Dzivisa Kuda Kwemutemo Paunenge uchitsvaga Imba

Nguva shoma yekutsvaga vanotarisira vagari vepanzvimbo zvichienderana nechikonzero chisarura, vamwe varidzi venyika, vatengesi, nedzimwe vashandi vekugara vanoita maitiro akangwara ezvinyengeri anozivikanwa se "kutungamirira." Izwi iri rinoreva kana mumwe munhu achiedza kugadzirisa sarudzo dzeimba yevakapa kuburikidza nokutungamirira kana kukurudzira munhu kutarisa kune imwe nzvimbo, zvichienderana nehutsika hwakachengetedzwa .

Zvinonyadzisa zvakakwana apo sarudzo dzako dzeimba dzichikwaniswa nehuwandu hwekutsvaga uye nzvimbo dzesarudzo, kana nehuwandu hwekupa zvivako munzvimbo yako.

Asi vashandi vepaimba vanoona chiso chisina mhirizhonga zvipingamupinyi zvinowedzera nenzira yekusaruramisira, mitemo yekugadzirira.

Dzidza Nzira Yokuziva Nayo Kururamisa Kwakashata

Dhipatimendi reDhipatimendi reZvumba neZvokuvaka Urban (HUD) rekuchengetedza dzimba dzakachengetedza dzimba dzinoshandisa maitiro mana emitemo isina kutenderwa. Usati watanga kutsvaga kweimba yako, yakachenjera kuti uzive nekutungamirira kuitira kuti iwe uone iyo uye zvichida ita chimwe chinhu .

Muridzi weimba yako kana imwe nyanzvi yeimba inogona kunge yakabatanidzwa mutemo usingabvumirwi nekuita chero chekutevera:

1. Kukuvhiringidza kubva pakurenda paimba. Panzvimbo pokutaura kuti "Hatibhadhi vanhu vemavara" kana kuti "Hapana mhuri dzakabvumirwa," vamwe vagari venyika vanoti vane marongerwo ehurumende asi nenzira dzisina kuedza vanoedza kukurudzira vagari venyika kuti vaone kune dzimwe nzvimbo zvichienderana nezvikonzero zvinosarura. Zvechokwadi, kana iwe ukataura kuti unoda kubhadhara imba muimba iri pedyo nekutakura kwevanhu, inoshanda kune mwene weimba kuti aratidze kuti chivako chake hachisi pedyo nekutakura kwevanhu uye inokurudzira iwe ungada kutarisa kune imwe nzvimbo.
   
   Asi kana iwe uchitanga kunzwa muridzi wemba kana kuti mutengesi achiita nharo dzekuti nei usingafaniri kufunga chivakwa kana zvinhu zvose pamusoro pazvo zvichiita zvakanaka kwauri, iwe unofanira kufungira kuti vari kuedza kukuendesa kure nechivako nokuda kwechisarudzo chinosarura .
   
   

1. Kukuvhiringidza kubva pakukwereta nokuwedzeredza zvipingamupinyi kana kukundikana kukuudza nezvezvinhu zvinodikanwa zvekuviga kana nzvimbo. Panzvimbo yekuedza kukuratidzai kuti nei iwe uchifanira kufarira mukuvaka kwavo, vamwe vagari vepamba vanogona kusimbisa zvikanganiso, mune tariro kuti zvingakuodza mwoyo.
   
   Kunyange zvisingatauri zvakananga, muridzi weimba angangodaro asingangotambudziki achitaura zvinobatsira zvekugara muchivako kana kunyange munharaunda, nokuda kwechinhu ichocho. Somuenzaniso, kana chivako chine zvinhu zvakadai sedziva rekugezera, padenga reimba, kana nzvimbo yehutano uye muridzi weimba yako kana mutengesi haasi kutaura nezvazvo, funga kuti ipepeti tsvuku iwe uri kutungamirirwa.
   
   

1. Kuratidza kuti iwe haungasunungurwi kana kubvumirana nevamwe vashandi. Imwe nzira yekutungamirira inogona kupfupiswa se "Haisi chivako, ndivo vashandi." Pasi pemamiriro ezvinhu aya, muridzi wemba achaedza kukuodza mwoyo kubva pakubhadhara pachivako nokuti anotenda kuti iwe haungakodzeri kune vamwe vashandi. Kana iwe uri mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, shandisa muridzi wemba kana kuti mutengesi kuti akuudze kuti nei achifunga kuti unenge uine matambudziko nevarimi.
   
   Chikonzero chacho chinogona kuva chakakodzera. Somuenzaniso, iwe unogona kunge wataurira muridzi wemba kana kuti mutengesi uri kutsvaga rugare nerunyararo uye anogona kukuvimbika kuti akuzivise kuti vashandi vazhinji vanofarira kutamba mapato makuru kana kuti masvingo akaonda uye ane minyengetero yakawanda pamusoro pecherechedzo. (Kunyange zvakadaro, zviri kwauri kana iwe uchida kufunga nezvekubhadhara muimba iyoyo.) Asi kana iwe ukanzwa muridzi wemba akati, "Zvakanaka, handifungi kuti vamwe vashandi vanofarira chokwadi chavana vana," iwe unoziva izvi hazvisi pamutemo kutungamira, munyaya iyi zvichienderana nemamiriro emhuri .
   
   
2. Kuedza kukupa kune imwe nzvimbo pasi kana chikamu chechivako. Iyi nzira yekuita maitiro ndeyekusarura. Muchiitiko ichi, muridzi weimba haafariri kubhadhara kune mamwe marudzi evanhu - chero bedzi vanhu ivavo vakodhara dzimba mune imwe chikamu chechivako. Kunyangwe ichi ichi chimiro chisingaoneki chekusarura, rudzi urwu rwekuita maitiro rinowanzoita kuti munhu asarudze kusarura.
   
   Nokudaro, kana iwe uri muMuslim uye pasina nzvimbo dzakasununguka dziri mu "musikana weMuslim" weimba, zvinoreva kuti muridzi weimba anofanira (pasi pechisarudzo chekusarura) anokusiya iwe nekuda kwechitendero chako - kunyange zvazvo pane inogona kunge iri mhizha muimba. Imwe muenzaniso ndeimwe muridzi weimba anoedza kuisa vachengeti vane hurema mune imwe nzvimbo yedambudziko, mukuedza kuderedza kuonekwa kwavo kune vamwe vashandi nevashanyi vavo.