Nzira Nzira dzekuwana Rubatsiro Kupenya Snow

Zvimwe une mai vakwegura vanogara vari voga uye vane arthritis. Nguva yose yechando, iyo hondo yako kuti uwane mumwe munhu kuti afukidze chando kwaari. Mazano anopiwa pasi apa anogona kunge anokosha zvikuru kwauri. Vakawanda vakura vanozvikudza vanogara vari voga (uye vamwe vasingakwanisi kuita basa rakaoma) vanowana kuwana rubatsiro kuchengetedza gwara , mbambo , poraki, nezvimwewo zvakajeka munguva yechando chimwe chezvipingamupinyi zvikurusa kuzvimiririra kwavo. Asi nekutsungirira, unogona kuwana mumwe munhu kuti afukidze chando iwe kana kuti hama yakwegura, nokudaro iwe nekuchengeta mhuri yako kufara nekuchengeteka munguva yechando yakareba. Heino nzira:

• 01 ye 09

  Tarisa Nekurima Purogiramu

  Mukukuratidza kuti ungawana sei munhu kuti afukidze chando, nzira mbiri dzekutsvaga rubatsiro dzichaiswa: Zvatingazonzi "zvakananga" uye "zvisina kuratidza" nzira. Kutanga zvakananga.

  Iwe wakatotora basa rekurima kuti ubvise gwara rako here? Zvino iwe unongoda kuwana mumwe munhu kuti afukidze chishuvo kwauri kune walkways nedzimwe nzvimbo iyo chirima hachikwanisi kuwana. Kana zvakadaro, iwe watova nekutaura zvakananga. Bvunza basa rekurima kana, kuti vawane mari yakawanda, ivo vachakutsvairai chando nokuda kwenyu. Kana vakataura kuti kwete, pinda mumuzinda wavo wevanyori nekuvabvunza kana vachiziva ani zvake anoita.

  Kunyangwe kana basa rekurima richiita foshoro yechando nokuda kwekuwedzera mari, iyo yakawanda yefodhu yavanoita ingave isina kukwana. Asi hazvikuvadzi kutaurirana.

• 02 of 09

  Tarisa Nekwenyasi Inotarisira Zvimwe

  Kubatana hakugone kunge sekuita sekuita basa rekurima, asi vamwe vanhu vanomhanya mishonga yekuchengetedza michina vanotarisa kuti vawane mari muchando nefoshuvha yechando. Hazvikuvadzi kubvunza, uye, zvakare, kana iwe uchirwiswa, wadii kuisa mumutambo wavo wevanosangana navo nokuvabvunza kana vachiziva ani zvake anoshambadzira chando? Vanhu vari munharaunda yekugadzirisa yadhi vanokurukura nemazana evanhu pazuva vari kutsvaga nzira dzekuwana mari yakawedzerwa. Sezvakare kutaura kwekare, "Hove uko hove dziri."

  Kana iwe ikozvino usingashandisi kurima kana kushandiswa kwemashanga, shandisa Yellow Pages kuti uwane dzimwe nhamba uye utange kurira pamba. Mibvunzo yakadaro inowanzova ine zvibereko kudarika kubvunzana nemumwe munhu waunenge uchiziva, asi iwe hausi kuda kusiya chero upi zvake usina kudzidza.

• 03 of 09

  Tarisa Nezvikoro Zvinozivikanwa Pakubatsira Vanhu

  MuAccarcar Street Yakanzi Desire , Blanche akadaidzira, "Ndakagara ndichivimba nemutsa wevasingazivi." Blanche angangodaro akave akazvimiririra zvakare , asi haisi pfungwa yakaipa yekukurukura masangano (semuenzaniso, machechi) ane mbiri yekubatsira uye oita kuti vazive kuti uri kutsvaga munhu kuti afukidze chando.

  Semuenzaniso, amai vemunyori vainzi boka reMu Boy Scouts, vachitsanangura kuti akanga achiedza kuwana munhu kuti afukidze chando. Mhinduro yaakagamuchira yakaratidza kuvimbiswa, zvisinei kuti hazvina kuitika kuzosangana nezvido zvake. Akaudzwa kuti, hongu, paiva nevana vaikwanisa kuposhera chando, asi bedzi kune nzvimbo yedhorobha (uko dzimba dziri mukati mechipfuvirane). Kurarama sezvaanoita munharaunda iri kunze, kutasva kunofanira kupiwa.

• 04 of 09

  Tsvaga Munhu Anoshevedza Snow Uyo Asingaregi Kungozi

  Saka nokuti iwe unowana mumwe munhu anoda kuveza yechando, izvo hazvirevi kuti dambudziko rako rinogadziriswa. Kana vasina zvifambiso zvavo, vangave vasina kukodzera iwe. Izvozvo zvinowanzosiya vana vanobva pane zvaunoda. Mhinduro yako kune iyo yekuziva ingave, "Zvakanaka, ndichawana mumwe munhu akwegura."

  Kuyenzerana. Iwe unogona kuguma uchiwana mumwe munhu kuti afukidze chando uyo mukuru uye ane motokari yake. Asi iwe unofanirwa kufanotaurwa pamusoro pechinhu chimwe:

  Kune zviitiko umo vanhu vakuru vapa kupa foshoro yechando nokuda kwezvinangwa zveshungu. Ava vanogadzira mifananidzo vanoda chikonzero chekutora nzvimbo yako, sepamberi yekuba. Kana mumwe munhu achikuita kuti urege kugadzikana, vimba netsika dzako uye urambe mabasa avo.

