Paunofunga nezvekumuka, mariro, shivha uye dzimwe tsika dzekuchema, iwe hawanzofungi nezvemagariro evanhu uye anofadza anobatanidzwa. Uye ndizvo chaizvo zvazviri. Kana tiri kuchema rufu rwomumwe munhu, hazvina nguva yekufunga nezvekunakidza mupfungwa inofadza.
Asi miitiro iyi yekuchema ndeyezviitiko zvemhuri uye zvevanhu, zvisinei. Uye kunyange tisingaiti kakawanda kuti tifunge nezvazvo, kune mamwe mimwe mitemo yemazano inoshanda uye inotarisirwa.
Zvichida iwe rimwe zuva uchava nehanya nekutonga sangano reimwe yemitambo iyi, kana kuti uri kuenda kunekuungudza kuchema kune mumwe wechitendero chakasiyana, pano pane mamwe mazano ekutanga ezvo iwe unogona kutarisira uye unofanirwa kuita mumamiriro ezvinhu aya.
Christian Traditions
Inowanzoita tsika yemuviri wevakafa kuti arambe ari mumariro mazuva akawanda isati yavigwa uye maawa anogadzirirwa kutorwa kana "kutarisa." Vashanyi vangauya vobva vataura kuvanyaradza kwavo kumhuri uye vanogamuchirwa kugara uye kushanya kwenguva yakazara yekuona, kunyange zvisingadiwi.
Mariro angave ari oga kune vemumhuri chete kana kuti kuzarurirwa kuvanhu. Kana maawa nenzvimbo zvakadhindwa mupepanhau rekucherechedza, chiratidzo chokuti vashanyi vose vakagamuchirwa.
Mune dzimwe nzvimbo uye pakati pemamwe madzinza maitiro ndiyo tsika yekuunganidza musangano mushure mekuvigwa kwevanoenda.
Kana akachengetwa pamusha wemhuri yevakafa, kazhinji hama neshamwari dzichapa zvinyoro zvekununura mhuri yebasa iroro. Mune dzimwe mhuri, ndeye tsika dzekutora vanhu vanoenda kuresitorendi mushure mekuvigwa, pane izvozvi, mhuri yemufi inopa mubhadharo.
Chinangwa chekuungana uku ndechekugovana zviyeuchidzo kune wakafa, kubatsira mhuri kugadzirisa nekuchema kwavo, uye kugamuchira vaeni kune avo vangave vakafamba kure kuenda kumariro.
Pane dzimwe nguva, kuungana uku kungave kwakanyanya uye kunoratidzika kusaremekedza kumunhu. Zvisinei, hapana kuremekedzwa kunangwa.
Chimwe chezviito zvinotevera zvekunzwira tsitsi zvakakodzera: kutumira tsamba yekunyaradza kana iwe usingakwanise kupinda kune maonero; kutumira kadhi yakawanda iyo inogona kuwanikwa kuchechi yeKaturike kana dzimwe nguva imba yemariro; kutumira maruva kumusha wemhuri yakafirwa kana kumumariro wemariro; kutumira chipo kune rudo rwakasarudzwa nemhuri. Sezvakawanda mune zvitendero, zvinopa kubatsira mhuri, kusanganisira kuuya nezvokudya kumusha wavo pakarepo shure kwekufa uye kwechinguva mushure mekuvigwa, kune zviratidzo zvakagamuchirwa zvekutsigirwa uye tsitsi.
Tsika dzechiJudha
Tsika dzechiJudha dzinotenda mukuviga muviri mushure mekunge rufu rwukwanisika, sechiratidzo chekuremekedza. Mushure memariro, zuva rechinomwe rokuchema, rinozivikanwa sehugaro weShiva, rinoitirwa kumba kwevanochema. Shamwari uye nharaunda dzemunharaunda dzinounza minyengetero, kuvhiringidza uye kutsigirwa. Zvose zvinowanzoitwa zvinomira kuitira kuti vanochema vakanyatsofunga nezvekushungurudzika kwavo, kuitira kuti ivo vave vakagadzirira zvakare kupindazve muupenyu pakuguma kwei nguva.
