Chikamu chikuru chebasa rababa vemwenga , kunze kwokubhadhara mari zhinji yemichato , ndeyekupa hurukuro yechato shoma uye / kana mbiriso . Inogona kunge iri pamuchato , pakagamuchirwa, pamabiko emuchato kana chimwe chiitiko chakafanana. Zvimwe kudarika kutamba nemwenga pavanogamuchirwa, panove pasina chiitiko chakakosha kune baba vemwenga. Kutaura kuri munzira dzakawanda kusimbiswa kwekubatanidzwa kwababa. Izvi zvitatu zvemachato zvishomanana zvinokurudzira pfungwa dzakanaka uye zvichawedzera kukudzwa kwechiitiko.
Chero ipi yeiyi baba kumukuru wekuroorana yemwanasikana inogona kushandiswa se-ndeye kana inogona kungoita dzimwe pfungwa dzekutaura iwe pachako.
1. Baba Vasikana
Sezvandinotarisa mukadzi uyu akanaka pamberi pangu mujasi remuchato unofadza, handigoni kubatsira asi fungisisa pamusoro pemusikana waaiva uye mukadzi waaiva. Akava "Baba Vasikana" pazuva raakaberekerwa uye ave ave mutambo kwandiri. Zvose kuburikidza nehupenyu hwake, akaunza mufaro kuna amai vake neni, uye zvisati zvisiri zuva rose rave rakakwana, rudo rwandinonzwa pamusoro pake rwuri.
Uye nhasi, akabatana nemaoko nemurume wechidiki anoshamisa, uye kunze kwekupenya kwandakaona mumaziso ake, nhasi ndinoona rudo nemufaro kune chero chinhu chipi nechipi chandakaona kusvika ikozvino. Iye na [Groom] nhasi vakapedzana mumwe nomumwe sezvavanova mhuri itsva.
Ndapota swederai kwandiri nhasi muchida [Mwenga] na [Groom] mararamiro ose anogoneka uye hupenyu hwakareba uye hunofadza pamwe chete semurume nemudzimai.
2. Mikana dzeMwanasikana
Ndanga ndamirira kwenguva ino kwemakore anopfuura makumi maviri zvino. Kwete kuti ini ndagara ndichitarisira mberi nokuti kwemakore akawanda iwayo ndakashanda nesimba kuti ndidzivirire mwanasikana wangu kuti asarudze izvi zvakare muhupenyu hwake. Asi ini ndinogona kutaura chokwadi kuti ndaiziva kuti zuva rino raizouya uye ndanga ndichiri kufunga pamusoro pezvandingataura maererano nemazano nemafungiro emusikana wangu muduku nemurume wake mutsva.
[Mhandara] nguva dzose ave ane mafungiro ekuitira tsitsi kune avo vakamupoteredza. Zvose kuburikidza nemakore ake echikoro, aidiwa nevose vaimuziva. Akagara achine hanya nezvevamwe vanhu uye ainyanya kuziva avo vasina ruzivo uye zvichida kwete sevakakurumbira. Nguva dzose aitsvaga zvakanakisisa kune vamwe uye akavabatsira kunzwa sevanokosha. Iye zvino pfungwa iyo yetsitsi inosvika pakupedzisira muhupenyu hwake kusvika ikozvino iyo inotarisa kune munhu mumwe waakasarudza kupedza hupenyu hwake hwose. Kuisa tsitsi, rudo, uye simba zvakafanana mumurume wake zvaakaisa kune shamwari dzake zvinoguma noukama hunoshamisa uye ushamwari iye zvino uye nguva dzose.
Nokufamba kwenguva, kubatana uku kuchawedzera sezvinoita [mwenga] uye [murume] vachigamuchira vana mumhuri yavo. [Mhanzvadzi] ichava amai vanoshamisa uye inounza tsika iyo yetsitsi uye kusazvipira muhupenyu hwemwana. Ndiani asingadi kuti amai vave vakanaka, vane tarenda uye vane rudo?
Uyu murume nemudzimai vatsva vasati mava vanhu vaviri anoshamisa uye pamwe chete vanova vaviri vanoshamisa. Rudo nguva dzose, kupomera zvishoma, kukanganwira nokukurumidza uye kugovera zvose. Iva neshamwari dzakanakisisa dzevamwe, uchisiya shure kweumwe humwe hukama hunogona kuita kuti iwe uise mumwe mberi kweumwe wako.
Vhura mwoyo yenyu kune mumwe nemumwe uye edzai imba yenyu kutanga. Dai Mwari akomborera kubatana kwako uye akuunza iwe mufaro mukuru nhasi uye nguva dzose.
3. Mavambo matsva
Kuroorana, sekuberekwa, kuratidza kutanga kwekutanga. Zuva randakadzokera kumba kubva kuchipatara mushure mokunge [Mukadzi] aberekwa kwaiva kutanga kwangu. Kuva baba vemwanasikana kwakaratidzika kunge kwakanyanya kudarika asi kutarisira kwoupenyu hwake uye nekuda kweukama hwedu kwakandibatsira kukunda kutya kwangu uye kushanda nesimba kuti ndive baba vakakodzera mwanasikana akadaro.
Nhasi, isu takamira pane imwe chivako chitsva se [Mhanzvadzi] uye [Groom] kutanga mhuri itsva. Kufanana neni, vanove vakazadzwa nekunzwa kusuruvara zvishoma pazviri, asi manzwiro iwayo achazununguka muhurukuro huru sezvavanotarisira hupenyu hwavo hutsva pamwechete uye sezvavanovaka hukama hucharamba huchiedza nguva.
Ivai vechokwadi kune mumwe nemumwe nguva dzose; igovanai mufaro wenyu nemitoro yenyu; ida zvikuru uye kuseka zvakanyanya; ivai shamwari yepamwoyo. Nguva dzose taura zvakanaka kune mumwe nemumwe, kunyange tiri voga. Uye kana zvinhu zvisingafambi zvakanaka, kangamwira kakawanda sezvinodiwa. Upenyu hwewanano chinhu chinonakidza uye iwe unotanga nhasi pane izvozvi zvinonakidza pamwe chete. Kunyangwe iwe uri munhu, sungano yako nhasi inoita kuti vaviri vacho vave vakakosha kudarika imwe yako iwe pachako.
Rimwe zuva, kana iwe wakaropafadzwa sezvandakamboita, iwe ucharamba uchishamiswa nehupenyu hutsva huchipinda mumhuri yako. Izvo zvichava imwe kutanga, izere nekutya uye kutarisira. Ita kune ukama ihwohwo chiyero chakafanana cherudo uye kuzvipira kwaunoita kumuchato wako, uye iwe uchawana mufaro usinganzwisisiki.
Saka nhasi, shamwari dzako nemhuri zvinokupoteredza iwe paunotanga chimwe chinhu chitsva uye chinoshamisa. Yeuka zvipikirwa zvako, uzvichengete nemoyo wako wose, uye iwe uchava nechinangwa chemufaro uye chishamiso chinopfuura zvose zvawakaziva kare. Ne moyo wangu wose, ndinokupa kukukwa kwangu uye zvido zvinoshuva sezvaunotanga hupenyu hwemazuva ano hunofanirwa kupa.