• 05 of 09

  Tsvaga Munhu Kuti Anyore Snow paCraigslist

  Vanhu vanowanzotumira matandesi kuCraigslist, vachitarisa kuti vafukidze chando pamutengo. Kana iwe usati uri weWeb-savvy, izvi zvingaita sezvinotyisa kukurudzira, asi ini ndichakufamba pane zvaunoda kuita:

  1. Tora http://craigslist.org muchikwata chako chebhokisi.
  2. Muruoko rworudyi-kona, chengeta pane guta riri pedyo newe.
  3. Muchikamu chekuruboshwe-ruoko, pasi pese paunoona "tsvaga tsvaga," tsvaga bhokisi raunogona kuverenga.
  4. Mubhokisi iroro, chengetedza "chando chefoshoro," inotevedzwa nezita reguta rako nehurumende.
  5. Mubhokisi riri pasi peyoyo, sarudza "mazano".
  6. Hit Enter.
  7. Tarisa mitsva yako (chenganisa zvisungo).

  Migumisiro inowanzopa nhamba yefoni uye / kana kero ye-email yekutumira. Zvakare, kunyange zvakadaro, vimba maronda ako kana chimwe chinhu chisinganzwisisi zvakanaka kana munhu wacho achidzoka kwauri.

• 06 of 09

  Tarisa Local Bulletin Boards yeZvesa

  Kutanga nepfungwa iri pamusoro, isu takatamira kune "nzira dzisinganzwisisiki" nzira yekutsvaga mumwe munhu kuti afukidze chando. Iyi nzira inosanganisira kushandisa munhu wepakati, kana iwe uchida, panzvimbo pokutaura zvakananga kumunhu nekuita chikumbiro chako.

  Kunze kwekushandisa yeWebhu, kune nzira yakanaka yekare yekuwana kuti ndiani ari kupa mazamu: Ita rutsoka runoshanda (kunyange, zviri pachena, izvi zvingave zvisina kukodzera kune vakaremara zvikuru). Vakawanda vanoda kugadzira mazai echando pamapepanhau, vachiaisa pamapuraneti emashoko emabhizimisi emunharaunda. Mienzaniso yenzvimbo dzinogona kunge (zvichienderana netsika dzomunharaunda) kuva nemapuraneti aya ndeokuti:

  1. General store
  2. Chitoro
  3. Gas station
  4. Supermarket
  5. Cafe

  Vamwe vanogona kutumira zvizivo mumapepanhau.

• 07 of 09

  Kushandisa chipo cheGab

  Kuwana chipo chegab kunogona kuuya zvakakwana paunenge uchiedza kuwana mumwe munhu kuti afukidze chando kwauri. Iwe uri rudzi rworudzi runoita hurumende hurukuro nevanhu kana iwe uri kunze uye pamusoro? Zvadaro zvichava nyore kwauri kutendeuka kubva kune-chat-chat pamusoro pemamiriro ekunze echando kuti uchiti, "Gee, zviri pachena kuti zvakaoma kuwana mumwe munhu kuti akufukidze chando iwe nhasi!" Iwe hauzive kuti nderudzii rwemashoko akadaro mazwi angabereka.

  Funga nezvevanhu vose vamunopinda mukati mezuva:

  1. Vashandi pamwe chete.
  2. Vashandi vepapositi.
  3. Vanhu vari mu beauty beauty salon kana shapu shopu.
  4. Iko nyanzvireki muchengeti wese anoziva bhizimisi revanhu vose.
  5. "Regulars" pachitoro chekofi.

  Mumwe wavo akasungirwa kuti atange mutungamiri, zvishoma.

• 08 of 09

  Tarisa ku Senior Citizens Centers

  Usakanganwa zviri pachena. Kana iwe wakwegura uye uri kunetseka kuwana mumwe munhu kuti afukidze chando, zvirokwazvo iwe hausi woga. Vamwe vangave vari muchikepe chimwechete - kana kuti vave munguva yakapfuura. Vamwe vangave vakawana mhinduro yezvinetso zvavo, sarudzo iyo ivo vachafara chaizvo kukugoverana newe.

• 09 of 09

  Kuchengetedza Mumwe Munhu Kuti Anyore Snow Iwe

  Kuwana chinhu chimwe chete; kuchengeta imwe. Kazhinji, kune zviito zvaunogona kutora kuti uwedzere mikana yekuchengetedza mabasa eumwe munhu.

  Hasi yose fodhuvha mabasa yakasikwa yakaenzana. Kana pakave nedutu guru rechando, kana kana kuchena kwezvinhu zvakachena kune mvura yakasviba kupfuura yakasara (kuchiita kuti zviwedzerere), kuripa munhu akawedzerwa nokuda kwebasa. Usaita kuti vakukumbire mari yakawedzerwa, varatidze kuti unokoshesa basa ravo nokuzvipira kuripa (uchifunga kuti une mari yakawedzerwa). Vamwe vanhu vanonyara uye vakarurama havazovhenekeri nguva inotevera apo pane chando chakakura, pane kukumbira zvimwe.

  O, uye kana mumwe munhu achienda mberi kwekudanwa kwebasa, chikwangwani chiri mukugadzirira-kunyange kana chiri mukombe wekofi chete.