Vamwe Vanhu Vanoita Kuti Vawane Vagari Vagadzikane Kuda Vamwe
Kana uchitarisa munhu waunogara naye, kuenderana kunokosha. Asi izvi zvinorevei kusvika pamhando dzevanhu vamungagara navo ? Semuenzaniso, mushandi wekodhi anowanzoshanda semuvakidzani kupfuura hama?
Ukama hwako hwekugara nemunhu waunogara naye unogona kuita ukama hwakanaka hwekugara nemurume iyeye - kana zvishoma-zvichida.
Heano mutungamiri unobatsira wehupi huri hukama huripo hunoita kuti huve nehukama hwakanaka hwehukama, uye izvo zvingava zvakaoma zvikuru.
Kazhinji Inogona Kubudirira
Ihu hukama hunovimbisa zvakanyanya kuvimbiswa kune chiitiko chinogutsa:
- Shamwari yeshamwari. Shamwari yeshamwari ndeye mukana mukuru nokuti iye atozvipira-kune mumwe munhu waunoziva, kuvimba, uye kumuyemura. Uyezve, chokwadi chokuti iwe unogovana neshamwari inowirirana chinoreva kuti iwe ungave nezvinhu zvakawanda zvakafanana, zvakare. Paunofunga shamwari yeshamwari yako somunhu waunogara naye, pane zvimwe zvishoma iwe unofanirwa kuzvidya mwoyo nazvo, zvinoreva kuti iwe unogona kutarisa pakusarudza kana mukana uye iwe unobatana.
- Acquaintance. Vaya vanobhabhatidzwa vanogona kuva vanhu vamunoziva kubva mubhuku rebhubhu, boka rekutsigira, nzvimbo yekunamatira kana chimwe chiitiko kana nzvimbo. Vadzidzisi vari nani pane vatisingazivi nokuti iwe watovaziva uye unonzwa wakasununguka navo. Uyewo, haufaniri kunetseka pamusoro peukama hwekugara naye unogona kukuvadza ukama hwako neshamwari (sezvaunenge uchida neshamwari), uye zviri nyore kuva nechinangwa chikuru kana uchitarisa kuenderana.
Ramba Uchichenjerera
Aya hukama hunogona kutungamirira kune hukama hwakanaka hwekugara naye, asi iwe unofanira kufungisisa zvimwe zvinetso zvavanosangana nazvo:
- Shamwari. Kusiyana nezvinoitwa nevanhu vakawanda, kugara neshamwari yakanaka haisi chakanaka kana kuti sarudzo yakakwana apo uchitsvaka muvakidzani wakarurama . Kubudirira kwekugara neshamwari ndeyekuti watoziva mumwe nomumwe zvakanaka uye iwe unofanana. Asi kugara neine shamwari kazhinji kunotungamirira kumatambudziko nekuti shamwari dzimwe nguva dzinoita kukanganisa kwekukanganisa kufanana nekuenderana. Kana uri kufunga nezvekubhadhara imba newaive neshamwari yepedyo, taura nekuvimbika pamusoro pekugadzirisa usati waita chisarudzo.
- Co-worker. Ako-mushandi anogona kunge ari mukana akanaka nokuti ndiye munhu waunoziva uye waunofanirana naye chimwe chinhu. Kuuya nemumwe mushandi wekodhi kunogona kuita kuti kufamba kwako kuwedzere kunakidza kana kunyange kwakakosha, kana, somuenzaniso, unogona kutyaira kuti ushande pamwechete. Asi kumwe kungwarira kunodiwa kana uchifunga nezvekushanda pamwe chete semuvakidzani. Kana kambani yako kana dhipatimendi iri duku kana iwe ukashanda pamwe chete nomusarudzo, izvi zvinogona kukonzera mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma. Somuenzaniso, kana iwe newaunoshandira pamwe naye muine maonero akasimba evanhu vakasiyana-siyana kubasa, izvi zvinogona kupa zvinetso kana mumwe wenyu achida kukoka vanhu. Uyewo, kana mumwe wenyu akakurudzirwa apo imwe yacho inobvongodzwa, izvi zvinogona kuumba dambudziko. Chinhu chakakosha ndeye-co-worker mune rimwe dhipatimendi kana pane kambani huru ndiyo yakanakisisa kubheji. Mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu angashanda, asi iwe unofanira kufungisisa zvakananga nezvezvinetso zvingangodaro hukama hwehukama hwekambani hungaita.
- Relative. Iwe haufaniri kuziva vanhu vazhinji, kunze kwevanhu vakaroorana, vanosarudza hama sewagara naye. Kuuya nehama yepedyo, yakadai sehanzvadzi kana hanzvadzi, inogona kuva bhizimisi rine ngozi. Mukoma wekare mukwikwidzani anogona kumutsa panguva yeukama hwekugara uye kukonzera kukakavara kukuru, somuenzaniso. Sezvo kune hama dzinofamba, zvakanyanya kure zviri nani.
- Stranger. Chinetso nekusarudza munhu wausingazivi somunhu waunogara naye ndechokuti zvinoda kunyanya kupfeka. Haisi iwe chete unoda kuona kana munhu akakodzera achienderana, asi unofanira kunzwa wakasununguka zvakakwana nemunhu asati abvuma kugovera imba. Chinangwa chiri mumamiriro ezvinhu aya chinofanira kuva kuzviziva nemumwe musingazivi zvakakwana zvokuti haasisiri mutorwa nenguva yaunobvumirana kutarisa imba pamwe chete. Imwe nzira yakakurumbira yekuwana muvakidzani wakarurama kubva padziva yevasingazivi ndeyekushandisa shanduro dzekugara-inowanikwa paIndaneti .