Kudya kokutanga pakudzoka kubva kumakuva kunonzi seudat havrach, iyo yakagadzirirwa neshamwari nevavakidzani kune vanochema.
Nenzira, chikafu chinosanganisira mazai nezvimwe zvinhu zvakapoteredza, zvinomiririra hupenyu, tariro uye chikwata chakazara chehupenyu kusvika pakufa.
Muhupenyu hwose hweShiva, shamwari neshamwari zvinounza zvokudya kune vanochema kuti vabvise chido chekuti vafunge nezvekugadzirira kudya. Vaya vari pedyo nevemhuri vachagadzirira kudya kwekudya kwevakachema. Shamwari uye vanozivana vanowanzounza makiki, makeke, michero uye zvimwe zvokudya.
Iwe haunoda kukokwa kushanyira kuShiva. Vose vashanyi vanopa runyararo vakagamuchirwa kupinda. Zvisinei, cherechedza mupfungwa kuti haisi tsika yechiJudha yekuunza kana kutumira maruva semunhu anogona kumariro echiKristu. Tsika dzechiJudha dzinokurudzira kuchema, uye dzinoodza mwoyo kuedza kushevedzera vanochema. Mipiro yezvipo zvakasarudzwa mukuyeuka kwevakafa zvakakodzera.
Muslim Traditions
Maererano nemitemo yeIslam, vaMuslim vanokurudzirwa kuenda pamwe nemufaro wemariro kumakuva. Ndiyo basa ravo kupa runyaradzo uye kunyaradza kune vakafirwa. Zvisinei, apo kuita izvi uyu kunofanirwa kureva kutaura zvinhu zvinobatsira vanofirwa kugamuchira kuda kwaMwari. Mhinduro kune avo vakafirwa vanofanira kunge vari pfupi uye vanonaka, vachichenjerera kuti vasati vataure chero chinhu chingava chinonyangadza. Pakupedzisira, kuchema zvakanyanya, kusvetuka, uye kuratidza kunorambidzwa kunorambidzwa.
Iyo yakabvumira nguva yekuchema kweMuslim akafa mazuva matatu, kunze kwechiitiko chechirikadzi iri kuchema murume wake, mune izvozvi iye angachema mwedzi mina nemazuva gumi.
Zvinokurudzirwa kuti mumwe aende mushure mokupa mhuri kuvhiringidza uye kupa rubatsiro. Zvisinei, mukuita, dzimwe mhuri dzichaita misangano ichipa zvokudya nekumwa kune vashanyi panguva iyoyo yezuva matatu.
Mhuri neshamwari vachagara vachiunza zvokudya kumhuri yevakafa kuti vadzikinure ivo vanetseka pamusoro pezvinhu izvi. Maonero anofananidzwa pane zvakakodzera kutumira maruva. Tarisa nemhuri yemufi kana mutungamiri wavo wechitendero asati atuma.
Buddhist Traditions
Muchitendero cheBuddha mariro anowanzoitika mukati memavhiki mushure mekufa. Kutumira maruva kana kugovera zvipo kune zvakasarudzwa rudo muzita reakafa zvakakodzera. Iko karoti yakazaruka uye vashanyi vanotarisirwa kuiona ndokukotamira zvishoma kune iyo. Shamwari dzinogona kushanyira pamba yemhuri yakafa mushure memariro, asi kwete.
Hindu Traditions
Mhemberero inowanzoitwa mukati maawa makumi maviri nemaviri ekufa. Shamwari dzinogona kudana kumhuri pamba apo mutumbi wevakafa unowanzochengetwa kusvikira kupisa kwemazuva ose. Kana mhuri inogamuchira maruva kubva kune vashanyi, inoiswa pamakumbo efi. Mushure memariro, shamwari dzinogona kushanyira, uye tsika yacho ndeyokuunza zvipo zvezvibereko.