Mhemberero dzekuzvipira dzaiwanzofungidzirwa kuti dzakachengetwa chete nevarume vanoita zvepabonde vakaroorana, asi varume vanoita zvepabonde nemurume mumwe chete vanogona kubvumirana nomutemo iye zvino kuti kuroorana kwepabonde imwechete kwakagamuchirwa zviri pamutemo muUnited States munaJune 2015. zvinokonzera kudikanwa kwemitambo yekuzvipira, asi kune vakawanda vakaroorana, gayana uye vakarurama, vanosarudza kuva navo.
Chero chero vaviri vanogona kubatana pamwe chete mumutambo wokuzvipira. Ivo vakawanda vakaroorana vasingatsvaki kuroorwa nemutemo, asi vachiri kuda kuva netsika uye tsika dzechato uye vachikwanisa kupemberera rudo rwavo kune umwe neumwe nemhuri dzavo neshamwari.
Sezvo chiitiko chekuzvipira hachisi chepamutemo, mumwe munhu anogona kukuroora iwe. Inogona kuva shamwari yepedyo, nhengo yemhuri kana mutungamiriri wechitendero.
Shamwari kana nhengo yemhuri
Paunofunga kubvunza shamwari kana nhengo yemumhuri kuti akuroorane newe, funga kuti kana kwete ivo vanonzwa vakasununguka vachitaura pachena. Uyu munhu anofanira kumira pamberi pevateereri uye kutaura zvakananga uye nyore.
Funga nezvevanhu vamunoziva kuti vakave nemakore akawanda, mararamiro akabudirira kana masangano, sezvo vachiwanzova nemashoko euchenjeri okutaura pamusoro pemhando yorudo uye muchato.
Mutungamiriri wechitendero
Kana uri kutsvaga mutungamiri wechitendero akagadzwa, taura nemushumiri kana rabbi kubva muungano yako.
Vadzidzisi vanogona kunge vachida kuita chibvumirano kana vachikuziva iwe pachako, unzwisise hukama hwako uye uone kuti sei iwe usingadi kuroora.
Kana iwe uri kuita kune imwechete-zvepabonde pamwe neungano yako kana kutenda hakuzozvizivi, funga imwe yemachechi akawanda anoita, kusanganisira kereke ya Unitarian uye Metropolitan Community Church.
Unitarian ministers, kunyanya, vanozivikanwa sevanoshamisa kunzwisisa nekuremekedza zvekutenda kwevamwe uye havadi kuti iwe utendeuke kune chitendero. Zvitendero zvizhinji zvinosarudza chisarudzo kune vafundisi mumwe nomumwe, kusanganisira Episcopalian, Protestant, Buddhist uye Reform yechiJudha.
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Mushure mekunge Makasarudza Yenyu Yakakosha
Mutungamiri wenyu anofanira kunge aripo iwe panguva yekuroorana kwekuroorana kuti uende pamusoro pehutano hwebasa, izvo zvingave zvichitaura, kuti iwe uchaita sei mhiko uye chero chavanokumbira ungano kuti iite, kureva kumira kana kufugama kune zvimwe zvikamu, vanobatana mukuimba kana pamwe chete kubakomborera kubatana.
Kana pasina munhu iwe waunonzwa wakakodzera kuita mhemberero, funga kuita saizvozvo iwe pachako. Muchiitiko ichi, unogona kugamuchira munhu wose uye kuvonga nekuuya. Iwe unogona kutaura mazwi mashomanana pamusoro pokuti kuva nemhemberero yevoruzhinji inokosha kwauri, kana kutaura pamusoro pezvawakasangana uye nhoroondo yakawanda yehukama hwako. Iwe unobva wataura zvawakapika, kupindira zvindori, kutora chikamu mumutambo wokubatana, nezvimwewo.
Ndinokurudzira kuti iwe uine zvinhu zvose zvakagadzirwa nepamusoro kana kuva nhaurirano yakanaka yekuverenga, sezvo iwe usiri kuzova nemunhu anokuudza zvaunofanira kutaura uye kuverenga kubva pamakadhi ekutarira kuchaona zvishoma zvishoma.