Mhemberero inowanzoitika zviitiko zvinokanganisa, apo munhu wose amire akakomberedza, anokanganisa kuyeuka kwevakafa, uye anonyomba mashoko ekunzwira tsitsi kune nhengo dzemhuri. Zvisinei, vazhinji vedu takave mumamiriro ezvinhu apo mumwe munhu akapinda mukati ndokuita imwe huru faux pas iyo inogadzirisa meno edu pamucheto.
Usati waenda kumariro ako anotevera, shandura tsika dzakanaka uye uone zvimwe zvezvinhu izvi zvaunofanira kurega kutaura pamusoro pebasa, kushanyira, kana kumuka.
Heano zvimwe zvinhu zvausingafaniri kumbotaura:
- Akanga ari chokwadi murume akwegura akareruka, akanga asiri iye here? Hazvina mhosva kuti wakanga usingadi huhu kana hutano hwemunhu akafa, inguva yekurega ichienda uye kuzvikumanikidza kuti utaure zvinhu zvakanaka chete pamusoro pake. Izvo hazvingaiti chero munhu upi noupi zvakanaka kuti arambe akagara pane zvakaipa zvakapfuura. Saka zvakadini kana aive akabatana? Akaenda ikozvino, saka chengeta zvakadzika uye funga nezvechimwe chinhu chakanakisisa, kunyange kana chiri pamusoro pechinhu chakanaka chaive chikafu chaaiva.
- Akakusiya mari yakawanda sei? Sei uchibvunza? Uri kuenda kukumbira chikwereti here? Uyu mubvunzo unonyengera uyo hausi zvachose bhizinesi rako. Kana iwe uchikumbira izvozvo, iwe unofanirwa nemhinduro isina simba iyo munhu angangokwanisa kufunga nezvayo. Kukurukurirana kwemari zviri nani zvakasara pakati pako nemubhadhadha wako.
- Tose tiri nani pane iye asina. Zvichida iwe uri nani kunze kwake, asi haufaniri kutora izvi kune mumwe munhu. Mushure mezvose, zvakadini kana akasiya chirikadzi nevana vatanhatu vaivimba nemari yavo uye mamwewo rubatsiro?
- Ipai nguva. Iwe uchanzwa zvakanaka zviri nani munguva pfupi. Zvechokwadi? Kana iwe uchitaura chimwe chinhu ichi chikafu, iwe pachena hauna kumboona kurasikirwa kweumwe munhu aireva nyika kwauri. Hazvina mhosva kuti nguva yakawanda inopfuura, kana mumwe munhu achidiwa, iye achasara kwenguva refu.
- Kunyanya iye zvino hapana munhu achazofanira kutarisana nemutoro wekumutarisira. Kunyangwe kana akafa akafa makore gumi apera ari pamubhedha nemumhuri mamiririra kurudyi uye netsoka, iyi haisi chinhu chakakodzera kutaura. Zvichida vaifunga kuti kufara kubatsira mumwe munhu waaida, kwete mutoro.
- Ndinoziva kuti unonzwa sei. Oo iwe, ikozvino? Unogona sei kuziva kuti mumwe munhu anonzwa sei? Kutaura izvi zvinoratidza kuti zvishoma iwe unonyatsoziva, saka kana uine chido chokutaura, ruma rurimi rwako. Kunyangwe iwe wakarasikirwa nomumwe munhu waunoswedera pedyo, ukama humwe hwakasiyana zvachose, sekurasikirwa kwese.
- Handifungi kuti ndinogona kuburikidza nekurasikirwa nemurume wangu. Iwe unofanira kuparadzwa. Hungu, iwe unogona kunge wakarurama. Iyo yakaparadzwa, ndicho chikonzero iwe haufaniri kudana pachena. Uye yeuka kuti mikana iri, rimwe zuva iwe ucharasikirwa nemurume wako, kana kuti achakurasikirwa newe.
- Ari munzvimbo iri nani iye zvino. Zvichida wakafa ari kudenga, asi iyo haisi kunyaradza kune avo vakasiya. Nditendese ini pandinoti ivo vakapona havakwanisi munzvimbo yakanaka, uye havadi kuti iwe uvaudze izvozvo.
- Iye zvino iwe uchava wakasununguka kusangana nemumwe munhu mutsva. Handina kumbobvira ndatenda kuti chero munhu angakwanisa kutaura zvakadaro kusvikira ndazvinzwa neveveve dzangu mumakore mashomanana akapfuura pamariro emumwe shamwari yepedyo. Murume akapona akazununguka kaviri, akadzungudza musoro wake asingatendi, uye akamanikidza kusemwe asati ati, "Handifungi kudaro." Ipapo akasimuka ndokufamba. Handimupomera mhosva.