko ari nyore "Ndinokurudzira [mazita emwenga nemwenga], ndiri kutarisira zuva iro isu tose tiri pamwe chete tichipemberera zuva rekuchata kwenyu remachishanu." Cheers! "