Yakawanda mapoka ekare aida nzvimbo yakachengeteka yekuenderera mberi kwemarudzi, mararamiro emitemo ekugadzirisa kupiwa kodzero dzepfuma, uye kudzivirirwa kweropa. Imba yewanano yakabata zvido izvi. Somuenzaniso, muchiHebheru chekare, mutemo waida murume kuti ave murume wechirikadzi yehama yakafa.
Kwenguva Yakadii Kuroorana Kwave Kuvepo
Muchato unobva kuMiddle English iyo yakatanga kuonekwa muna 1250-1300 CE.
Zvisinei, sangano rekare ringangodaro raitangira zuva rino. Chinangwa chikuru chemuchato, pakutanga, chaiva chekuita sehukama pakati pemhuri. Munhoroondo yose, uye kunyange nhasi, mhuri dzakarongedza michato yevakaroorana. Vakawanda vakaroorana havana kuroora nokuti vakanga vari murudo, asi kune hutano hwezvemari. Vanhu vaibatanidzwa vakanga vasina zvakawanda zvokutaura pamusoro pechisarudzo ipapo, uye kazhinji havaiti nhasi, kana.
Vakadzi uye Vakaroorana
Munyika yedu yemazuva ano, mimwe michato inowanikwa neproxy , imwe inosanganisira dowry (mhuri yemwenga ichipa mari kana zvipo kumuwani kana kumhuri yake,) uye vamwe vanoda mari yemwenga (muroori kana mhuri yake kupa mari kana chipo kune mhuri yemwenga). Vashomanana vanogona kunge vane ukama hwekufambidzana kana kufambidzana, asi vazhinji vane tsika dzakadzika midzi.
Nguva dzakasiyana dzenguva uye tsika dzakasiyana-siyana dzine nhoroondo dzakawandisa kana zvasvika kune vakadzi. Yekare yeEgipita, munyaya, yakapa vakadzi vakadzikodzero, asi yakanga isiri nguva dzose.
Vakadzi veMiddletime, kune rumwe rutivi, vakatarisana nemabasa maviri echitendero nekuroorana.
Tsika dzeTsika
Imwe inenge inenge yakasikwa yose yakaroorana nemitambo ndeyeyendori yekubatana. Iyi tsika inogona kudhindwa kumashure yeVaRoma vekare. Zvinotendwa kuti kutenderera kwechindori kunomiririra nekusingaperi. Nokudaro, kupfeka zvindori zvemuchato kunofananidzira kubatana kunogara nokusingaperi.
Ichokwadi, yaimbofungidzirwa kuti mutsara kana mutsara wakanyatsobuda kubva "munyore" wemunwe kuruoko rworuboshwe kusvika pamwoyo.
Kune marudzi akawanda ewanano aripo nhasi:
- Mutemo Wemutemo Wemhuri: Imba isina kukodzera uye yepamutemo inobatanidza vanhu vachiroorwa nekuda kwekugara pamwechete kwechinguva.
- Cousin Kuroorana: Kuroorana pakati pevanun'una. Kune mamiriro makumi maviri nemaviri anotendera mhuri yekutanga yemukaro.
- Endogamy: Tsika yekuroora mukati memiganhu yenharaunda yega.
- Exogamy: Kana iwe ukaroora kunze kwemhuri kana rudzi.
- Monogamy: Kuroora munhu mumwe chete panguva.
- Polyandry: Vakadzi vane varume vanopfuura.
- Barika: Muitiro wokuva nemunhu anopfuura mumwechete panguva imwe chete.
- Polygyny: Murume ane mudzimai anopfuura mumwe chete.
- Ndochani Ndochato : Vakabatana vemurume mumwechete vakaroorwa.
Kuroora uye Chitendero
Pfungwa yekuroorana se sacramente, uye kwete chibvumirano, inogona kuteverwa kuna St. Paul uyo akaenzanisa ukama hwomurume nemudzimai kune hwaKristu nechechi yake (VaEf. V, 23-32).
Joseph Campbell, muSimba reNhema , anotaura kuti mazana ezana remakore rechigumi nemazana emakore aive ari avo vakatanga kufunga nezvekuratidza rudo rwemukati nenzira imwecheteyo yatinoita iye zvino. Mhedziso yose yekudanana haina kumbovapo kusvikira panguva dzepakati pemazuva uye mhuka dzinotyisa.
Papa Nicholas Ini ndakashuma muna 866, "Kana kubvumirana kusipo muchato, mamwe mhemberero, kunyange kana musangano uchingopera, zvinoshandiswa pasina." Izvi zvinoratidza kukosha kwemvumo yevamwe vaviri kuroorana. Yakaramba iine chikamu chinokosha chekudzidzisa kwechechi nemitemo yekuroorana kuburikidza nemakore.
Mhemberero Mhemberero
Ikoko kwakaonekwa kuva nemichato yakawanda ichiitika pasina uchapupu kana mhemberero muma1500. Dare reTrent rakavhiringidzika neizvi, zvokuti vakarayira muna 1563 kuti michato inofanira kuve ichipemberera pamberi pevapristi pamwe nevapupu vaviri. Imba yakatora basa idzva rekuponesa varume nevakadzi kubva pakuva vatadzi uye vachikumbira. Rudo rwaisava chinhu chakakosha chekuroorana munguva ino.
Makore gare gare, vaPuritan vaiona kuroorana seukama hwakakomborerwa hwakaita kuti vakaroorana vave nomukana wekuda nekuregerera.
Nhasi, vanhu vazhinji vanofunga kuti pasinei nokuti vanhu vanopinda sei muchikwata, kuroorana isungano pakati pevanhu vaviri inosanganisira mutoro nemitemo, pamwe nekuzvipira uye dambudziko. Iko pfungwa yekuroorana haina kuchinja kuburikidza nemakore.